I’m sure you are all riveted, but I’ll go on anyway: he wrote a note tonight after calling earlier (I didn’t answer), where he was all cute with me. Didn’t ask me any questions, so I will continue leaning back. But this note was longer than any quick responses to my recent notes, and was cute/flirty.

And, I’m [obviously] hoping he comes forward a lot, again. (We’re “on a break,” now, yes, still.)

He’s back!

There is nothing, he was emotionless toward me.
I did not react.
went about my days and things i had going on.
Still nothing.
We Just passed each other on the way out or in.

day 4 now – and still nothing.
not a look, a nice word, a gesture

Nothing..

: – (

Goodheart, which CD set did you get? I’m torn about which to get. I kind of wish there were a complete set. I also think basically that “it’s never too late,” so while I was too available too, and per heartbeat’s comment, I try to note what is manifested per our law of attraction list/s, and concentrate on that. I did manifest that relationship, and he is lovely [also] so I keep my law of attraction thing and since it is moldable, have added a few other things to it, and feel confident and as if they are there already.

Daria, thanks so much for your note re Ericka and EFT. It is that that, while I believe it, I’m not entirely certain how to incorporate that into LOA. I’ve heard that people do, so, I’d love to get in touch with Ericka for some clarification and help with exactly how to do that. From what I have read, I am guessing that I might not be at the source of my own personal issue/s. And I’m not entirely sure how to get there. From what I have read and tried, it feels a smidge like I am making things up, which I felt like when I went once to a hypnotist to understand myself better. :-\

Anyway, I really thank everyone for your comments — you are all awesome, and really nice. I feel so good having found this spot.

*Per the title of this post page, I’ve leaned back… with anticipation.

And then let it go and be surprised.

Some days, weeks, are dull and chaotic… as I sink down out of consciousness… the old stories and feelings of unworthiness, the need for control and the frustrations that brings… take over. Until I hit the deep sadness, rage and powerlessness and rise again, relieved and born anew. Relieved of the need to be in charge. Relieved of the need to be masculine.

LOA has three parts – Gratitude, Focus on that which is desired (including using full imagination to bring it to life), and Action. The action is masculine and for ourselves only, in service of the feminine, not leaning forward to another. The action is a baby step in the direction desired.

Rori has many many parts! So many tools which take us, baby step by baby step, into our bliss.

xxxx

I had a very similar situation to what you are referring to. I attracted an amazing man into my life just by focusing on all the qualities I want in a partner. He had most of them. It fizzled, however, after a few months as I was not focusing on my desires & I was being too gosh darn available to the guy. Many things that I’m seeing clearly now – now that it’s too late. I am refocusing on my desires now & I also believe I attracted this website & tools into my life to help me once I attract a great guy again (hopefully soon!) so he won’t get away this time!

As far as emailing each other, I don’t know any way other than to just exchange emails. I don’t mind giving mine out if you’d like to chat about this some more. I am really new at all of this & am drinking in all the information I can. One day I thinking I’m really grasping everything & the next I feel lost.

a whole bunch of us use law of attraction stuff as well as EFT. I know i do.

Erika is a certified EFT specialist.

And yes, I believe as Rori does, that men can feel our vibe from clear across the country.

Now that things are officially on a break with this ‘dream’ guy, and right now in particular, I’m wodnering what this community thinks of using Rori leaning back, and feeling messages, but IN lean back times.

What I mean is, what if I only THINK them, until he contacts me anyway, like thinking or using law of attraction combined with Rori things, like thinking, “I feel so mad at Dan for cutting off contact.” Though while reading my list of desired things, a la law of attraction principles??

Is that officially cuckoo? Or what? I’m not speaking with him currently, so what can it really hurt.

But, just wondering if anyone else here does LOA things, and if they combine Rori advice, which I find quite sage, with law of attraction things? Also curious to hear more about the use of EFT, which they didnt’ spell out here, but is emotional freedom technique (if I’m remembering correctly), and would love to hear from that person. Also, can we email each other somehow?

Thanks.

M.