Have The Relationship You Want

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I’m writing to tell you to not give up on your dream of having the man and the relationship you truly want and so deserve.

No matter what.

Every woman I talk to thinks there’s something wrong with her and that it’s “too late.”

And I’m here to tell you that’s just not true.  That’s just a load of crap a bunch of people who don’t know ANYTHING tell us every single day on television and in the news.

Here’s a letter from Helene:

“Rori, I don’t want to do this anymore…I am tired of trying….when I did not try for 26 years no one was there and when I try now…only losers are there.  I am too old….50… and no one ever looked at me till I shoved at them.

For 50 years I cultivated myself…took art and music lessons, got a Bachelors degree, became successful in my job…got my own car, house, vacations….BUT NEVER ANYONE TO SHARE IT WITH!!!! Everything I have read, prayed for and tried these last 3 years has not worked.

I am working too hard in my current relationship, and when I tried the Lean Back, he said ‘…fine we will not see each other if you don’t do the work.’ He said he ‘never had to work in the past to get or keep a woman, he will not start now.’ So it is him or no one….I guess it is no one. If I did not attract anyone when I was young and better looking what do I expect now at age 50? Helene”

***Here’s my answer:

1.  It’s not too late - I work with women in their 60’s and even 70’s who are finding great men (and I mean a LOT of them) and getting into committed, fulfilling, satisfying relationships

   Your ATTITUDE and DECISION that it’s too late is an EASY way for you to not take responsibility for YOUR part in LEARNING HOW to get and keep the love you want.

   I started my work because I knew first hand how hard it is to get the help and information you need.

   All of us women have been taught the WRONG way to go about relating to men, and so many of us have had so many horrible experiences in our lives we’ve been almost “trained” to believe that “this pain is all there is.”

   So many of us even confuse pain with love - because pain is all we know.

   And as I found out - pain is only a part of “The Soup” of emotions and of life that you can learn to USE to GET YOU to LOVE.

2.  The Leanback is only one tiny little Tool in the Rori Raye method.  It’s only part of Step 1 and 2 of the 7 Steps to Triggering His Lifelong Commitment that I pull apart and teach you in my Commitment Blueprint program.

   The HUGE, IMPORTANT part that you’re missing entirely here is “The Invitation” part (it’s Step 3 in the Blueprint).

   The LeanBack alone can be totally cold if you don’t understand the whole picture of how a man works. Once you’ve stripped down all your Overfunctioning (as you started to do) it’s CRUCIAL that you quickly learn to OPEN UP to a man the MOMENT he starts coming toward you.

   This is about my Feeling Messages - and the Rori Raye Dance Position - which is all about WARMTH.

3.  Doing the LeanBack WORKED.  It smoked out a man who’s a total narcissist (all about himself ONLY) and has no idea how give-and-take work in a relationship.

   It’s not possible to say YES to a great man who is CAPABLE of doing a relationship until you start saying NO to the one’s who aren’t capable.

   This is huge for you.

So - Do This:

Either get any one of my programs (go to my Catalog page to look at and listen to them all - Each program touches on the basics that are in my essential starting place - my eBook) - or go back through my eLetters a far as you can to piece together the Strong on the Inside, Soft on the Outside Tools - They are about inner Strength and outer WARMTH.

I know this will help you.

Don’t give up!

Love, Rori