Comments on: Feel Good Naked http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/ Marriage & Relationship Advice From Rori Raye Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:03:11 +0000 hourly 1 By: Uschi http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-15513 Uschi Tue, 08 Sep 2009 03:52:42 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-15513 I have always felt that there is something special out there for me and that someday I see it - I am still waiting but what is written above about looking at yourself naked - maybe that would be part of it - I just always thought that the "special" comes from somewhere - maybe its been there all along - though I have not felt it or thought about it or tried what Rori said to do. Maybe I am just to critical cause in my mind I am still a young fresh girl and when I look into the mirror well I see the real me and I just don't want to deal with that reality. Cause the real me shows the disappointments and everything in the face and the body that had 3 children and has not worked out recently I have always felt that there is something special out there for me and that someday I see it – I am still waiting but what is written above about looking at yourself naked – maybe that would be part of it – I just always thought that the “special” comes from somewhere – maybe its been there all along – though I have not felt it or thought about it or tried what Rori said to do. Maybe I am just to critical cause in my mind I am still a young fresh girl and when I look into the mirror well I see the real me and I just don’t want to deal with that reality. Cause the real me shows the disappointments and everything in the face and the body that had 3 children and has not worked out recently

]]> By: Vaginal Surgery http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-14817 Vaginal Surgery Tue, 25 Aug 2009 19:04:58 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-14817 Rori, Thanks for sharing this article. I have worked with hundreds of women who don't feel good about their vagina following vaginal delivery. Women who feel loose following childbirth should know that they have options. We all deserve to feel great and sexy. Thanks...Vanessa Rori,
Thanks for sharing this article. I have worked with hundreds of women who don’t feel good about their vagina following vaginal delivery. Women who feel loose following childbirth should know that they have options. We all deserve to feel great and sexy. Thanks…Vanessa

]]> By: Linda http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4777 Linda Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:45:16 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4777 What am I doing up. I should be in bed!.. I came back to this post because you all helped me so much. The guy I mentioned ealier... well we talked a few more times and met a couple. He is a nice guy but all he talked about was his kids and what his soon to be exwife was doing to him and them.... blah blah blah. He told me so much about what the big picture would our might me if we were an item that I was totally turned off by him.What woman would want a man 6 years older than her (at my age that is a big deal LOL), two wounded kids that dont want anything to do with their mom and a man who was moving to a house his Dad gave him because he was going to be broke after the divorce was final. UMMMM NOT ME! I guess in my leaning back and listening, I heard loud and clear....RUN.. RUN FAST as you can! I learned some things about myself. I learned by what he did what not to do on my end. "Spill your guts" Oh such an ugly thing! I learned I have made progress. First, I am no longer feeling desperate for a relationship. I must be attracted to the man and on that I was not going to budge. I entertained the thought but no way.... That I have some goals and a way I want to be connected to a man is a must and I that I am not willing to compromise on. OHHH the most important thing... NOT TO LIVE IN MY HEAD but follow my intuition and heart. That is the seat of peace within me. So.. all in all I will chalk it up to a good experience. I feel a bit bad that he seemed so interested in me..and I was not able to return the same sentiment. He just kept calling me, he just had an annoying edge that he called honesty, but left me feeling cold and ick! The good side? he sorta make me feel good because was obviously taken with me. I just had to let him know that I just did not feel the connection with him that I am looking for. IT FELT SO GOOD TO HAVE THE COURAGE TO SAY THAT! Maybe now I can sleep. Linda What am I doing up. I should be in bed!..

I came back to this post because you all helped me so much. The guy I mentioned ealier… well we talked a few more times and met a couple. He is a nice guy but all he talked about was his kids and what his soon to be exwife was doing to him and them…. blah blah blah.

He told me so much about what the big picture would our might me if we were an item that I was totally turned off by him.What woman would want a man 6 years older than her (at my age that is a big deal LOL), two wounded kids that dont want anything to do with their mom and a man who was moving to a house his Dad gave him because he was going to be broke after the divorce was final. UMMMM NOT ME! I guess in my leaning back and listening, I heard loud and clear….RUN.. RUN FAST as you can! I learned some things about myself. I learned by what he did what not to do on my end. “Spill your guts” Oh such an ugly thing!

I learned I have made progress. First, I am no longer feeling desperate for a relationship. I must be attracted to the man and on that I was not going to budge. I entertained the thought but no way…. That I have some goals and a way I want to be connected to a man is a must and I that I am not willing to compromise on. OHHH the most important thing… NOT TO LIVE IN MY HEAD but follow my intuition and heart. That is the seat of peace within me. So.. all in all I will chalk it up to a good experience.

I feel a bit bad that he seemed so interested in me..and I was not able to return the same sentiment. He just kept calling me, he just had an annoying edge that he called honesty, but left me feeling cold and ick! The good side? he sorta make me feel good because was obviously taken with me. I just had to let him know that I just did not feel the connection with him that I am looking for. IT FELT SO GOOD TO HAVE THE COURAGE TO SAY THAT! Maybe now I can sleep.

Linda

]]> By: Ann http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4775 Ann Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:26:42 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4775 Hello ladies, I've been without power since the evening of Jan 27th. That FELT yucky!. But I also did something that felt a little silly. I was telling my daughter last night about this post and how I'd been standing in front of the mirror topless till the lights went out. And she said well do it in the daylight then. I did today, we got lights back tonight about a hour ago. I feel SOOOO happy. Glad to be back. Hello ladies, I’ve been without power since the evening of Jan 27th. That FELT yucky!. But I also did something that felt a little silly. I was telling my daughter last night about this post and how I’d been standing in front of the mirror topless till the lights went out. And she said well do it in the daylight then. I did today, we got lights back tonight about a hour ago. I feel SOOOO happy. Glad to be back.

]]> By: Daria http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4544 Daria Fri, 30 Jan 2009 08:10:51 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4544 Hi Cookie, I've been doing it the same way Love Your Body is. Except I look at my face in the mirror, and if I soft focus I dont really see it clearly... I take my attention to my chest, as If I'm looking from my heart, which feels kinda like a little kid heart, open and it feels happy or sad... and I say STOP whenever I feel a judgement and move back to looking through my heart... I'm only getting a few seconds in, I think that is enough though it has reverb effects... Hi Cookie,

I’ve been doing it the same way Love Your Body is. Except I look at my face in the mirror, and if I soft focus I dont really see it clearly… I take my attention to my chest, as If I’m looking from my heart, which feels kinda like a little kid heart, open and it feels happy or sad… and I say STOP whenever I feel a judgement and move back to looking through my heart… I’m only getting a few seconds in, I think that is enough though it has reverb effects…

]]> By: alias girl http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4538 alias girl Fri, 30 Jan 2009 05:37:15 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4538 i feel happy and uplifted reading daria and cookie's exchange. i am really smiling. giggling even. i think i may take a bath right now. aaaahhhh that sounds good. i Love being a girl. i didn't quite get into it when i was younger i was too busy just trying to freaking survive and be tough and protected. but being a girl is soooooooooooo much fun. and i can sort of jump into boy sometimes and then ahhhhhh go back to being a lovely soft self pampering, interested in how things look and feel and taste and smell--- Girl. i feel happy and uplifted reading daria and cookie’s exchange. i am really smiling. giggling even. i think i may take a bath right now. aaaahhhh that sounds good. i Love being a girl. i didn’t quite get into it when i was younger i was too busy just trying to freaking survive and be tough and protected. but being a girl is soooooooooooo much fun. and i can sort of jump into boy sometimes and then ahhhhhh go back to being a lovely soft self pampering, interested in how things look and feel and taste and smell— Girl.

]]> By: Cookie http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4536 Cookie Fri, 30 Jan 2009 04:51:59 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4536 you know what i subconsciously followed my plan to love another part of me today. I forgot it was my plan but instinctively i was walking down the street today looking awful in leggings and big t shirt, dirty boots, looking like a straight up bum. But as I was walking, I felt so amazing, like I was in sexy clothes, and I was smiling and thanking people and i caught a reflection of my legs in these leggings in the side of somebody's car. And I said to myself out loud a little even, I was like damn you have some thick legs, some sexy thick thighs, that been with me all my life, even as a baby, I have something that a lot of women don't have, I have thick thighs and I love them. It was the most random thought I've had in a long time but you know what it felt damn good. Rather than beating myself up about some shit I can't control. I enjoyed that moment of walking to work with my thick legs. I forgot about that feeling until now, when i was reading over my post from yesterday and what daria said. I should be following more of these feelings all day, maybe I can avoid some of these migraines I been having. you know what i subconsciously followed my plan to love another part of me today. I forgot it was my plan but instinctively i was walking down the street today looking awful in leggings and big t shirt, dirty boots, looking like a straight up bum. But as I was walking, I felt so amazing, like I was in sexy clothes, and I was smiling and thanking people and i caught a reflection of my legs in these leggings in the side of somebody’s car. And I said to myself out loud a little even, I was like damn you have some thick legs, some sexy thick thighs, that been with me all my life, even as a baby, I have something that a lot of women don’t have, I have thick thighs and I love them. It was the most random thought I’ve had in a long time but you know what it felt damn good. Rather than beating myself up about some shit I can’t control. I enjoyed that moment of walking to work with my thick legs. I forgot about that feeling until now, when i was reading over my post from yesterday and what daria said. I should be following more of these feelings all day, maybe I can avoid some of these migraines I been having.

]]> By: Cookie http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4535 Cookie Fri, 30 Jan 2009 04:43:53 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4535 hi, daria, so i was really interested in what you just wrote about loving your face in the mirror. Cuz see all my life, I feel like men have loved my body (when I was fit) because I had the meanest sexiest walk any man has ever seen, but then they didn't really respond to my face. When I see my face, I think that i'm attractive looking, like even beautiful sometimes. But then I'm like why don't men like my face but i'm thinking that's it me, that I told myself that they didn't like my face because some where inside me, I didn't love it. Like I was picking it apart counting pimples and flaws and not seeing its overall beauty. But I want to know how do you do this exercise, like how are you learning to love your face. Do tell. hi, daria, so i was really interested in what you just wrote about loving your face in the mirror. Cuz see all my life, I feel like men have loved my body (when I was fit) because I had the meanest sexiest walk any man has ever seen, but then they didn’t really respond to my face. When I see my face, I think that i’m attractive looking, like even beautiful sometimes. But then I’m like why don’t men like my face but i’m thinking that’s it me, that I told myself that they didn’t like my face because some where inside me, I didn’t love it. Like I was picking it apart counting pimples and flaws and not seeing its overall beauty. But I want to know how do you do this exercise, like how are you learning to love your face. Do tell.

]]> By: Daria http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4483 Daria Thu, 29 Jan 2009 09:44:42 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4483 Yay Cookie that sounds awesome! I gave myself a bath a manicure and pedicure today. I felt really pampered and good even though I did it myself. I use to think my "boy self" wouldn't really go along with it, but this time I enjoyed it. I'm really starting to enjoy it and it feels like Godesses at the temple... very natural and pretty and well godessy... it feels like powerful magic and mystery and secret natural beauty.... oh I really like it I also practiced loving my face in the mirror, and going eyes to soft focus and opening my heart towards my image... Yay Cookie that sounds awesome! I gave myself a bath a manicure and pedicure today. I felt really pampered and good even though I did it myself. I use to think my “boy self” wouldn’t really go along with it, but this time I enjoyed it. I’m really starting to enjoy it and it feels like Godesses at the temple… very natural and pretty and well godessy…

it feels like powerful magic and mystery and secret natural beauty…. oh I really like it

I also practiced loving my face in the mirror, and going eyes to soft focus and opening my heart towards my image…

]]> By: cookie http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/comment-page-1/#comment-4474 cookie Thu, 29 Jan 2009 03:55:35 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=294#comment-4474 Know but I noticd n said to myself no wonder y the boys can't keep their hands off me, lol! Nyway my task tomorro is find anothr place on me that I like. Y not, "its my body n I get to love it" Know but I noticd n said to myself no wonder y the boys can’t keep their hands off me, lol! Nyway my task tomorro is find anothr place on me that I like. Y not, “its my body n I get to love it”

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