http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/holiday-man-catching-secrets/ Marriage & Relationship Advice From Rori Raye Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:36:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/holiday-man-catching-secrets/comment-page-1/#comment-1387 Caj13 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:41:05 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=229#comment-1387 This is really about your new anchoring tool in the latest Eletter. That really hit home, and I know it works. In fact I'd had a similar idea myself, with helpful results, when I obsess over someone from an imaginary relationship that's been over for years. Because even though it was imaginary, the wonderful feelings I had were very real. It's so frustrating to have the thoughts come up again and again every time I see certain types of cars (cheez, he didn't even care about his cars himself, and I can barely recognize my own car! but I always have a reaction when I see those makes). The message is clearly not that he's coming back around. So I said to myself "let's try to get something out of this". But the thoughts are painful and intrusive, so I reminded myself of the good feelings and how it was me who was feeling them just within myself even then. And I feel them again, they comfort and encourage me, reassure me that all that was and still is real, attainable again. The thoughts about this blurrier and blurrier character, who was not giving me the feelings, but with whom I was trying to share them, get crowded out. This is really about your new anchoring tool in the latest Eletter. That really hit home, and I know it works. In fact I’d had a similar idea myself, with helpful results, when I obsess over someone from an imaginary relationship that’s been over for years. Because even though it was imaginary, the wonderful feelings I had were very real. It’s so frustrating to have the thoughts come up again and again every time I see certain types of cars (cheez, he didn’t even care about his cars himself, and I can barely recognize my own car! but I always have a reaction when I see those makes). The message is clearly not that he’s coming back around. So I said to myself “let’s try to get something out of this”. But the thoughts are painful and intrusive, so I reminded myself of the good feelings and how it was me who was feeling them just within myself even then. And I feel them again, they comfort and encourage me, reassure me that all that was and still is real, attainable again. The thoughts about this blurrier and blurrier character, who was not giving me the feelings, but with whom I was trying to share them, get crowded out.

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