Comments on: The Better To Express Ourselves

By: Taylor

Taylor — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 05:21:31 +0000

Hey!
Well this guy tells me he loves me but he just don’t want a relationship and i kinda understand that but i want to know how to make him want to be with me and me only. I love him with all my heart and i want to keep him.. He told me the other day he was thinking about letting me go cause he’s starting to fall for me and he don’t want that. HELP PLEASE!!!!

By: BabyGirl, NC

BabyGirl, NC — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 21:50:33 +0000

Wink, I don’t have the tools themselves 2 know if I am doing the circular dating correctly, but Rori says that we can date ourselves. So yes, when i am out and about, i am flirting & practicing the Modern Sirens & the Commitment Blueprint tools.

By: Tina

Tina — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:50:10 +0000

Rori’s tools have helped me a great deal, only when I started to put them into practice in my love life did I start to “feel” and feel ok with what I am feeling, in a contructive way of course. Not only my love life but in other areas of my life , most importantly my path (bridge.) wooohoooo!.

By: Tina

Tina — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:47:01 +0000

I was just reading my post and wanted to clear this up. I want affection and compassion in an sexually exclusive relationship “for now.” I feel the hormonal pull he has on me is starting to wear off, it’s taken 1 1/2 years though.

By: Tina

Tina — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:40:04 +0000

Linda,
Thank you, *sniffle. I feel I am in my own trap. I’m still married waiting on my ex to file for divorce -which he says he will do at the end of july. I feel there is no point in asking for or expecting any form of commitment from “boyfriend” besides sexual exclusivity. “boyfriend” does do “nice things” for me however I feel that doing nice things is not enough for me to want a long term commitment from/with him. I feel bored in this relationship. I dont know what it is going to take for me to seal the deal on this relationship. I feel as though as long as I’m the one keeping him entertained, that is how long this relationship will last. Lack of compassion, affection does get boring for me. Your right in the “potential” of a man. I feel intuitively that this is what I’m doing/going on. Yikes!. I’m in no hurry to make any decisions just yet lol “potential” right .

By: Daria

Daria — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 19:41:00 +0000

I know so many real “gangstas.” God help keep them safe and find them something good to do. I am tired or losing friends in spiritual wars. Have you seen the movie 300? i was crying a lot at the end. I get so into movies and get reallly emotional… which feels good because i get to cry out my grief… i think i have a lot of grief which i have held in…

By: Daria

Daria — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 19:37:21 +0000

I think the bad feelings about pot are because it’s illegal and my parents think its bad. When I went to New York I met this Jamaican boy and he loved pot. He thought it was perfectly great and I felt the same about it with him. He thought it was more normal than alcohol. I guess its about culture too. In my culture alcohol is totally prevalent but no pot.

By: alias girl

alias girl — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:18:10 +0000

i dunno daria. your post just probably disappeared. poof. it’s happened to me and a couple of people too. i mean maybe rori was up at 2am and intercepted your condom post but prob not.

dang. wish i coulda read it.

By: gina

gina — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:00:48 +0000

Daria, it was interesting to read your high commentary. I rarely smoke pot, but when I do, I often experience the super good feelings, but then i feel a lot of shame and guilt and self consciousness, and then frustration about it. Is that just a part of smoking pot? Or is it cause there’s such a taboo against it? I don’t like those feelings. I guess I would feel negative feelings if I sat around and drank, even though it’s legal. I think maybe it depends on the context. Sometimes getting a little tipsy is so super fun (party atmosphere, or intimate, when people around me are on the same page, and there is no driving involved). I’m sure the same would go for pot, but it hasn’t had an appropriate place in my life for a long time. It used to be the foundation of the relationship i had with my Loverman/”FWB” – we would just get high and have AMAZING sex. Pot heightened all the sensations, made it so emotional and intimate. But I don’t think we would have had anything at all without pot. That’s kinda weird. But I wouldn’t trade those memories. Pot every once in a while used to be so fun, but in the last couple of years, every time I smoke has been trouble. I still can’t quite tell what I think the true nature of it is. I definitely don’t think the gov should have a say in the matter at all, and that makes me feel so angry, tight in my stomach like I have hypocritical thieves for parents who let me have alcohol, but would imprison me for pot – so Stupid. Urrrgh!! I would like to determine the truth about it – does pot offer illumination? Or delusion? or both, depending on use?

By: Daria

Daria — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:19:11 +0000

I just worked out. I feel soo good. My spine feels really nice and extended. I did this belly reaching in exercise too and it feels like its really making this part of my tummy that feels neglected feel good. Cuz i eat too much and overburden my belly. Love you belly. I feel sleepy. I want to chat. Im chatting on the blog.