Yes – once you start opening up, you will make a man feel safe enough to open up, too – that’s the idea – you want him to open up to love, to feel safe enough to fall in love.

Just notice what’s going on. If he’s only sharing his feelings and not asking YOU how YOU feel – make sure you’re always asking him what he “thinks.” Just keep expressing how you feel and asking him what he thinks. Say clearly what you “don’t want.” Be sure to Listen at Level 2.

These are the basics. If this doesn’t work – then you’re just transitioning out of more feminine men into more masculine men. Just keep Circular Dating – and the better men will show up.

Also – make sure you have brilliance going on in your own life, so that YOU’RE happy. Love, Rori

Hpowever having s aid that i feel i’ve been myself “Continuing” the path of being “”Abused” (unconsciously)Dealing or “Giving” this impression that IAm “Reachable”.. However, Rori You, & all Programs i’ve llooked for are too amazing (Even Ch.Carter too) I wana Thank you but let me help a few before i go.. : Feeling Yourself & YOur Bedo are Not enough : its THE RESPECT that you Give yourself & to your BOdy That counts Profoundly … I’ve learned to respect my body all the more thanks to you . .
Returning to “Circular” dating, i feel that men now, with me, are letting themself be 2X more “thoughtful” & i can Sense that every day !.. I DO Notallow anyone to enter my cyber page, i never accept less than huge invitations, (previously meant to) with Flowers & all. but, what i feel now rori is the more i “Demand” or require basically from a man – & the more i work on my feeling messages & melt & feel Moments & all.. i feel that THEY START SUDDENLY Become in touch with the”Feminine in them! !..
For instance, when am asked :How are you.”.. after the feeling messages from my behalf.. Then, i feel like a hot warm shower & get to bed story on the phone i sense they 11- not only get perhaps aroused by this , but also, if i say oh, i feel my back hurtng (or something) THEY START TO LET OUT All the bull, pain, & other stuff from them !.. so, what is it?> how can i stop saying what i feel (even the bad) & Accept to receive all this negative (or the “Reality” of them ) which i Better Live without !..

It is No harm in us rori to want to be \surrounded by good breed of men (such a few !) but with SUPPORT !>. WHy isnt it “Allowed” for us (wherever we are in this world) to Want to be “TAken CAre of” in a good sense by expressing the Feminine & Be the Feminine that I Want!
Yes I feel like being “taken care of” & deserving !;
I have “worked”enough on myself to know “now” how i much i worth ! But sincerely ,rori, why dont i seem top get the “result you so long have stated : that the Men will melt into such “Loving” desrving kind of woman. i feel i am only attracting the Least Expected type of men..
How can i permit a less than the Best Man Alive to enter a Not Less than a Goddess/Turning type of woman that i am rori ?.. ( thanks, are u going to answer ?..rori?..) Thnx

I am walking along the beach. All kinds of men are offering me things, attention, gifts, dates. I keep walking, proudly, my long hair (it isn’t really), and flowing Tahitian dress floating in the wind. I am smiling, my head high. I am getting turned on, in an emotional way.
I keep walking along the shore. And then I come to a man, laying down on a striped blanket. He has room for me, and motions me to come and lay beside him.
He is offering me home. This is what I want.
Of course he is also devastatingly handsome and virile. And smiling.

Last night was incredibly hard for me. I wanted to feel like a brand new being, rebirthed, cleansed, and sexually healed from all the bullshit in my past. That intention came out in the shamanic dance performance that I did that evening; a vision for a new relationship came out. Myself, dancing alone on the beach, and a man coming towards me on a canoe. He is reaching for me. At the last moment, I jump into the ocean and he jumps towards me and catches me. I wonder, is this too much leaning forward, because I jumped first?

When I got home after driving through a terrible snowstorm (come on people, it’s April already), I felt all kinds of rage and fury and sadness. I locked myself in my room and was just shaking for several minutes, feeling cold and alone and sad and hopeless, and wanting to connect with someone, the Divine Mother preferably.

After that, I felt very angry, and was screaming “NO!!!!!!” (inside my head) and raging and pounding on the bed for some time, until someone called my name from inside me. He lay down next to me and put his arms around me and held me until I fell asleep, and I felt very peaceful and loved in those moments.

I dreamed of him last night. He was speaking to me in Hawaiian poetry, over cell phone messages, and a voice told me that with him, I would do best to keep my passion inside me. I tend to either let it all hang out, which causes the passion to dissipate, or stuff it deep down inside, beating it down with a mallet like Whack-A-Mole. Instead, I could just keep it inside and cherish it, water it, and let it build and strengthen and energize me and make me powerful again. It feels good to think about doing that.