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	<title>Comments on: The Dog Walk &#8211; Tending To Yourself</title>
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		<title>By: Uschi</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-dog-walk-tending-to-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-15744</link>
		<dc:creator>Uschi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 16:58:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love a hot bath and just relaxing
I love doing flowers I consider that spiritual - I think
I love nature however I am not always crazy being out in it but I absolutely love a home a place that is mine where I can be be and be comfortable  with my lover (and I hope we get back what we once had) have my animals around me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love a hot bath and just relaxing<br />
I love doing flowers I consider that spiritual &#8211; I think<br />
I love nature however I am not always crazy being out in it but I absolutely love a home a place that is mine where I can be be and be comfortable  with my lover (and I hope we get back what we once had) have my animals around me.</p>
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		<title>By: Uschi</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-dog-walk-tending-to-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-15527</link>
		<dc:creator>Uschi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 16:49:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>physical ... I am not sure but will definately start talking walks with my dog maybe it will energize me - so far I have always been on the porch and thrown things for her to retrieve (she is a retriever and loves doing that) but she loves walks too and so I will go and start taking her for walks and maybe it will make me feel better too

with the spirit ... I am not a spiritual person so I am not sure how to get in touch with that

with the heart ... I love doing flowers and it always gives me pleasure to see one of my creations inspire a smile in someone else - its not just about doing the work and having that job and getting paid for it but it is more often about the smile I see on peoples faces when they see my creations and love them because to me it is like a validation</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>physical &#8230; I am not sure but will definately start talking walks with my dog maybe it will energize me &#8211; so far I have always been on the porch and thrown things for her to retrieve (she is a retriever and loves doing that) but she loves walks too and so I will go and start taking her for walks and maybe it will make me feel better too</p>
<p>with the spirit &#8230; I am not a spiritual person so I am not sure how to get in touch with that</p>
<p>with the heart &#8230; I love doing flowers and it always gives me pleasure to see one of my creations inspire a smile in someone else &#8211; its not just about doing the work and having that job and getting paid for it but it is more often about the smile I see on peoples faces when they see my creations and love them because to me it is like a validation</p>
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		<title>By: Rori Raye</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Peggy, Welcome - and Thank you for your beautiful, evocative, poetic comment.

As you watch these romantic movies, try bringing that &quot;ahhhhh&quot; feeling you get in your whole body into the whole world.  See if you can enter into a romantic relationship with EVERYTHING - people, objects, living things, inanimate things...I&#039;m doing this myself, it feels great for me, let me know how it works for you.  Love, Rori</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Peggy, Welcome &#8211; and Thank you for your beautiful, evocative, poetic comment.</p>
<p>As you watch these romantic movies, try bringing that &#8220;ahhhhh&#8221; feeling you get in your whole body into the whole world.  See if you can enter into a romantic relationship with EVERYTHING &#8211; people, objects, living things, inanimate things&#8230;I&#8217;m doing this myself, it feels great for me, let me know how it works for you.  Love, Rori</p>
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		<title>By: peggy yost</title>
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		<dc:creator>peggy yost</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:47:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My daughter&#039;s wedding is coming up soon and I am feeling stressed about work,my break-up with a man,
so for my physical self,a makeover
As sad as I will feel i am going to watch &quot;The Notebook and message in a bottle&quot;-emotional self
Spiritually,I feel I need my girlfriends to pray,so I can stay on an even keel
The relationship I want is at the top of my active training list,I am in training to climb up out of the pit that has held me captive for over 30 years,I didn&#039;t even know!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My daughter&#8217;s wedding is coming up soon and I am feeling stressed about work,my break-up with a man,<br />
so for my physical self,a makeover<br />
As sad as I will feel i am going to watch &#8220;The Notebook and message in a bottle&#8221;-emotional self<br />
Spiritually,I feel I need my girlfriends to pray,so I can stay on an even keel<br />
The relationship I want is at the top of my active training list,I am in training to climb up out of the pit that has held me captive for over 30 years,I didn&#8217;t even know!</p>
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		<title>By: We Buy Ugly Houses</title>
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		<dc:creator>We Buy Ugly Houses</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 18:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you very much,your site is perfect 

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http://webuyuglyhousesnow.info/renting-your-property-repairs-and-how-to-end-things-smoothly/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you very much,your site is perfect </p>
<p>==<br />
<a href="http://webuyuglyhousesnow.info/renting-your-property-repairs-and-how-to-end-things-smoothly/" >http://webuyuglyhousesnow.info/renting-your-property-repairs-and-how-to-end-things-smoothly/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Prescilla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prescilla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 17:06:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great site, and I love the responses! Ladies, keep up the GREAT self-discovery and awareness. I enjoy reading your posts because I&#039;m learning a lot as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great site, and I love the responses! Ladies, keep up the GREAT self-discovery and awareness. I enjoy reading your posts because I&#8217;m learning a lot as well.</p>
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		<title>By: heartbeat</title>
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		<dc:creator>heartbeat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 09:47:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel inspired to do another list.  I feel too cold to windsurf at the moment and I can&#039;t go to a holy well every day (tho I do both in my imagination) so here&#039;s my more &#039;daily&#039; list:

Physical - buying the best sheets I can afford and drying them outside on the line so they feel and smell gorgeous next to my skin, and make me feel gorgeous too.

Spiritual - looking across the river to the city and feeling awed by human creativity and the beauty of the sky and water.

Heart - driviing my car with music on feels great in many ways, the scenery, the music and the experience of driving somehow combine to allow me to feel my emotions without sinking into anxiety or immobility.

I keep wanting to add in &#039;being part of this blog&#039; - but it feels really important to have these things SEPARATE too, cos, like Reshi, some days I get too triggered.  And I DO have a good story!  I just don&#039;t feel like shouting about it anywhere, it&#039;s not so important to me any more.  That feels more real.  I&#039;m done with high drama - I&#039;ve had men do all the classic romance stuff, but that&#039;s a red flag for me now - those guys were all in their imagination, their &#039;love&#039; wasn&#039;t real.  I&#039;m more amazed at how much better I feel in MYSELF.  I&#039;m enjoying the dance of getting to know my man and the me that develops in relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel inspired to do another list.  I feel too cold to windsurf at the moment and I can&#8217;t go to a holy well every day (tho I do both in my imagination) so here&#8217;s my more &#8216;daily&#8217; list:</p>
<p>Physical &#8211; buying the best sheets I can afford and drying them outside on the line so they feel and smell gorgeous next to my skin, and make me feel gorgeous too.</p>
<p>Spiritual &#8211; looking across the river to the city and feeling awed by human creativity and the beauty of the sky and water.</p>
<p>Heart &#8211; driviing my car with music on feels great in many ways, the scenery, the music and the experience of driving somehow combine to allow me to feel my emotions without sinking into anxiety or immobility.</p>
<p>I keep wanting to add in &#8216;being part of this blog&#8217; &#8211; but it feels really important to have these things SEPARATE too, cos, like Reshi, some days I get too triggered.  And I DO have a good story!  I just don&#8217;t feel like shouting about it anywhere, it&#8217;s not so important to me any more.  That feels more real.  I&#8217;m done with high drama &#8211; I&#8217;ve had men do all the classic romance stuff, but that&#8217;s a red flag for me now &#8211; those guys were all in their imagination, their &#8216;love&#8217; wasn&#8217;t real.  I&#8217;m more amazed at how much better I feel in MYSELF.  I&#8217;m enjoying the dance of getting to know my man and the me that develops in relationship.</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dorothea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 03:44:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It feels so comforting to see these perspectives... especially Rori Raye&#039;s wisdom on Chris&#039;s situation...it&#039;s like a dark cloud has been lifted and I feel lighter and relieved.  I feel really cheezy saying that, haha, but I swear it&#039;s the lovely truth.  I feel confident like with this kind of wisdom then Chris might actually get what she wants in a good way.  And sorry to talk about you in third person, Chris!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It feels so comforting to see these perspectives&#8230; especially Rori Raye&#8217;s wisdom on Chris&#8217;s situation&#8230;it&#8217;s like a dark cloud has been lifted and I feel lighter and relieved.  I feel really cheezy saying that, haha, but I swear it&#8217;s the lovely truth.  I feel confident like with this kind of wisdom then Chris might actually get what she wants in a good way.  And sorry to talk about you in third person, Chris!</p>
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		<title>By: Daria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 09:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i want that too... someone who wants a great life with ME.

and I want my guy I used to like now friend to come through for me in this financial thing.  I know everything is going to be ok.  Because I EFT&#039;d it and I feel so peaceful now.  HEHE.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i want that too&#8230; someone who wants a great life with ME.</p>
<p>and I want my guy I used to like now friend to come through for me in this financial thing.  I know everything is going to be ok.  Because I EFT&#8217;d it and I feel so peaceful now.  HEHE.</p>
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		<title>By: alias girl</title>
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		<dc:creator>alias girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 09:11:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i feel triggered. one of my exs (yes the one that stopped by) in my opinion has an issue with alcohol. i can&#039;t say he&#039;s an alcoholic bc from my understnading it&#039;s a self diagnosed condition/label. but i feel things might actually have worked between us if he wasn&#039;t living a life of darkness with the alcohol. 

but i can&#039;t change him sometimes i imagine we are one and i magine we are whole and healthy and perfect in form and health. we are all one. we are all whole and perfect. it is our thoughts that diease us but anyway that&#039;s a belief system adn off topic to this blog.

anyway i feel triggered. and yes, the only recourse i really felt i have with this man in this moment is to say NO. i care for you but i care formyself more and i simply can not tolerate the way your are inclined to treat me. and i know he heard it in my voice bc i immediately felt the shift in his energy.he was all calling me sweetness and what not and when i first called he said it was a bad time. i said well i can make it quick or i can leave it on your voicemail. and he immediately shut off the tv and made it a good time to talk. whatever.

i know the truth. the truth is he is not at the same place iam and i am not willing to go lower to be with him. i can&#039;t. i won&#039;t. 

but i can and i will find someone who wants to build a great life together. oh yes i can. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i feel triggered. one of my exs (yes the one that stopped by) in my opinion has an issue with alcohol. i can&#8217;t say he&#8217;s an alcoholic bc from my understnading it&#8217;s a self diagnosed condition/label. but i feel things might actually have worked between us if he wasn&#8217;t living a life of darkness with the alcohol. </p>
<p>but i can&#8217;t change him sometimes i imagine we are one and i magine we are whole and healthy and perfect in form and health. we are all one. we are all whole and perfect. it is our thoughts that diease us but anyway that&#8217;s a belief system adn off topic to this blog.</p>
<p>anyway i feel triggered. and yes, the only recourse i really felt i have with this man in this moment is to say NO. i care for you but i care formyself more and i simply can not tolerate the way your are inclined to treat me. and i know he heard it in my voice bc i immediately felt the shift in his energy.he was all calling me sweetness and what not and when i first called he said it was a bad time. i said well i can make it quick or i can leave it on your voicemail. and he immediately shut off the tv and made it a good time to talk. whatever.</p>
<p>i know the truth. the truth is he is not at the same place iam and i am not willing to go lower to be with him. i can&#8217;t. i won&#8217;t. </p>
<p>but i can and i will find someone who wants to build a great life together. oh yes i can. <img src='http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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