Comments on: The Ultimate Feeling Message Date

By: Uschi

Uschi — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 03:41:01 +0000

I don’t think Rori should go on Oprah cause then men would know what we are up to when we say I feel etc., not that they would totally understand the rest of it but when they hear from us “I feel …..” then they know the gig is up and if they are the wrong kind of man they play a role or pretend to do what we are hoping for them to do and then take advantage of that – of course such would be men we wouldn’t want anyway but it be a bit difficult to see if they are for real or not

By: Cassandra

Cassandra — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 19:24:23 +0000

Rori…..first I want to say thank you. I feel kind of silly but then again I feel good that that feeling silly is for this moment any how part of my process. I have not responded to what you write to me last week because I felt SO triggered by all that took place here last week that when I first read what you wrote I felt so hurt and I felt so angry and I felt so reprimanded BUT I also felt that if took time for ME to be in the soup about all of that then at SOME POINT I would get to feel the beauty….the rubies and the diamonds as you say….I don’t feel like I ever found the rubies or diamonds per say but I feel that I did find some peace and that felt and feels good…..I really have not been back here since then until today and I just RE-READ your post and it felt good to read and I felt even more silly this time because I realized that in my being SO AWFULLY TRIGGERED that the first time I read it I MIS read it so now I feel so happy that I mis-read it because when I just reread it I realized that I goofed big time and that honestly felt like giggles to me….it felt happy and it felt accpeting and it felt loved and even more giggles that I had MIS read it the first time. I feel so much more free now at least for this moment and that feels good. I AM trying to stay in ME and stay in the ‘i feels’. I just feel so thankful right now and I feel so loved. Thank you Rori. I felt inspired by your experience of you moving yourself out of a really bad physical battle and into a healthier happier you. I feel like celebrating not onoy your own freedom now but the promise of my own. Thank you thank you thank you. This feels like what I imagine it would feel like to really have a sister that loves and cares for you but will also tell you to ‘chill’ if you need to but only because she knows what you need to do to get to where you want to go and that feels really really awesome. For right now in this moment….I feel good.

I feel so much love and gratitude for you Rori and feel that I just want you to be totally surrounded by nothing but joy and love.

XOXOXO
Cassandra

By: Daria

Daria — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 05:35:49 +0000

Wow Bethany I feel so thankful you shared something that “embarassing” like that… I was feeling mortified for about 18 hours after naming a body part on a post yesterday… I feel so glad to see you comfortable and I do not feel any judgement at all so that makes me feel safe…

I was imagining everyone pointing at me like she must be a nutcase scenarios and just weird stuff was coming up for me but when another person says something like that I feel no judgement… weird… I feel glad to have experienced that feeling and did my best to love it

By: Bethany

Bethany — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 02:05:47 +0000

Also, I feel like getting pap smears and treating myself for yeast infection is probably one of the best damn things I’ve done for my body recently. I feel kind of embarrassed sharing that here, but there you go. It felt gross to know I had an infection like that, but then I felt much cleaner and more Goddessy and good about that part, which deserves lots of respect and reverence, I feel, when it got all cleared up. I felt amazed that not all junk food is equal and that even when I would occassionally break into a bag of Lay’s, I still lost weight because I wasn’t eating sugar of any kind…

By: Bethany

Bethany — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 02:02:08 +0000

Katja, I felt so happy when I read your post, and I remembered one of your other posts about going out with your boyfriend for a birthday party (?) and how you handled that…and then this…wow, I feel really impressed. I feel happy that you are so natural and I can feel your confidence coming through!

I felt really good when I read Rori’s last comment. I want to choose to feel good. I want to breakthrough and work through all my stuff. I want to feel good, and today all I can do is feel good about wanting to feel good.

Sugar: when I don’t eat sugar, it’s like a cloud lifting…if I need junk food, I go for potato chips or SALT which, although eating tons of it isn’t good for the body, feels really satisfying. I feel great when I eat Oikos plain Greek yogurt with cinnamon and frozen blueberries in it…and sometimes frozen blueberries in a bowl if I want ice cream…I feel much calmer and find everything feels much easier when I don’t have poisonous sugar coursing through my system. Oh, and I felt really confident after reading “Potatoes Not Prozac” and much more in control of my understanding of how sugar affects me and people like me who are especially sensitive to sugar…I also have found that I feel really good when taking Natren probiotics…the Healthy Start Trio…it feels annoying because you have to keep them refrigerated to keep the live cultures active, but they are great…

By: Katja

Katja — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 12:23:30 +0000

Thanks to all of you

I still feel great,I am still focusing on me and I will let you know what happens. Today there is not much to tell.

Have a great day!

By: Reshi

Reshi — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 00:20:56 +0000

Katja, wow, just wow! I felt so amazing reading your story. No sex for a year and then such an amazing evening…I feel so inspired. I almost feel like something so wonderful could happen for me. Almost. I don’t want to give myself permission to actually feel that. Immoral, cheating, bla bla bla. I want to judge myself and tell myself I’m not up to standard. And I love my judging judger. It feels like a man looking over a mail-order bride catalog and saying “not this one, her nose is too big…not this one, her hair is too dark…not this one, her ankles are chubby. Not you, Reshi, because you’re so different from my ideal I don’t even know where to START. That feels like an A-hole but what would it feel like if I swapped the genders? Not him, he’s too short, not him, he’s got a little potbelly, not him, I don’t like his hairstyle. That doesn’t feel much better. But then I go to…Not him, he doesn’t call when he says he will…not him, he put up a profile picture that’s 10 years old, not him, he was rude to the waitress on our first date. Not that job, it’s in a bad part of town…not that one, it pays less for more work than the one you have…not that one, the work environment is unhealthy.

And HEY, my judger is useful now. That’s my Masculine protecting me. I definitely love my protective Masculine. I love to choose my circumstances. I love to decide what I will and won’t have in my life. My Feminine tells him what feels good and what doesn’t, and he loves her so he decides based on what will make her happy. That feels really, really good.

By: Ann

Ann — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 22:51:20 +0000

Thanks Katja for sharing. I felt happy for you while reading your post. I love reading everyone’s post.

I feel in a curious mood today. I want to explore more of the world.

I recently got a haircut, several women have told me how good it looks. One of my guy friends said it made me look younger. These compliments felt really good.

I’m feeling great experiementing with the different perfumes I bought, each day. And all the new outfits. And exploring all the ways I can date myself.

I’m feeling gorgeous.

Rori I so appreciate all your help, it feels great when you join in the comments sections too. Thank you

By: Daria

Daria — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 20:47:36 +0000

Oh wow Katja that is an amazing success story. It feels so warming … I love it love it love it.

By: alias girl

alias girl — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 19:42:50 +0000

aw katja. i feel moved by your experience that you shared. i feel really excited. i feel moved and supportive.

i feel happy to read it.

also i’ve had men lose an erection at times while we were together and i just pay as little attention to it as possible. i don’t even put energy toward it in my mind. or i might say something like can we just lie here for awhile? and then maybe he’ll put his arm around me and we’ll start talking. not a big deal. it happens to a lot of men at one time or another.

i feel so excited for you.