Comments on: Twilight and Transparency http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/ Marriage & Relationship Advice From Rori Raye Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:34:15 +0000 hourly 1 By: Rori Raye http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8585 Rori Raye Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:13:25 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8585 gollyitsme, Welcome - and he's using you. Not in a mean way. He just wants contact, companionship, someone who he KNOWS cares about him and for him. Just leaving a message gives him good feelings. Just drop him. He's of no use to you now - he only wants to take. (He's not doing this to hurt you - so there's no reason for you to feel angry. If you're feeling angry - it's because you're putting out too much EFFORT. Just thinking of him means you're doing too much. That's what's making you angry.) Love, Rori gollyitsme, Welcome – and he’s using you. Not in a mean way. He just wants contact, companionship, someone who he KNOWS cares about him and for him. Just leaving a message gives him good feelings. Just drop him. He’s of no use to you now – he only wants to take. (He’s not doing this to hurt you – so there’s no reason for you to feel angry. If you’re feeling angry – it’s because you’re putting out too much EFFORT. Just thinking of him means you’re doing too much. That’s what’s making you angry.) Love, Rori

]]> By: Rori Raye http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8584 Rori Raye Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:09:24 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8584 Princess, Welcome - and the answer is Circular Dating. You are dating this man. Do not become exclusively involved with him. That would be an investment way too soon. Date others men. Love, Rori Princess, Welcome – and the answer is Circular Dating. You are dating this man. Do not become exclusively involved with him. That would be an investment way too soon. Date others men. Love, Rori

]]> By: princess http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8573 princess Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:28:45 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8573 am in a relationship of about a year and few months not knowing where is heading to, secondary he has a date which he has been hiding from me which was declosed to me recently by him after a long preasure .Now am so confused i dont know what to do.HE refuse to made his intentions to me toward our relationship no committiment and always telling me time will tell pls advise me on what to do am in a relationship of about a year and few months not knowing where is heading to, secondary he has a date which he has been hiding from me which was declosed to me recently by him after a long preasure .Now am so confused i dont know what to do.HE refuse to made his intentions to me toward our relationship no committiment and always telling me time will tell pls advise me on what to do

]]> By: gollyitsme http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8572 gollyitsme Fri, 17 Apr 2009 16:56:13 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8572 Rori, I've reconnected w/an ex I have a connection with. I don't want to be his friend and have told him so. I've implemented stepping back and let him initiate all contact. It's been 2 mos. and he has yet to make the move to make plans or build something w/me. I haven't heard the words: let's go see a movie or go for a walk. He has called 2 days in a row and I haven't answered because of my soup of feelings. He left me a vm 3rd time he called which didn't say anything about wanting to spend time with me. I don't know how to communicate my disappointment at the lack of progress between us or what to say to take it to the next level. And yes I'm dating 2 other men and have a date with one of them saturday. I've other events lined up for Friday and Sunday. Thanks Rori,
I’ve reconnected w/an ex I have a connection with. I don’t want to be his friend and have told him so. I’ve implemented stepping back and let him initiate all contact. It’s been 2 mos. and he has yet to make the move to make plans or build something w/me. I haven’t heard the words: let’s go see a movie or go for a walk. He has called 2 days in a row and I haven’t answered because of my soup of feelings. He left me a vm 3rd time he called which didn’t say anything about wanting to spend time with me. I don’t know how to communicate my disappointment at the lack of progress between us or what to say to take it to the next level. And yes I’m dating 2 other men and have a date with one of them saturday. I’ve other events lined up for Friday and Sunday.
Thanks

]]> By: Ann http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8487 Ann Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:28:38 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8487 Thank you ladies. I feel so grateful for all your prayers and support for my family. His appointment is Monday April 20th at 1:30 p.m in Memphis. We'll find out then what those dr want to do. It feels like I'm riding a emotional roller coaster. One minute I feel I can handle my part of this the next I feel oh no I can't do this God help me. Like right now I'm fine. I feel calm, I feel we'll be took care of. I feel like reading around the blog and seeing if I have any comments to make. Now in 30 minutes I've no clue if I'll be this calm. Thanks for listening and all the support. Thank you ladies. I feel so grateful for all your prayers and support for my family.

His appointment is Monday April 20th at 1:30 p.m in Memphis. We’ll find out then what those dr want to do. It feels like I’m riding a emotional roller coaster. One minute I feel I can handle my part of this the next I feel oh no I can’t do this God help me.

Like right now I’m fine. I feel calm, I feel we’ll be took care of. I feel like reading around the blog and seeing if I have any comments to make. Now in 30 minutes I’ve no clue if I’ll be this calm.

Thanks for listening and all the support.

]]> By: Mercedes http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8458 Mercedes Tue, 14 Apr 2009 15:38:15 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8458 Ann: That's AWESOME! I will pray all continues to move in your favor... Much Love, Mercedes Ann: That’s AWESOME! I will pray all continues to move in your favor…

Much Love,
Mercedes

]]> By: Linmayu http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8447 Linmayu Tue, 14 Apr 2009 04:50:59 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8447 Yay Ann! I am glad to hear the good news. I will continue to send good thoughts to help with the ongoing financial situation. Yay Ann! I am glad to hear the good news. I will continue to send good thoughts to help with the ongoing financial situation.

]]> By: Tracy http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8446 Tracy Tue, 14 Apr 2009 04:39:39 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8446 Ann, I am really glad for you..yay Ann,
I am really glad for you..yay

]]> By: Linda G http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8444 Linda G Tue, 14 Apr 2009 02:56:43 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8444 Hooray Ann! Thanks for letting us all be a part of your journey. Hooray Ann! Thanks for letting us all be a part of your journey.

]]> By: Ann http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/twilight-and-transparency/comment-page-1/#comment-8439 Ann Tue, 14 Apr 2009 01:17:38 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=387#comment-8439 Thanks ladies. It feels good to share great news. Thanks ladies. It feels good to share great news.

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