Have The Relationship You Want

This is a brilliant letter I just got from Carol, and it is so relevant to the situation all of us find ourselves in when we make changes…and how that shakes things up in all kinds of ways…

“Rori. I don’t know what to do. Short story. I was very overweight for a long time. Obese actually my whole life. I fell in love with a man I was working with. He was already in a committed relationship, but was not very happy in it. But we were friends and I never could hope that it could go any further. He was always complimenting me More…

If you subscribe to my monthly Interviews With Relationship Experts CD program – then you’ve just received the March interview with Alanna Levenson – and I thought she was so spectacularly great on the interview, I wanted to give you more from her. Here’s an article she wrote for us:

A few months ago I was at an ATM doing a simple bank transaction when I felt a familiarity nearby. I looked to my left and standing there was a man who I met 5 years ago, who I’ve run into at least once a year since then. It was one of those moments when you haven’t seen someone in a long time More…

Here’s a great comment from Jeannette that I want to jump off from:

“Thanks to all of you….however, I am still struggling with the same guy. I have cut back and for the most part let him call me, however, I am only hearing from him at odd times. Such as Sat. mornings or Sun. eve’s. We sort of cut off the relationship but we are trying to stay friends. I am lying to myself because I care VERY deeply for him. I have tried circular dating and so far have met up with duds. Then my long distance calls and there I am, stuck in the mud. Happy when he calls and More…

Here’s a comment from Pam that I think is all too common, and I wanted to start a discussion around it…

“Rori, I discovered my man of 1.5 years was also on a dating website after he proposed to me on Christmas Day. He was checking out profiles, checking a secret acct for email and had emailed a women back in August saying he liked her profile and wanted to get to know her more. This all happened 6 weeks ago and he just wants me to “forget it” as it didn’t mean anything – he was just doing it for the “rush.” I feel as if it really damaged More…