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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Rori Raye</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>To Get More Love &#8211; Take IN More Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/to-get-more-love-take-in-more-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 21:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[give love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[smile]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re with a man and you&#8217;re not feeling great at the moment &#8212; if you&#8217;re feeling a bit insecure, a bit anxious, a bit tense, unsure of yourself &#8212; you are being TRIGGERED. Now, the only thing left to discover is the why about your being triggered, so you can use my Tools to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do If He Won&#8217;t Step Up &#8211; Emotionally or Physically</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[erection problems]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Lila, who&#8217;s stuck in what I know is a VERY common situation: &#8220;Rori, we’ve been engaged for almost three years. Whenever we set a date for our wedding, he changes it when the time draws near. I tell people that we are permanently engaged. Also, our sex life is really bad. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love Tips From a Man</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/love-tips-from-a-man/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 19:22:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to talk to a man]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[open a mans heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[open heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[talk to him]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great comment from a man (let&#8217;s call him Edgar) with great insight and tips for how to get closer to a man emotionally, help him open up to you, and just simply talk with him. He&#8217;s writing it in response to Laurie, who wrote about the man she&#8217;s seeing: &#8220;I want to know [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Psychic Told Her She Was Cursed &#8211; Is That True?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-psychic-told-her-she-was-cursed-is-that-true/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-psychic-told-her-she-was-cursed-is-that-true/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 18:54:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[foretelling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love psychic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[predetermined]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[psychic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tell the future]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I have a love/hate relationship with the idea of psychic ability and psychics. I&#8217;ve taken sessions with lovely friends who are psychics, like Ann O&#8217;Brien and Lisbeth Kimbrough and Lorrie Kazan, and &#8220;channelers,&#8221; and &#8220;intuitives&#8221; and &#8220;sensitives&#8221; &#8211; and when they are women (and men) I love and feel good with and trust &#8211; I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Withdrawing Or Did She Dump Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/1992/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 17:48:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice for women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stop breakup]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Vivianne &#8211; and I think we can all identify with her confusion and situation &#8211; and I want to give you another perspective around it: &#8220;Please Rori, I’m in such pain right now and I’ve no one to turn to…I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, he’s 24, I’m [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Done Being A Single Woman &#8211; Try This&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/done-being-single/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/done-being-single/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 00:40:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to date]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship tips]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re feeling overwhelmed and frustrated &#8211; especially with all the help and options you find online and just in the sheer numbers of single men everywhere&#8230; if you&#8217;re frustrated with the process of dating, the hopes you have for your romantic future that you hope dating will lead you to…if your &#8220;dating equation&#8221; is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do When He Says It&#8217;s Over</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/he-says-its-over/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/he-says-its-over/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 00:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[he doesn't call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[men and dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[men who don't call]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[should I call him]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Trista &#8211; who&#8217;s in a situation I know almost all of us can identify with&#8230;and by seeing it from our vantage point outside the situation &#8211; it&#8217;s so clear to us&#8230;and yet, I know that when you&#8217;re there, inside the situation &#8211; it&#8217;s so much harder to get what&#8217;s going on: [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>281</slash:comments>
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		<title>If It&#8217;s Hard to Even Visualize Your Happy Ever After &#8211; Let&#8217;s Do This</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-its-hard-to-even-visualize-your-happy-ever-after-lets-do-this/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-its-hard-to-even-visualize-your-happy-ever-after-lets-do-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 23:15:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creative visualization]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[imagination]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[imagine]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice for women]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[visualize]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=1341</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Visualize,&#8221; I say. &#8220;Imagine&#8230;,&#8221; I say. Well &#8211; what if imagining isn&#8217;t your &#8230;thing? What if visualizing gets hairy and tricky and gets you off track? What if the imaginary &#8220;result&#8221; you get is way different than how you thought it would look? Here&#8217;s a letter from Mary that got me started on this&#8230; &#8220;Rori, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do You Bare Your Past or Keep Secrets</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/do-you-bare-your-past-or-keep-secrets/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/do-you-bare-your-past-or-keep-secrets/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 20:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad past]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communiation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dream]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hope]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wish]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=1866</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Because I&#8217;m a writer &#8211; I tell all. I write books and novels about my past. And my husband doesn&#8217;t read them, nor do I offer them to him to read, nor do I talk about my past. Why is this? I&#8217;m a person who naturally &#8211; and in seeming opposition to my extrovert qualities [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>89</slash:comments>
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		<title>Getting From Where You Are in Your Love Life to Where You Want to Be</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/your-love-life/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/your-love-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 19:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a sequence of email coaching with a client&#8230;I wanted to show it to you because it&#8217;s so SUBTLE. I usually like to show you extreme situations, but this one is more like what we, each of us, deal with inthe everyday &#8211; where we make assumptions about things, try to figure things out, TRY [...]]]></description>
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