If Valentine’s Day seems special to you, and that “specialness” is making you feel blue – you’re not alone.
We women are just taught from birth that romance is something that DEFINES us – that if we don’t have it, there’s something wrong, if we don’t have it, this minute, we’re supposed to FEEL bad.
When the TRUTH is – Romance is our BIRTHRIGHT.
Just because we’re women!
It’s as though we have Romance printed on us. It’s in the cells of our beings, it’s why we’re the prize.
In every animal culture – the men have to get themselves dolled up, learn a special dance, and fight other males to get a female as a partner – either temporarily or permanently.
They still have to do the “Dance.”
So, why are we buying into this lie that it’s US, us WOMEN – who’re supposed to be doing the “Dance”?
We’ve just been taught this all wrong.
The way we human women get “dolled up” is to unleash our INSIDES so that WHO WE ARE shows up on our OUTSIDE.
In other words – a man has to see, feel, and “get” our full uniqueness, authenticity, depth and warmth from the moment he lays eyes on us.
So – if we’re busy being “on the lookout” for our Mr. Right, or if we’re always making the man we already have “wrong,” or “less than our dream man” in our eyes…we completely CLOSE OFF the most foolproof, powerful, amazing way we have of ATTRACTING exactly what we want to us.
Even if our Mr. Right is standing in our living room, or across the hallway, or across the street, or across town – he’ll FEEL the attraction.
He can’t help it.
It comes through us – from our insides to our outsides – and it just blows away anything else around him. He feels COMPELLED to KNOW who we are, and to BE with us.
It sounds so simple – and the unbelievably fabulous thing about it is – it IS that simple.
The problem is that we’ve been taught to do the exact reverse of this simple thing, and so we’re pretty much unable to even IMAGINE what it feels like to do it.
We’ve been brainwashed, and now the voices in our own heads are steering us wrong.
We’ve created habits for ourselves that ruin things, even before we get a chance to say “Hello” to a man.
Every time a man we’re in a relationship with does something we don’t like, or that doesn’t feel good – we’re taught to do the exact opposite of what will actually WORK for us.
Try this Tool right now:
1. Pick up a pen
2. Look at the pen, really look at it, and then FALL IN LOVE WITH IT.
That’s right, fall in love with it. You can do it in about 3 seconds – you’ll be shocked at how easy it is.
3. Go to the mirror
4. Look at yourself in the mirror. Smile at yourself. Now…
FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF.
If you feel silly – that’s GREAT!
I want you to feel silly – because feeling silly is absolutely CHARMING!
5. Now, anywhere you are, if you see a mirror (or, at work, you can go to the bathroom) – look at yourself and FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF all over again.
The more you do it, the more your “energy” will shift.
And the more your energy shifts, and the more you have this “glow” around you of being in love with yourself…the more ATTRACTED to you EVERY man will be.
You’ll also get to see how easily we’re talked out of this…we’ve just been taught that falling in love with ourselves is “selfish” or “high and mighty” – don’t listen to those Nasty Voices.
The FASTEST way for a man to Fall In Love With YOU is for you to ALWAYS be in love with YOURSELF.
And I don’t want you to just THINK about this – I want you to DO this Tool all day long, in short bursts of less than 10 seconds.
Just a quick smile and a “knowing” that you’re the best, that you’re totally, forever in love with yourself.
Before you know it, he’ll be jumping at the chance to JOIN you in that love for you.
If you’d like to know, in such a simple, clear, easy – and most important – FUN way – EXACTLY how you can break down a man’s defenses and bring him CLOSER to you, you’ll want to take a look at my new Modern Siren program.
It’s unlike anything you’ve ever heard before, and it works – fast.
The Siren teaches you how to quickly rediscover your own inner Siren – so that you can DRAW in ANY man in a powerful way.
As a Siren, you begin to FEEL the power you HAVE – just because you’re a woman – so that every man around you instinctively starts to do the “Dance” he has to do to GET you.
All of a sudden, his mating instincts kick in, and he WANTS to do WHATEVER it takes to be with you.
Siren will teach you to USE your emotions – to make a man feel, above all else, SAFE with you.
But in a different way than we’re taught…
We’re taught that for a man to feel safe – we have to “take care” of his feelings – nurture him.
And it’s truly just the OPPOSITE!
A man feels safe with us when WE feel safe with us.
That means WE feel safe with ALL of us – all of our emotions, no matter how unpleasant or weak or “ugly” we may judge them to be.
The moment a man feels (and he feels this RIGHT OFF) – that you love and accept ALL of yourself – he instantly believes that you’ll love and accept ALL of HIM!
And feeling loved and accepted for who he is is the number one thing that inspires a man to want to be with you.
The old way of “making him feel loved and accepted” – by “telling him” or “showing him” actually PUSHES a man AWAY.
The SIREN way of making a man feel loved and accepted for exactly who he is – is for YOU to show him that you can love, accept and HANDLE ALL of YOU.
This is why confidence and self-esteem are so incredibly ATTRACTIVE to a man.
The thing is – you don’t HAVE to feel confident and have high-self esteem to unleash your inner SIREN and ATTRACT a man in an unbelievably irresistible way.
All you have to do is love and accept WHATEVER’S going on with you – and let him SEE it.
Let me know how it feels to Fall In Love With Yourself – I’m doing this all the time right along with you…and let’s make this Valentine’s Day OUR day.
Let’s change the meaning of Valentine’s – let’s “Dance” only for OURSELVES – and celebrate as so many men “Dance” to get US.