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		<title>Telling The Truth Is Scary &#8211; And Fantastic, Too &#8211; Bethany 7</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve been following Bethany, you know her man got a text from another girl, and when he told her about it &#8211; he did it in a way that made her feel awful, horrible &#8211; the whole &#8220;freak -out.&#8221; We talked about how she could share her feelings, and tell him the TRUTH &#8211; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do With Your Rage &#8211; Bethany 6</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 18:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bethany&#8217;s now moved from anguish &#8211; to anguish and RAGE, and though she&#8217;s trying to cork the rage, it just squeaks out &#8211; see if this will help you: &#8220;Hi, Rori, I saw Carl in the computer lab today and I felt angry. He was with a student and the three of us ended up [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When You&#8217;re In Anguish Over Him &#8211; Bethany 5</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 18:28:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bethany is in the middle of a crisis.  The crisis began when she started dating Carl, and it goes on day after day, because, as much as she loves him, she feels awful with him, too: &#8220;Dear Rori, I&#8217;m feeling jealous right now. I got a text from Carl not understanding why this girl is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex And Obsession &#8211; Bethany Session 4</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-obsession/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 16:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sex is a delicate negotiation &#8211; even when you&#8217;re long married. How to get it started, how to make sure it&#8217;s good, how to end it and move on to the next moment of being in a relationship. Bethany is working her way through all that &#8211; getting to orgasm in an organic, easy, fulfilling [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex, Feeling And Attraction &#8211; What To Say &#8211; Bethany #3</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 21:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the next step in Bethany&#8217;s work &#8211; completely overhauling and reversing her opinion of herself, taking herself out of &#8220;doormat&#8221; mode and putting herself into &#8220;goddess&#8221; mode, having Boundaries and yet being soft, open, warm and inviting, advocating for herself and her ENTIRE life &#8211; not just the part of it she shares with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Calls But Bethany Finds Her Anger &#8211; Post 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the next letter from Bethany &#8211; You can see how she&#8217;s working the Tools, feeling so much more, expressing herself in Feeling Messages, doing the Tools from the Power &#38; Self-Esteem category on this blog and getting much better results with her men: &#8220;Rori,   Okay, well, I&#8217;m going away with him for the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting More Love By Giving Up Control &#8211; Session 1</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/getting-more-love-by-giving-up-control-session-1/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/getting-more-love-by-giving-up-control-session-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 18:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like you were stuck in a hole with your relationship, and that everything you do, say and think is digging you in deeper and making you feel more scared, upset, angry and miserable? Not only have I felt like that, so many of my clients start out like that. In my [...]]]></description>
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