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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Breakup &amp; Divorce</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>The Rori Raye Third Way &#8211; You Don&#8217;t Have To Break Up With Him</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 22:20:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re just so conditioned to &#8220;move on&#8221; from a man -  that we subject ourselves to pain and misery that&#8217;s just not necessary. Really. You don&#8217;t need to make yourself miserable and &#8220;break up&#8221; with a man just to get on with your life!! We all think you have to have a &#8220;clean break.&#8221;  And [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Throw Yourself at His Feet</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/dont-throw-yourself-at-his-feet/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/dont-throw-yourself-at-his-feet/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 03:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I started to reply to Kate&#8217;s comment, then it triggered me big time and turned into a long piece &#8211; so here&#8217;s Kate&#8217;s comment and my jump-off: &#8220;I am somewhat sad right now and don’t know how to figure this out. I know you and I have a lot of common similarities and maybe you [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>155</slash:comments>
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		<title>Getting Your Love Investment Back From a Man Who&#8217;s Bailed on You &#8211; Can You?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/getting-your-love-investment-back-from-a-man-whos-bailed-on-you-can-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/getting-your-love-investment-back-from-a-man-whos-bailed-on-you-can-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 21:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=1153</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I love it when we tap into our &#8220;boundaries.&#8221;  Where we draw a line in the sand and stick to it.  It feels good, it feels powerful, and it&#8217;s terrifically attractive to a man. Only thing is&#8230;can your line in the sand be &#8230;&#8221;wrong&#8221;?  No &#8211; I say it can&#8217;t be wrong &#8211; but it [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>155</slash:comments>
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		<title>More About What to Say to Him When You Don&#8217;t Want to be Just Friends</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/more-about-what-to-say-to-him-when-you-dont-want-to-be-just-friends/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/more-about-what-to-say-to-him-when-you-dont-want-to-be-just-friends/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 04:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=1193</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This whole business of what to do after a breakup (especially if it&#8217;s a really unclear breakup, with no closure, and you&#8217;re feeling frustrated about all the things that didn&#8217;t get said on top of the grief and pain your feeling), when he keeps trying to call you and wants to be &#8220;friends&#8221; with you [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>247</slash:comments>
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		<title>What To Do When An Office Romance Goes Bad</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/what-to-do-when-an-office-romance-goes-bad/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/what-to-do-when-an-office-romance-goes-bad/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 20:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ahh &#8211; The office romance.  Pleasure.  Pain. Terror.  Humiliation.  Purgatory ever after because you have to see him every day no matter what happens. Jim and Pam from &#8220;The Office&#8221; made it work.  But how often DOESN&#8217;T IT?  So - Question&#8230;since you&#8217;re likely to meet many good men who have similar interests in your workplace [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From Pain to Power &#8211; It&#8217;s Not Heartbreak He Did To You &#8211; It&#8217;s YOURS</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/from-pain-to-power-its-not-heartbreak-he-did-to-you-its-yours/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/from-pain-to-power-its-not-heartbreak-he-did-to-you-its-yours/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 01:35:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=981</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Heartache and Heartbreak happen to us all.  We love, we feel, we give, we open, and then a door closes, and it feels like our life just disappears.  Puff of smoke.  Gone like a magician&#8217;s trick. Pain, hurt, fear&#8230;it can live with us for days, and then we recover, or it can dog us our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Healing Hearts By the Holidays</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/healing-hearts-by-the-holidays/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/healing-hearts-by-the-holidays/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:10:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup & Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breaking up]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I asked my friend Lisa Steadman, who&#8217;s an expert on breakup recovery, to write a post for us, and here it is: Lately, I’ve become singularly focused. I want to help as many women as possible heal their hearts by the upcoming holiday season. Why is this so important to me? Because I know how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>After 17 Years &#8211; He&#8217;s Left, He&#8217;s Fooling Around, and He&#8217;s Put YOU on Trial</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/after-17-years-hes-left-hes-fooling-around-and-hes-put-you-on-trial/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/after-17-years-hes-left-hes-fooling-around-and-hes-put-you-on-trial/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 04:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup & Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=688</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I love letters with what you and I might call &#8220;extreme&#8221; situations &#8212; where we all gasp and swear we&#8217;d never let that happen to us &#8212; but we KNOW, deep down, that it COULD happen to us, that we have, and may still be, tolerating things we don&#8217;t like and playing &#8220;small&#8221; when we [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>154</slash:comments>
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		<title>Rescuing A Marriage Right At The Edge Of Disaster</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/rescuing-a-marriage-right-at-the-edge-of-disaster/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/rescuing-a-marriage-right-at-the-edge-of-disaster/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 21:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This fabulous article is really getting around&#8230;by Laura A. Munson,  a woman who prevented a threatened divorce that seemed to come out of nowhere&#8230;if you haven&#8217;t read it yet&#8230;read it now and we&#8217;ll talk about it: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/02/fashion/02love.html What this woman did worked.  Here are some thoughts on why it worked: 1.  It&#8217;s much easier to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Be Friends</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dont-be-friends/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dont-be-friends/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 19:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a jump off from a question from Robin - &#8220;My pattern seems to be getting put in the ‘friends’ category. When I was a teenager, I thought this was the way to go, because I always heard from people that you want to “marry your best friend.” Or that you have a better [...]]]></description>
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