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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Difficult Situations</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>What To Do If He Won&#8217;t Step Up &#8211; Emotionally or Physically</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Lila, who&#8217;s stuck in what I know is a VERY common situation: &#8220;Rori, we’ve been engaged for almost three years. Whenever we set a date for our wedding, he changes it when the time draws near. I tell people that we are permanently engaged. Also, our sex life is really bad. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Fell For a Stripper &#8211; and She Wants Him Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Mar 2010 02:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay &#8211; here&#8217;s a letter from Sally &#8211; actually, a whole conversation between us that at first seems like such an EXTREME situation we can&#8217;t even relate. But &#8211; actually &#8211; it&#8217;s so totally commonplace, it&#8217;s happening all over the news all the time (Sandra Bullock, Elin Woods&#8230;), it&#8217;s happening on a great TV show [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You Make More Money Than He Does</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-you-make-more-money-than-he-does/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s an issue I hear about all the time, and it&#8217;s very, very challenging, so let&#8217;s go into it. &#8220;Rori, This is a tough one for me because I make more than twice as much money than my boyfriend. Yes, I said boyfriend. He practically begged me to be his girlfriend about a year ago [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pregnant, Dumped and Bad-Mouthed &#8211; How to Save Yourself</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/pregnant-dumped-and-bad-mouthed-how-to-save-yourself/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[end relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[he dumped me]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love posting &#8220;extreme&#8221; situations &#8211; where the pressure and pain and frustration and fear and anger are incredibly intense because of the circumstances. If I can help a woman in this place to pull herself out, turn things around, feel better and get some really good and happy results in her life &#8211; then [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>45</slash:comments>
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		<title>Rihanna Finally Speaks Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 02:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a guest post from Kathryn Tull (I put it together from 2 of her blog posts). If you&#8217;re getting my Interview With Relationship Experts Series, you&#8217;ve just heard Kathryn, and know what a powerful help she and her work is.  I wanted you to know she has a free teleclass coming up called [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dating a Man Who&#8217;s Tormented By His Culture and Family</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dating-a-man-whos-tormented-by-his-culture-and-family/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dating-a-man-whos-tormented-by-his-culture-and-family/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:23:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cultural differences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating different cultures]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intercultural dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interracial dating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question from Alice &#8211; very unique, and yet I know many of you are dealing with it, or know more about it than I. Please help out if you can&#8230; &#8220;Dear Rori, I have listened to your work and read items on your website and what you say seems to make some sense [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>60</slash:comments>
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		<title>What To Do When an Old Love Calls</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[I'm in love with my friend]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[long-distance relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[my ex called me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question from Mary, and I don&#8217;t know anyone who hasn&#8217;t been contacted by an old love who&#8217;s now &#8220;suddenly free.&#8221; It&#8217;s hard to know what to do&#8230;you want to give it a chance, and yet you want to protect yourself. Mary works through this just brilliantly, and I&#8217;ll help, too: &#8220;Rori, Hello. I’ve [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>84</slash:comments>
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		<title>Befriending And Helping A Man Will Get You Gratitude &#8212; But Not Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/befriending-and-helping-a-man-will-get-you-gratitude-but-not-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/befriending-and-helping-a-man-will-get-you-gratitude-but-not-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 05:32:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depressed man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fix husband]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=639</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a quick question-and-answer: &#8220;Rori, I have read your &#8220;Have the Relationship You Want&#8221; book and it is ingrained in my thoughts when evaluating what to do to resolve issues with my relationship, however, I need help with this one&#8230; I have a man who has some emotional issues that he&#8217;s told me and is [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>66</slash:comments>
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		<title>After 17 Years &#8211; He&#8217;s Left, He&#8217;s Fooling Around, and He&#8217;s Put YOU on Trial</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/after-17-years-hes-left-hes-fooling-around-and-hes-put-you-on-trial/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/after-17-years-hes-left-hes-fooling-around-and-hes-put-you-on-trial/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 04:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breakup & Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cheating man]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mid-life crises]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I love letters with what you and I might call &#8220;extreme&#8221; situations &#8212; where we all gasp and swear we&#8217;d never let that happen to us &#8212; but we KNOW, deep down, that it COULD happen to us, that we have, and may still be, tolerating things we don&#8217;t like and playing &#8220;small&#8221; when we [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>154</slash:comments>
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		<title>Trying To Get Away From Pain By Heaping On MORE Pain &#8211; How To End The Cycle</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/trying-to-get-away-from-pain-by-heaping-on-more-pain-how-to-end-the-cycle/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/trying-to-get-away-from-pain-by-heaping-on-more-pain-how-to-end-the-cycle/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 19:10:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Emotional & Physical Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blief system]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve ever wondered why you&#8217;re finding yourself anywhere you don&#8217;t want to be&#8230;let&#8217;s talk about it. Why do we cause ourselves so much pain? There is a reason we&#8217;re attracted to and attract men who are not good for us &#8212; from simply &#8220;not into us&#8221; or &#8220;just not right for us,&#8221; all the [...]]]></description>
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