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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Heal Your Heart</title>
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		<title>Heal Your Heart With Love and Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 17:17:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great question around a recent guest post by Margaret Paul that will take us in an inner direction: &#8220;Rori, Would this be Core Sadness that turned into Wounded Sadness? My Mom &#38; Dad died withing a few months of each other. I was obviously sad (Core Sad). Afterward my husband was cold and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Note From the Universe</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/a-note-from-the-universe/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 20:21:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mike Dooley]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[notes from the universe]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tut]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know you&#8217;re likely getting these yourself now, but I just loved this Note from the Universe from wwwTut.com &#8220;What if (put your name here&#8230;) the coolest person on the planet didn&#8217;t know they were the coolest person on the planet? Just because of a few self doubts, a few trace fears, or the occasional [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Instructions for Installing Love on the Human Computer</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/instructions-for-installing-love-on-the-human-computer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 02:53:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[arielle ford]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love secret]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just got this in my inbox from Arielle Ford at soulmatesecret.com: Dear Soulmate Manifesters, I am thrilled to share with you this very insightful piece on: Instructions for Installing Love on the Human Computer. Tech Support: Yes, how can I help you? Customer: Well, after much consideration, I&#8217;ve decided to install Love. Can you guide [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How to Get What You Want on the Outside Even Before You Heal on the Inside</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-get-what-you-want-on-the-outside-even-before-you-heal-on-the-inside/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-get-what-you-want-on-the-outside-even-before-you-heal-on-the-inside/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 20:38:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[byron katie]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[deepak chopra]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heal relationship]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[the work]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This post is a jump-off of a dust-up and discussion between one of the coaches who posts here, Erika Awakening, and dawn (and more of you, too, as well).  It got me thinking about how it feels for me to coach and write and want to help women as a profession &#8211; and how that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Core Sadness vs. Wounded Sadness</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/core-sadness-vs-wounded-sadness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 16:43:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depressed man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inner bonding]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love how Margaret puts these concepts into clear, understandable and personal ways that we can get our heads and hearts around. I found this article of hers REALLY helpful to explain overfunctioning and what happens when we instinctively give too much to a man, especially a man who&#8217;s sad or depressed or has &#8220;issues.&#8221;  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Losing Weight and Feeling Misery &#8211; When Defenses Come Down, You Get a New Life</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/losing-weight-and-feeling-misery-when-defenses-come-down-you-get-a-new-life/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/losing-weight-and-feeling-misery-when-defenses-come-down-you-get-a-new-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 22:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[change]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lose pounds]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lose weight]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[transition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight loss]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This is a brilliant letter I just got from Carol, and it is so relevant to the situation all of us find ourselves in when we make changes&#8230;and how that shakes things up in all kinds of ways&#8230; &#8220;Rori. I don&#8217;t know what to do. Short story. I was very overweight for a long time. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Avatar’s Impact: How To Train Like A Na’vi</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/avatar%e2%80%99s-impact-how-to-train-like-a-na%e2%80%99vi/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/avatar%e2%80%99s-impact-how-to-train-like-a-na%e2%80%99vi/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[avatar]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dog]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fantasy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[pet]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a post I found on EpicSelf.com by Amber Zuckswert (she&#8217;s very cool), and got permission to re-publish: Toro sashimi dangled from my chopsticks as I sat gingerly on a bar stool gearing up for my much anticipated viewing of Avatar. Since it’s Christmas debut the futuristic Fern Gully has grossed close to $700 [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>68</slash:comments>
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		<title>Your New Year WILL Bring You The Love You Want</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/your-new-year-will-bring-you-the-love-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/your-new-year-will-bring-you-the-love-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 01:49:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heal emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[new year]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New Year's Eve]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[new years]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New Years resolutions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=1162</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is my eletter for today &#8212; wanted to print it here, too &#8211; in case you&#8217;re new to me and just found me here on the blog&#8230; I have a New Year&#8217;s Resolution for us all this year &#8211; and that resolution is: NO MORE NEW YEAR&#8217;S RESOLUTIONS! It just feels all wrong to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>169</slash:comments>
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		<title>Resistance To Pain Makes More Pain &#8211; and Less Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/resistance-to-pain-makes-more-pain-and-less-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/resistance-to-pain-makes-more-pain-and-less-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 22:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[birth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bradley method]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[lamaze]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from la la land that brought up how we fight our emotions and actually cause ourselves more pain&#8230;and how to get out this endless cycle&#8230; &#8220;Rori, i suffered all night because i resisted a feeling. again. this time it was my oldest friend the jealousy train. i hate feeling that so i [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>226</slash:comments>
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		<title>Overtaken by Sad &#8211; What I Do</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/overtaken-by-sad-what-i-do/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/overtaken-by-sad-what-i-do/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 20:28:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional defenses]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m feeling this now, and so I wanted to write it down quick and see if what helps me helps you&#8230; Sometimes you just feel&#8230;sad. You feel it deep in your bones. It can almost be a lovely, poetic feeling. And if you work it in a way that works for you&#8230;you can almost feel [...]]]></description>
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