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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Long-Distance Relationships</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>How to Keep From Investing in the First Date if You&#8217;re Long-Distance</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this age of internet and long-distance dating &#8211; this letter from Vickie struck me as powerful: &#8220;Hello Rori, Your dating advice has been AWESOME–so awesome that I’ve met someone who has all of the qualities I look for in a man. And the wonderful thing is that I’ve used your Circular Dating technique to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stay Out of the Long Distance Relationship Trap</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 01:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Long distance is too hard. I don&#8217;t wish that for any of you.  If you&#8217;ve married a career armed forces man &#8211; you will always be far away from him at one time or another.  If you&#8217;ve married a pilot, you will miss him much of the time. If you&#8217;ve made the decision to marry [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>48</slash:comments>
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		<title>Is He Stringing You Along?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/is-he-stringing-you-along/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 19:29:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever stayed hooked on a man, afraid to do anything that would rock the boat, even though the relationship is totally stuck? We all have.  And I don&#8217;t want you to do that anymore. Here&#8217;s a letter from Jeanette to start the conversation: &#8220;Dear Rori, I am in a long distance relationship and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do In The Face Of NO</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/what-to-do-in-the-face-of-no/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 20:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[assertion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assertiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cancel date]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[passion]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A bunch of comments here centered around what to do in this situation: A man cancels on you. Could be: He hasn&#8217;t called even though he said he would or you hoped he would, or he makes a date and then doesn&#8217;t call to confirm or show up, or he cancels a Saturday night date, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do If He&#8217;s Stationed Overseas in the Armed Forces &#8211; And He Isn&#8217;t Interested In Your Life At Home&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/what-to-do-if-hes-stationed-overseas-in-the-armed-forces-and-he-isnt-interested-in-your-life-at-home/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/what-to-do-if-hes-stationed-overseas-in-the-armed-forces-and-he-isnt-interested-in-your-life-at-home/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 22:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Andrea made such a powerful, frustrating comment on this blog, I wanted to do a whole post &#8211; perhaps a whole series of posts &#8211; on her situation. Andrea&#8217;s at home, 6 months pregnant, while her husband is stationed overseas. She&#8217;s feeling emotional, needy, and missing him terribly. She calls him several times a day [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>67</slash:comments>
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		<title>How To Save Your Long-Distance Relationship</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-go-from-long-distance-to-together-forever/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-go-from-long-distance-to-together-forever/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 22:43:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fear of intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get close to your man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[his fear of intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes the hardest thing about long-distance relationships is when the long-distance part is over. Here&#8217;s a letter from Sarah, who&#8217;s struggling with just that: &#8220;Dear Rori, I am Sarah. I have this wonderful guy, we are engaged, almost getting married but things went wrong and now I don&#8217;t even know the status of my relationship. Like [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>28</slash:comments>
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		<title>How To Attract Him Long-Distance &#8211; Just On The Phone</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-attract-him-long-distance-just-on-the-phone/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/how-to-attract-him-long-distance-just-on-the-phone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 23:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=50</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When all you have is the phone, email and texts to keep in touch with the man you love, because you live in different cities or even different countries, you have to know how to use what you&#8217;ve got. (In my Heart Connection Toolkit CD set, I teach you the Goodnight Talk, and walk you through [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>9</slash:comments>
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		<title>Ground Rules For Long-Distance&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/ground-rules-for-long-distance/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/ground-rules-for-long-distance/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 00:08:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rules for relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Rules]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A Long-Distance Relationship feels difficult if you and your man can really DO a real, in-person relationship. And Long-Distance feels wonderful (in an underground, subconscious way) if you and your man have fear of intimacy and long-standing patterns of pushing love away. In other words, some long-distance couples are happiest when apart, and fall to pieces when they actually [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>8</slash:comments>
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		<title>Solving The Long-Distance Relationship Puzzle</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/solving-the-long-distance-relationship-puzzle/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/long-distance-relationships/solving-the-long-distance-relationship-puzzle/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 22:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Long-Distance Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question &#8211; from &#8220;Alice&#8221; &#8211; to start this discussion: &#8220;Dear Rori, Please tell me if your principles for successful relationships apply to long distance relationships. Thanks, Alice&#8221; Okay &#8211; this is a big one. How do you have a &#8220;relationship&#8221; with a man you only see every-once-in-awhile? How can you stay bonded to [...]]]></description>
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