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Does Your Family Trigger You Intensely – And What To Do With It

intimacyThe answer of what do I do when I feel shaky, frustrated, and  compelled to “fix” the tension in the room is…nothing.

Do nothing.

Feel everything, do nothing.

Otherwise – we start to do, and then we trigger even more, and then we’re into a cycle of: do->trigger->do more->trigger more….

I was at a family “event.”

Conflict is a given. Tension is a given. People stuffing feelings, insult, outrage, all covered over with More…

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So Much Stuff On My Facebook Page

I’m generally not muchfb quote about Facebook (and hardly ever refer anyone there)…

…and, yet, I see that in this new world, getting “FB likes” and “shares” equals “getting heard…”

Messages come from everywhere…

Here are some beautiful photos to go with beautiful and helpful love, self-esteem, peace-inspiring quotes (mine and others)…Hope you like them, feel moved by them, and want to “like” and share them…:

https://www.facebook.com/havetherelationshipyouwant

This FB pix/quote from me above is so true – we overfunction, we “try hard,” we “work” at relationships because we’ve been trained, our whole lives, to believe that our “worth” depends upon what we “DO.”

And it’s not true.

We have worth just because we have worth. Because we are….Because we are women…

We are worthy.

We don’t have to push, don’t have to try, don’t have to think five steps ahead of what’s happening right now.

Love, Rori

 

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What Part Of “Housework” Is “Feminine”?

The Gatekeeper croppedHere’s a great letter from Sara about what constitutes “femininity” – is it in the “eye of the beholder…”?:

The Question:

“Hi Rori and everyone, I would love to hear from you Rori on this, I have got all your programs and think you are great.

I am in a relationship with a man, and have been for 4 years. We moved in 6 months ago. We spent a lot of time getting to know each other before moving in. My intention is not to get married, but to have a long term happy relationship if I can.

I have been previously divorced. My questions is around this:

Both my ex-husband and my current partner say that I don’t have feminine qualities, such as constantly cleaning up, and taking care of the kitchen, etc. I have grown up the exact same way that I am living More…

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Free Coaching With My New Rori Raye Coach Trainees!

celebrateHere’re the new RRRCT 2014 Coach Trainees – and you can get coached for free by any or all of them!

Check out their websites (all very new…), see who you’d like to try out – and contact them directly.

Some have scheduling software already, some don’t…and they are ALL excellent!

Feel free to try out ALL of them (that’s almost 20 hours of free coaching!) – and yet, my guess is that you’ll quickly get such great help and results from the first few ones you try – you’ll stick with them for very inexpensive coaching packages.

Here they are:

http://www.kristianncoaching.com

http://www.powertolove.com

http://www.befirstinhisheart.com

http://www.carlabarnescoaching.com

http://www.LaurenDevaroeCoaching.com

http://www.AnitaAngelesCoaching.com

http://www.juliebeelifecoaching.com

http://www.coachingbyjameelight.com

http://www.poppybyronscoaching.com

http://www.marycatherinecoaching.com

http://www.stephanieturnercoaching.com

http://www.lovecoachnatalina.com

http://www.kelliehatchcoaching.com

http://www.kristinalanerelationshipcoaching.com

http://www.lisabrookscoaching.com

http://www.CoachVioletta.com

 

There are six more wonderful coach Trainees whose websites aren’t up yet – I’ll add them to this list as soon as they are!

Note: If you’d like to write me personally with feedback on any of my Trainees – or what you think of their websites as far as they’ve gotten – please email my assistant Melanie@CoachRori.com – and she’ll forward your feedback to me!

AND – Only some of their newsletters are working (sites are under construction) – most “subscriber boxes” are up as “tests” and aren’t really connected yet – so just email them to set up your free session….and if they have their free reports ready, they’ll email them to you!

*Also – I’ll be starting Rori Raye Coach Training for 2015 on January 19th – so if you’d like to talk about becoming a coach, the way these fabulous women have – let me know! The page with info is at:

http://www.CoachRori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/

 

Love, Rori

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Love Forever Live Today at 11am PDT!

rori lace1In just a few hours – get your personal questions answered by me, live, in the newest Love Forever teleseminar!

***If you have a personal relationship question or situation you’d like me to address, just sign up for “Love Forever” anytime before the class TODAY, Wednesday, August 20th, 11am PDT/2pm EST/7pm Europe - and you’ll get instant access to the Love Forever program (over 25 hours of recorded classes), and you can write to me today during the class from the Love Forever Teleclass webpage. I’ll answer you right then and there!

http://www.coachrori.com/love-forever-program/

(Love Forever is an advanced program, where I work with you on deeper levels of using the Tools you may already have from my programs, and give you completely NEW ones.)

In addition to answering your personal questions, I’ll be talking about how to TALK to a man, and how to UNWIND any patterns that have developed between you and a man you’re with (or seem to always come up with men you date) – so the class is called: “Get Unwound!”

Love, Rori

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An Interview With Rori – Speaking From The Heart

rosestemHere are some bits and pieces from an interview I did years ago:

I was asked: “What about the words you say you teach people to use?”

Here was my answer:

The words and body language and all the other tools I developed and teach look very different on different sides of the relationship dynamic.

I talk about choosing to be the masculine energy partner or the feminine energy partner, and that there has to be one of each in a relationship – regardless of gender or who chooses which role, but that you have to choose.

Masculine energy is about thinking, about action – making decisions, being in charge, delegating tasks, just generally doing, and feminine energy is about feelings – about expressing More…

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The Theme Park Of YOU – EngineeringLand

navigating loveHere’s another installment on my “The Theme Park Of You” Concept (hopefully, it’ll eventually be made into a book or program…):

ENGINEERINGLAND – YOU AS “ENGINEER”

This is the fix-it part of you.

The part that does examining, analysis, doing, accomplishing, constructing, building, calculating…

This is the boy part.

This is the tinkering, the planning part.

Don’t be afraid of it!

It’s necessary. More…

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What A Man Really Wants – Your Modern Siren Hotness

sexyguybackSo what does a man want in a woman more than anything else?

As a man over 40 recently said to me “A man wants a woman who can give him a boner.”

Sounds so crass. So basic. So what we’ve always thought and feared about man, doesn’t it?

And yet I believe him.

So what exactly does this mean for you?

If you’re in your 20s and he’s in his 20s that means that almost any woman he sees can give him a Boner.

He’s free to roam about the country. He’s free to roam about women-kind. And what he needs from you More…

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Be On My Private List….

navigating loveOops! If you tried to sign up to my Private List here on this post before 4:45 pm PDT – the brilliant new tech wasn’t working – so you didn’t actually get signed up, and you didn’t get to download “Navigating Love” – so please try again:

I’m about to create some new programs, interviews, reports – all FREE to my Private List – so be sure to get on it and pick up “Navigating Love” to start–>>

To Get Free Teleclasses, Live Events, Special Programs, Bonuses, New Love Tools, AND – Instantly start reading my “Navigating Love” ebook for free


Love, Rori

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What To Do When He Says…

save relationshipHere’s a letter from Ann, who’s facing a very common dilemma you’ll surely face in a developing relationship, a long term relationship, or Circular Dating – especially when you’re just starting out with the Rori Raye Tools:

The Question:

“Rori, I’d like to thank you for the advice you’ve given me along the way. The longer I live by it, the better my life gets! Not just my love life!

I’ve had a few incidents now where guys ask me why I don’t get in touch, saying that I ‘wait’ for them to initiate.. and I don’t really know what to say. Have any other women encountered this problem? Thank you, Ann”

My Answer:

If a man looks at you, bewildered (or even judgmental) and asks why you “don’t get in touch” – just say the truth!!

(Try this only one line at a time – however you’re feeling it – instead of trying to fit it all in…): More…

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