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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Marriage</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>Get More Love By Doing Less</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 18:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I&#8217;m sick. A cold. Bad, obnoxious, noisy, icky cough. Not a big deal. We women blow through these things. But I ache, and I want to lay down. Puts me at a romantic disadvantage, I think. Don&#8217;t look great. Feel sloggy, so I must look sloggy to my husband. All of a sudden, he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>After 17 Years &#8211; He&#8217;s Left, He&#8217;s Fooling Around, and He&#8217;s Put YOU on Trial</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 04:32:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love letters with what you and I might call &#8220;extreme&#8221; situations &#8212; where we all gasp and swear we&#8217;d never let that happen to us &#8212; but we KNOW, deep down, that it COULD happen to us, that we have, and may still be, tolerating things we don&#8217;t like and playing &#8220;small&#8221; when we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Let Go, Don&#8217;t Resolve, Forget Closure and Stay On Your Horse</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[How can you move forward in your life without &#8220;letting go&#8221; of him?  And still &#8220;dump him&#8221; and &#8220;stop contact&#8221;? This is a jump off of the last post, inspired by the comments. Here are two that sparked me: Erika said: “…sometimes if I ignore a guy, I actually end up thinking about him MORE. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Reviving a Dead Relationship</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/reviving-a-dead-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/reviving-a-dead-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been talking so much about dating &#8211; I wanted to talk about what happens in a long-term relationship, a marriage &#8211; when the connection gets so damaged it dies.  Here&#8217;s a letter from Jane: &#8220;Rori, My marriage is dead. I am sad to say I don&#8217;t even know if I want to try and [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>169</slash:comments>
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		<title>How Expectations Can Change The Outcome</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/how-expectations-can-change-the-outcome/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 23:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ilusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[joy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[modeling relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[patterns in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship cycle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship patterns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I made online friends with this incredible man, Corey Allan.  He has a terrific blog &#8211; SimpleMarriage.net, and I asked if he would write something special for us &#8211; here it is: When you get right down to it, you hear what you expect to hear, you see what you expect to see. Expectations change [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>30</slash:comments>
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		<title>Turn Your Marriage Around Now No Matter What&#8217;s Happening</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/turn-your-marriage-around-now-no-matter-whats-happening/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/turn-your-marriage-around-now-no-matter-whats-happening/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2009 00:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[better marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cheating husband]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[repair relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[save relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust in relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve turned a marriage just like this one around &#8211; let&#8217;s do it for &#8220;Lost His Love&#8221;! &#8220;Hi Rori. My situation is my Husband had an affair with his ex girlfriend. they use to date before I met him. We’ve been Married for 16 years and we lived together for 13 years, before we got [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>29</slash:comments>
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		<title>Celebrate Everything &#8211; Even HIM</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/celebrate-everything-even-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/celebrate-everything-even-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebrate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebrate marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebrating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celebration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really liked this article: http://theoldoakswing.blogspot.com/2008/11/my-marriage-part-2-Celebrate.html &#8211; but it doesn&#8217;t exist anymore! I&#8217;ll try to get in touch with her and see if I can get it back&#8230; Basically, the article is about Celebrating marriage, Celebrating life &#8211; Celebrating yourself, him, sharing time, thinking up ways to Celebrate everything. Okay &#8211; the article clearly refers [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>53</slash:comments>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Betrayed Your Marriage&#8230;Start Here&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/if-hes-betrayed-your-marriagestart-here/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/if-hes-betrayed-your-marriagestart-here/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 03:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad husband]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betrayal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[country house]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Helene, who&#8217;s been devastated by her husband&#8217;s behavior: &#8220;Dear Rori, My husband of twelve years wants to end our marriage. We bought two acres together and built our dream house on it. It took two and half years of labor, and basically living our lives apart except for weekends. We agreed [...]]]></description>
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