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		<title>Sex, Love, Relationship and Marriage &#8211; You Have To Go First &#8211; #3 in the Sex and Re-Commitment Series</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-love-relationship-marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-love-relationship-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 20:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do you go first to deepen intimacy when you&#8217;re working with the experience of sex? Without initiating? Without doing ANYTHING? You open up, baby step by baby step &#8211; and see what he does. Even if he does NOTHING &#8211; you watch. You smile. You melt. You are warm. You unzip your heart. You [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love and Sex &#8211; Hoping For Re-Commitment #2</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-with-ex/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-with-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 May 2010 20:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[better sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[How does sex work in a relationship? How can you get the most pleasure, the most enjoyment, the most learning, the deepest intimacy, the most help for the forwad moving of your relationship &#8211; out of the experience of sex? The way to go here is to USE sex to practice INTIMACY. That means you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex With Ex &#8211; and Hoping For Re-Commitment</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-with-ex-and-hoping-for-re-commitment/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-with-ex-and-hoping-for-re-commitment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 19:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakup sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex in marriage]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sex is such an important thing &#8211; not because it&#8217;s so crucial to be having sex for sex&#8217;s sake (though it makes us healtier in so many ways&#8230;) but because it&#8217;s such a serious barometer for the health and intimacy level of a relationship. It says so much about the physical and emotional status of [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>189</slash:comments>
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		<title>When Sex Disappears &#8211; Circular Date</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/when-sex-disappears-circular-date/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/when-sex-disappears-circular-date/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 17:32:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[initiate sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all have this belief that men want sex.  And so we worry about having sex with them, and we worry about the significance of sex, and we gauge our attractiveness and desirability by whether or not he wants to have sex with us. But something happens that destroys that belief &#8211; we come up [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>246</slash:comments>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Let Go, Don&#8217;t Resolve, Forget Closure and Stay On Your Horse</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/dont-let-go-dont-resolve-forget-closure-and-stay-on-your-horse/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/dont-let-go-dont-resolve-forget-closure-and-stay-on-your-horse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 22:39:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[How can you move forward in your life without &#8220;letting go&#8221; of him?  And still &#8220;dump him&#8221; and &#8220;stop contact&#8221;? This is a jump off of the last post, inspired by the comments. Here are two that sparked me: Erika said: “…sometimes if I ignore a guy, I actually end up thinking about him MORE. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>281</slash:comments>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Get Hung Up On Him &#8211; Even If You&#8217;ve Slept With Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dont-get-hung-up-on-him-even-if-youve-slept-with-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dont-get-hung-up-on-him-even-if-youve-slept-with-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel stuck]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[juicy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pleasure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=517</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the age-old problem &#8211; where does sex fit in the scheme of  &#8220;relationship&#8221;? Especially at the very beginning? A comment from &#8211; I&#8217;ll call her &#8220;Gina&#8221; stated this issue so well, with a lot for me to talk about: &#8220;Rori, I&#8217;ve recently met a man that I feel has much potential to be a [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>162</slash:comments>
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		<title>What To Do If He Doesn&#8217;t Want To Have Sex With You</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/what-to-do-if-he-doesnt-want-to-have-sex-with-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/what-to-do-if-he-doesnt-want-to-have-sex-with-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 07:03:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fix sexual relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[good relationship]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[low libido]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[low sex drive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[make him want me]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from &#8220;InLove&#8221;, who&#8217;s suffering at 20 with a problem most of us have experienced at some time or other, in response to my post about reviving sex&#8230; &#8220;Hi, I just want to ask about a similar situation. I’m only 20. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>55</slash:comments>
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		<title>Jason Mesnick As The Bachelor &#8211; Understanding What Happened</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/jason-mesnick-as-the-bachelor-understanding-what-happened/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/jason-mesnick-as-the-bachelor-understanding-what-happened/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 06:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[broken engagement]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[engagement ring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jason Mesnick]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Melissa]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Molly and jason]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[reality dating show]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[the bachelor]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=346</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay &#8211; what drama.  What a shambles.  High energy Reality TV, a mess very much like what happens everyday with people  &#8211; men and women who get engaged to one sister or brother in a family and then want to marry the other, who move through life like they&#8217;re in high school. People who don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>28</slash:comments>
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		<title>Self-Respect Or Protection &#8211; Which Is It?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/self-respect-or-protection-which-is-it/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/self-respect-or-protection-which-is-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[femininity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self centered woman]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vulnerabilty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vulnerable woman]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=304</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a conversation going on here in the comments, and it&#8217;s terrific, and I want to thank Daria for starting it, and Matt, for showing up here as such a smart, conscious, good man, and providing such a concrete balance to the perceptions we women develop about men our whole lives &#8211; I want to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>32</slash:comments>
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		<title>Feel Good Naked</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/feel-good-naked/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2009 06:15:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[better body]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body consciousness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body image]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[comfortable in my skin]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel good]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel good naked]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel sexier]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel sexy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[good body]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[good in bed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Laure Redmond]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lose weight]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexy in bed]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Just came across this great article, by Deborah May for Oprah.com &#8211; an interview with Laure Redmond who wrote &#8220;Feel Good Naked&#8221;: http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/01/23/o.nude.attitude/index.html The book, I hope &#8211; tells us how to actually DO this &#8211; feel good naked (I&#8217;ll check it out and let you know) &#8211; but it got me thinking.  This should [...]]]></description>
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