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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Power &amp; Self-Esteem</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>That I Would Be Good</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/targeting-mr-right/power-self-esteem/that-i-would-be-good/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 23:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Theme song for us for always by Alanis Morissette: Read the lyrics first - She starts:  &#8220;I promised myself &#8230;&#8221; That I would be good even if I did nothing that I would be good even if I got the thumbs down That I would be good if I got and stayed sick That I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Tool of the Week &#8211; Bring Him Close With Your Inner Drama Queen</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 23:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you sometimes feel like your man has all the Power in your relationship, and you feel almost desperate to get your strong sense of yourself back, I learned something very valuable (the hard way) this weekend that I know will help you, too. If you&#8217;re at all like me, you value being &#8220;nice,&#8221; being [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You&#8217;re Circular Dating But He Pulls Away &#8211; What To Do</title>
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		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/youre-circular-dating-but-he-pulls-away-what-to-do/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 21:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter I got from Jennifer…a very universal situation if you&#8217;ve ever been in the business of attracting and being attracted to unavailable, perhaps even Toxic men: &#8220;Rori&#8230;I have been listening to you for about a year. My name is Jennifer&#8230;.I am a 35 year old single woman who has had 3 long term [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love and Mistakes</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/love-and-mistakes/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/love-and-mistakes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 21:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heal relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I mess-up all the time. Sometimes it&#8217;s just not leaving enough time to do something, or faulty prioritizing, or forgetting something at the market. Sometimes I actually hurt someone&#8217;s feelings. Sometimes I&#8217;m oblivious to what&#8217;s going on, and sometimes I just put my foot in it. So what&#8217;s the message when my foot&#8217;s in my [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>214</slash:comments>
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		<title>Another Note From The Universe</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/another-note-from-the-universe/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 19:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=780</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I love this guy. I get these every day from Tut.com. He&#8217;s Tom Dooley (of The Secret&#8230;yes&#8230;), but I think of these as from The Universe&#8230; I can assure you, Rori, that the time will come when you, too, will ask, &#8220;In what fields did I sow seeds to deserve so very, very much?&#8221; Then [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>288</slash:comments>
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		<title>Self-Acceptance Is the Key to Feeling Loved</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/self-acceptance-is-the-key-to-feeling-loved/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/self-acceptance-is-the-key-to-feeling-loved/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 16:35:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is an article by Matthew Walter and Orna Banarie, who have a fantastic story of how they found each other (the wedding is just about to happen&#8230;). Matthew is a terrific hypnotherapist, and Orna does life and relationship coaching using hand analysis (I personally had a great reading by her) &#8212; and now, the [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>67</slash:comments>
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		<title>Sexy Warrior Woman You</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/sexy-warrior-woman-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/sexy-warrior-woman-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 12:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=695</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Justin/Fernando just left a great comment in which he said how men find &#8220;Warrior&#8221; women sexy. How men actually love being &#8220;called&#8221; on their &#8220;bs&#8221; because then they know that what a woman wants is who they really are and not who they might like to pretend to be. So what exactly is a Warrior [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>60</slash:comments>
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		<title>The Better To Express Ourselves</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-better-to-express-ourselves/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/the-better-to-express-ourselves/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 23:03:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[acting class]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotinal healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Judith Weston]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=571</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So here I am, standing on a stage in a small theater, with 20 people and the teacher in light in front of me and the lovely man in the chair opposite me playing the man in the scene for me (even though I&#8217;m doing a monologue, he is joining me on the stage to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>98</slash:comments>
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		<title>How To Bring Something Up Without Leaning Forward &#8211; DON&#8217;T Bring It Up</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-bring-something-up-without-leaning-forward-dont-bring-it-up/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/how-to-bring-something-up-without-leaning-forward-dont-bring-it-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 04:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[friends with benefits]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=555</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from J &#8211; and I had very strong feelings when I read it, because I know J&#8217;s history with this man. And also &#8211; most truthfully &#8211; because this is exactly the way I was, this is exactly the kind of question I would have asked of Rori Raye long ago, and [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>265</slash:comments>
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		<title>Unearth The Anger And Bring On The Intimacy</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/unearth-the-anger-and-bring-on-the-intimacy/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/unearth-the-anger-and-bring-on-the-intimacy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 18:59:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Self-Esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger management]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[defensiveness in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=492</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a situation &#8211; a VERY common situation, where a man is consistently defensive and on the attack in order to feel okay with himself. The cure is in my Toxic Men program, and I&#8217;ll touch on it here. It&#8217;s about unearthing the anger in you, in him, in the relationship &#8211; and getting it [...]]]></description>
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