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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want &#187; Vulnerability</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>Dancing With Your Boy and Girl Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 02:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Masculine Energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from Linda &#8211; (I just love dancing with my girl and boy energies &#8211; I used to struggle, and now I find it fun to make these choices to fall into &#8220;being&#8221; &#8230;and this comment is a great jumping off place&#8230;) &#8211; Linda says: &#8220;I struggle with my “boy energy”. I have [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Let Him Take The Lead- And Have The Strength To Follow</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/let-him-take-the-lead-and-have-the-strength-to-follow/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/let-him-take-the-lead-and-have-the-strength-to-follow/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 16:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[vulnerable]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This is a guest post from Erin Ginkel &#8211; she sent me this out of the blue, and I thought it was so terrific, I wanted you to see it&#8230;I&#8217;ve since got in touch with her &#8211; and she really is terrific. She&#8217;s a life and relationship coach and you can find her here: www.alwayschallengeunhappiness.net [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From Then To NOW</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/from-then-to-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 22:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[be here now]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[be in the now]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[memory]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I was younger, I was a singer-songwriter. I used to sing in coffee houses and at college events all around UCLA, and at &#8220;open mic&#8221; nights.  After that, I was lucky enough to become a professional and make a living in bands, singing groups and trying to break out on my own &#8211; like [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>233</slash:comments>
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		<title>Shredding The Originals And Starting This Moment</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/shredding-the-originals-and-starting-this-moment/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/shredding-the-originals-and-starting-this-moment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:35:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being present]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[contetnment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[energy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[lift spirits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mike Dooley]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every morning I get one of these &#8220;Notes From The Universe&#8221; from Tut.com and I look forward to them, I save them, I print them out, I put them on my wall.  Sometimes they make my day.  They always get me going, and sometimes they put such a quick positive, happy spin on things I [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>32</slash:comments>
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		<title>Self-Respect Or Protection &#8211; Which Is It?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/self-respect-or-protection-which-is-it/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/self-respect-or-protection-which-is-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:54:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self centered woman]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vulnerabilty]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a conversation going on here in the comments, and it&#8217;s terrific, and I want to thank Daria for starting it, and Matt, for showing up here as such a smart, conscious, good man, and providing such a concrete balance to the perceptions we women develop about men our whole lives &#8211; I want to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>32</slash:comments>
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		<title>Be Your Heart And Get HIS Heart</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/be-your-heart-and-get-his-heart/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/be-your-heart-and-get-his-heart/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 19:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attractive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[be myself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel comfortable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to be yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This fabulous letter is from Pamela Tames, who has a great site http://SeasonedSex.com &#8211; and to me &#8211; it just speaks so powerfully about how we all go to our &#8220;Default&#8221; position when we don&#8217;t feel comfortable &#8211; and how getting aware of what that is for each of us, and using my Tools to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>26</slash:comments>
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		<title>Soft In The Kitchen &#8211; How To Get A Man To Step Up</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/soft-in-the-kitchen-how-to-get-a-man-to-step-up/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/soft-in-the-kitchen-how-to-get-a-man-to-step-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad husband]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[better marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[help marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how can I make him love me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I feel like a just got run over by a truck &#8211; on my feet and onstage for 8 hours at my Targeting Mr. Right seminar and product taping yesterday (it will be out in March)&#8230;I wanted to answer more and more questions &#8211; so you&#8217;ll be seeing a lot of talk about Circular Dating [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>38</slash:comments>
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		<title>How Loving Being Vulnerable Gets You More Love &#8211; No Matter What</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/how-loving-being-vulnerable-gets-you-more-love-no-matter-what/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/how-loving-being-vulnerable-gets-you-more-love-no-matter-what/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 07:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[femininity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flu]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting well]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[ When you&#8217;re sick, you feel Vulnerable. I&#8217;ve had a cold for a few days, and though it&#8217;s slowed me down some, there&#8217;s something about being &#8220;under the weather&#8221; that can really work for us, here. This is what usually happens to us when we get a cold or flu: We don&#8217;t have the energy we [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
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		<title>Is Your Fear of Being a Weak Woman Holding You Back From Success?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/fear-of-being-weak/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/fear-of-being-weak/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 03:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feminism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[success]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a part of me that’s so concerned with not looking weak – I wonder if that’s the single biggest hurdle I face to being the most ecstatically amazing me I can be – and certainly intend to be. This “not looking weak” thing is almost as strong as my fear of “not being nice.” [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>Turn What Makes You Cry Into What Makes Him Love You</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/cry-and-make-him-love-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/cry-and-make-him-love-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 19:24:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Vulnerability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weeping]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Ever weep when you see a baby animal? Ever thought that would turn your man off, so you look away from him or get all embarrassed? Well, that’s what we independent, smart, organized, successful, always busy with work, school or parenting women have been taught to do our whole lives – to be “tough.” Some [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>4</slash:comments>
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