Have The Relationship You Want

Hi, I’ve closed an older post for relationship questions because it’s hard for you to read with so many on the screen.  So here’s a new one!

Please know…if I don’t answer you right away…it likely slipped by me (if so, try again, please…), or I’m trying to put it together into an eletter or a post and forgot to let you know…

If you’re new to our community, your comment will go to “moderation” and won’t show up until I see it (which could take up to a day…sometimes two if I’m swamped) - and I so want to welcome you as I approve your comment.

I’m so grateful for the amazing insight, emotion, poetry and magic you are all sharing here, and wish I could reply to each and every comment and question — I  read everything you say, and will try to keep up with replying to this post as best I can…and if it’s important for you to get a personal reply from me…please keep letting me know.

Love, Rori

Hi - the older post for answering your questions is getting so huge it’s hard to get to them all…so here’s a fresh place for you to start asking new ones and helping each other.

So that everything we do here is helpful to you to having the relationship you want - when you share and help each other in the brilliant way you’re doing, keep doing it the way you are -  with feminine feeling messages and sharing and insights - instead of masculine “ideas,” “tips” and “advice.”  (I’ll take care of that “boy” voice.)

Try it like this…“If I were in this situation, this is how I imagine I would feel, and if I could step back, it would feel good if I tried this….” Or…

“I was in that situation, and I know how that felt, it felt…and this is what I tried that didn’t work, and this is what I tried that did work, and here’s what I learned…”

Please forgive me in advance for not being able to answer each of them - I’ll focus on the most general and the most specific, and jump off into posts as much as I can…

Love, Rori