Words – just like my Choose Your Words line in my Rori Raye Mantra – work.
Changing our old patterns of the way we feel, what we think and the way we ARE with men can start so easily with saying the right WORDS.
But that can’t be ALL of it – just changing things on the outside won’t take you as far into love and connection as you want to go.
It’s a terrific start – changing your words and body language can change everything.
So much of my work (if you have my eBook and heart Connection Toolkit you know how important this is and have seen how fast things can turn around just with changes in words and body language) is about simply changing our words and body language (and just STOPPING doing things like reaching out and calling him).
The words are an OUTER GAME thing.
There’s a big difference between “Faking it till you make it” – which is good – and PRETENDING – which works AGAINST YOU.
Faking it til you make it – or acting as if – comes from a deep place. It’s an intention you set to change your attitude, to get to work and clean house on your INSIDES.
It’s saying – I’m a Work in Progress, here, and I’m moving in the right direction for myself, so this new behavior I’m doing is a placeholder for me to feel this GOOD inside and out – all the way through.
You’re saying “This is just a preview, wait til the real thing catches up – you’ll be a sorry man if you miss this.”
Acting As If says – “I love me, and so I’m behaving on the outside the way I intend to feel on the inside, and if you’re not careful, you’re going to miss your chance to love me, too.”