Here’s a great guest post from my July Interviewee Lisa Copeland. I love Lisa (and feel like I discovered her) – you’ll want to go to her site and pick up her free stuff and read everything she’s got at http://www.FindAQualityMan.com:
3 Types of Men Who Aren’t Date Worthy of You!
by Lisa Copeland
#1 The Busy Man. He can’t commit to you more then a few days in advance.
He’ll make plans then changes them at the last minute leaving you all alone to fend for yourself. Or he’s busy with work or his family so he can’t commit to making plans with you more then a few days in advance. He loves spontaneity and you’ll have “the best time” when he comes through for you this way.
You’ll hope he’s changing, wanting to be with you more often because you had so much fun together.
You’ll never be able to consistently rely on this man plus you’ll always be at the bottom of his totem pole -never being a true priority for him. You want a man that puts you and your relationship in the #1 or #2 spot on his list. If he can’t find consistent time for you now, how will he ever find the time to plan a future with you?
#2 The Depositor. He only calls you late at night and never makes plans to get together with you in real life.
Men love connecting with women on an emotional level and that’s what this man’s doing with out having to commit to you in anyway. He’ll call you nightly telling you how much you mean to him and how he can’t share his thoughts and feelings this way with anyone else in his life.
When he’s done giving you his daily details, he’ll apologize for monopolizing the conversation then ask you how your day went. That’s when you’ll hear the soft snoring begin because he’s released his day to you and now he can rest peacefully. Sounds like another activity doesn’t it?
If this man wanted a real relationship, he’d make time for you during the day and he’d make plans to see you in person. Let another woman have this job-you deserve a man who wants to have a real physical and emotional presence in your life.
#3 The Man Child. He pouts or gets huffy when you don’t drop everything to hang out with him.
He doesn’t recognize you each have your own lives as well as the one you’ve created together. If he could, he’d figure out a way for the two of you to be joined at the hip 24/7. He’d never leave your side except to go to work then he’d run right home wanting to do something only with you.
Being desired by a man this way is so rare that it feels great in the beginning but over time it becomes wearing to have someone in your life who has no life without you. You’ll discover that he’s a man who’s clingy and needy.
Watch out for these kinds of men who are out there trying to date women everyday. If you’re dating this type of man STOP NOW! Don’t allow yourself to settle just because you want a man in your life today.
Men like this will only take from you giving very little back. You deserve to have a grown up man who realizes the importance of giving you both the space and the room to enjoy the life you each brought with you into the relationship.
From Rori – Lisa’s personal story is so captivating, you’ll want to know how she did what she did (so you can do it too), and her philosophy and coaching are so no-nonsense and yet kind, gentle and really heartfelt. you can find her at http://www.FindAQualityMan.com