Granted Im not online all the time & I don’t have inet at home, so its sometimes difficult to get online…maybe Im subconsciously doing this to myself???

Im sick of all these 5-10 emails back and forth without the guy just asking for my number, at what point can I say ‘I feel sick of this, here’s my number…’?

And then theres the texting w.o a phone call, I don’t really know what to say to the, or even to the emails, b/c they are still initiating, but it makes me feel annoyed. Am I expecting too much or what???

Im meeting one guy tonight, and I feel annoyed b/c he didn’t tell me where we were going, and then I get an email “I will call you this afternoon about tonight. u r free rite?” He emails me again, ‘reply to my last message. I’ll be waiting’

After I told him it felt weird that our plans had not yet been firmed up, he went ahead and made the plans, but never called, it was all email-

I put backup plans in my calendar, but at what point can we say, “oh I feel disappointed, when I didn’t hear from you, I made other plans…”

I feel pissed…

I’ll be writing about this…how to feel peaceful in the midst of emotional and actual chaos, how to be most effective at healing the world by healing ourselves, first – and then moving out into the world in the most powerful way to be of help in creating peace for the planet.

And – of course, since romantic love is what we’re primarily focused on here – how all this can expand your love life and your relationships. Love, Rori

I can imagine that happening to me in a relationship and I would not want to feel desperate or completely destroyed by his bad mood (would I?). I haven’t had too much practice in a real day to day relationship.

I have been trying to tone my masculine self down because I want to show and connect more with my feminine self.

I sometimes talk to my inner child and remind her I as a adult now will protect her. I can now listen to my boy and let him find feel good things to do.

As a matter of fact he just did this Saturday. I wanted to go to the store and ride around some. I could tell my hubby didn’t want to go and was giving off that vibe.

But something inside me said go anyway let him deal with his mood. We went to Wal-mart they didn’t have one thing I wanted. Hubby mopping around behind me, I stopped to talk to a guy we know. Then my boy self said see if they still have some Twilight DVD’s. They did he(boy self) said buy it will watch it later. It’s a good movie.

When we left there hubby said where to now? I said let’s take granddaughter to see her mom at work. I could tell hubby was still in his mood but I was looking around as we rode.

After we left her work place hubby said what do you want to do now? I ask my granddaughter did she want a sundae? She said yes. So told hubby I wanted to go to Sonic they had jr. candy sundae’s you could get for 1 buck and asked did he want one? He said no I said ok and started talking to my granddaughter about which kind do we want to get. Well when we got there he decide he want a cone and I could feel his whole vibe change.

He started enjoying hisself. We ate our treats, play some scratch off tickets and rode around some more. A good time was had by all.

My boy self pushed me to go my girl self was about to say to hell with it let him stay in the bedroom pout and watch tv.

So Daria I wanted to thank you so much for telling your story it helps me feel better about my masculine self. I’ll just have to learn to listen when my boy self is trying to help me feel good.

All you ladies are fabulous I appreciate the way we share and encourage each other here so much.

i feel statements

i don’t want statements

the ebook is a great foundation for this.

i feel happy uo shared your experience.
xoxo

Thank you again Linda. And thanks too alias girl…. it feels good to read both of your words, feels comforting.

and yes rori discusses in Targeting Mr Right about our guilt and anger and stuff that comes regarding telling our truth to men. i feel confident it will get easier for me and my uncomfortable ness will lessen. but yaae! free therapy!

jat i feel your pain and confusion. i feel sad you are experiencing this. LEAN BACK. you can say i feel weird. or i feel unsure. or i feel bad. blaming won’t help AT ALL. AlLso circular dating helps put things in a better perspective if you are able to imagine trying to focus on that. good luck. we’re here supporting you. or rather i am and i imagine others are but i don’t want to speak for others like i just did.

i feel super excited about circular dating and all the fun experiences that lie ahead. yae! yae i feel excited to get triggered!!

i feel good about askingmy boy energy to do stuff for my girl.

i just feel really excited after reading your comments daria. thank you so much for sharing!!!

“I don’t believe you. If you are going on a date with someone else I’d prefer you were honest with me about it. I feel lied to and blown off and angry about it. You said we had a special connection, and that it was very rare, but I do not believe meant it. I feel exposed and scared.”

Not saying I’ll say this, just looking for some objective feedback since I’m totally in the throws of all this emotion.