Comments on: What To Do When an Old Love Calls http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/ Marriage & Relationship Advice From Rori Raye Sat, 31 Jul 2010 00:37:58 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=2038 By: Jeannette http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-43228 Jeannette Thu, 03 Jun 2010 17:49:28 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-43228 Aprilshowers, you are right, I have no ring on my finger. I just think it's amazing how a man tries to control who you see. The other guy, Mark calls me every night at the same time...He is moving in with his assumptions and I still need just a little more space to get everything straight. He would probably say, "What!?" if I told him I want to date others too. My daughter dated 2 guys at the same time though and she ended up losing both of them...Men are men....A little territorial at times. Aprilshowers, you are right, I have no ring on my finger. I just think it’s amazing how a man tries to control who you see. The other guy, Mark calls me every night at the same time…He is moving in with his assumptions and I still need just a little more space to get everything straight. He would probably say, “What!?” if I told him I want to date others too. My daughter dated 2 guys at the same time though and she ended up losing both of them…Men are men….A little territorial at times.

]]> By: aprilshowers http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-43140 aprilshowers Thu, 03 Jun 2010 03:04:35 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-43140 PS You said he was a "shy" man. He ain't too shy if he already asked you to a concert! He's a grown man. He knows what to do to woo a woman. Stop doing the work for him! PS You said he was a “shy” man. He ain’t too shy if he already asked you to a concert! He’s a grown man. He knows what to do to woo a woman. Stop doing the work for him!

]]> By: aprilshowers http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-43139 aprilshowers Thu, 03 Jun 2010 03:02:39 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-43139 Hi Jeanette, You are overfunctioning. You asked him for a hug, you sent him an email, you gave him your number, you told him to call you. Whew! I got tired just reading about it. Rori is the expert not me. However, the ladies here are all committed to practicing Rori's tools. She gave 'em to you, now use them! Lean back. You don't have any decisions to make right now. Maybe Old Love will sweep you off your feet, maybe he won't. You don't have to kill him off yet or ever. Until one of these men marries you, they are all CDs. Period. That's it that's all. Lean back. Use your feeling messages. Be open and be surprised. Hi Jeanette,

You are overfunctioning. You asked him for a hug, you sent him an email, you gave him your number, you told him to call you. Whew! I got tired just reading about it.

Rori is the expert not me. However, the ladies here are all committed to practicing Rori’s tools. She gave ‘em to you, now use them!

Lean back. You don’t have any decisions to make right now. Maybe Old Love will sweep you off your feet, maybe he won’t. You don’t have to kill him off yet or ever. Until one of these men marries you, they are all CDs. Period. That’s it that’s all.

Lean back. Use your feeling messages. Be open and be surprised.

]]> By: Jeannette http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-43061 Jeannette Wed, 02 Jun 2010 21:53:49 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-43061 I get the feeling I am on my own with this one...... I get the feeling I am on my own with this one……

]]> By: Jeannette http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-43041 Jeannette Wed, 02 Jun 2010 21:15:08 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-43041 I just sent my old boyfriend a email telling him it was great seeing him and hope to see him again. Girls, please read the entries above here and tell me what you think! I just sent my old boyfriend a email telling him it was great seeing him and hope to see him again. Girls, please read the entries above here and tell me what you think!

]]> By: Jeannette http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-42872 Jeannette Wed, 02 Jun 2010 15:36:39 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-42872 Girls, if anyone would like to comment on #78 here I would appreciate it! Girls, if anyone would like to comment on #78 here I would appreciate it!

]]> By: Jeannette http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-42857 Jeannette Wed, 02 Jun 2010 13:05:40 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-42857 Girls, I am confused. An old boyfriend many many years ago, showed up on Classmates,com SO we met. But I am currently seeing someone else who is very special to me. So when me and my old flame met up it went very well and stirred up emotion in me. We talked about 6 hours, but there was no exchanging of kisses. I asked him for a hug when he left. He still is the shy man I remember. That was Sunday and today is Wed. and I still have not heard back from him. I just don't want to lead him on because I don't know yet what to do. I gave him my phone number and told him to call me. He asked me if he could take me to a concert and I said sure! THis has left me all confused. I am trying to go deep into myself to figure out what to do. I care for him and I care for my current guy who I HAVE NOT yet slept with. Very nice guy. SO.......HELP ME OUT HERE, PLEASE!!!!! Girls, I am confused. An old boyfriend many many years ago, showed up on Classmates,com SO we met. But I am currently seeing someone else who is very special to me. So when me and my old flame met up it went very well and stirred up emotion in me. We talked about 6 hours, but there was no exchanging of kisses. I asked him for a hug when he left. He still is the shy man I remember. That was Sunday and today is Wed. and I still have not heard back from him. I just don’t want to lead him on because I don’t know yet what to do. I gave him my phone number and told him to call me. He asked me if he could take me to a concert and I said sure! THis has left me all confused. I am trying to go deep into myself to figure out what to do. I care for him and I care for my current guy who I HAVE NOT yet slept with. Very nice guy. SO…….HELP ME OUT HERE, PLEASE!!!!!

]]> By: Sweetpea http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-41707 Sweetpea Mon, 24 May 2010 17:48:04 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-41707 I love the way you went through the analysis of this situation. My mind goes in circles like this over everything right now. I have a hard time determining what to do because there are so many scenarios, so many possible results. This makes me feel like I'm a little closer to knowing what to do when I can't determine the right course of action. Thanks Rori! I love the way you went through the analysis of this situation. My mind goes in circles like this over everything right now. I have a hard time determining what to do because there are so many scenarios, so many possible results. This makes me feel like I’m a little closer to knowing what to do when I can’t determine the right course of action. Thanks Rori!

]]> By: Pamala http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-21383 Pamala Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:35:37 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-21383 Perfect explanation! Thankfully, becasue I have been practicing your tools, there are other men I date with whom I feel respected. I don't want to be a warmed over second choice for any man. Thank-you, Rori. Perfect explanation! Thankfully, becasue I have been practicing your tools, there are other men I date with whom I feel respected. I don’t want to be a warmed over second choice for any man. Thank-you, Rori.

]]> By: Rori Raye http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-to-do-when-an-old-love-calls/comment-page-2/#comment-21364 Rori Raye Mon, 23 Nov 2009 23:35:18 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=893#comment-21364 Pamala, Welcome! and here's the simple short answer: Ever heard of "The Little Black Book"? It's been around forever. Men write in every woman's number they can, and then, when they're "in-between" women, they go through their book and start calling. Plain and simple. You become an entry in the book. And if you're not loving yourself properly, it's easy to misinterpret a man calling as actual "interest" - when, actually, he might want a shoulder to cry on, a warm body in his bed, a date for an event...who knows? Just stick with the men who want you and let the rest fall by the wayside. Love, Rori Pamala, Welcome! and here’s the simple short answer: Ever heard of “The Little Black Book”? It’s been around forever. Men write in every woman’s number they can, and then, when they’re “in-between” women, they go through their book and start calling. Plain and simple. You become an entry in the book. And if you’re not loving yourself properly, it’s easy to misinterpret a man calling as actual “interest” – when, actually, he might want a shoulder to cry on, a warm body in his bed, a date for an event…who knows? Just stick with the men who want you and let the rest fall by the wayside. Love, Rori

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