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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>How Men Are Like Women &#8211; They Want What&#8217;s Not Available Just Like We Do</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-men-are-like-women-they-want-whats-not-available-just-like-we-do/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 14:10:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personal authority]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice for men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[torn between two men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what men want]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment from Tony &#8211; and I&#8217;m going to be &#8220;tough.&#8221; First, Tony, thank you for showing up &#8211; having men on the site can be an amazing thing. Not only do you give us information that&#8217;s incredibly helpful &#8211; it also helps us see how much like us you are in some basic [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Upset At Everything He Says And Does?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-upset-at-everything-he-says-and-does/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-upset-at-everything-he-says-and-does/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 14:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[he makes me upset]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[undermine relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[upset at him]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Carol, who&#8217;s feeling horrible with her man &#8211; and my very &#8220;tough&#8221; answer: Hi Rori, I have a question. My man and I were out to dinner and he made the comment that one of his top 5 loves was women. I was hurt by this comment because it made me [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Arguing Done Well Can Deepen A Relationship &#8211; But Most Of The Time It Only Hurts</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/arguing-done-well-can-deepen-a-relationship-but-most-of-the-time-it-only-hurts/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/arguing-done-well-can-deepen-a-relationship-but-most-of-the-time-it-only-hurts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 13:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ashton kutcher]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[demi moore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[end of relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[is it over]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a classic situation: Abigail&#8217;s man is withdrawing, there are arguments, she&#8217;s feeling lost without him&#8230; &#8220;Rori, I&#8217;m having a few personal issues and hoping to get some honest feedback and advice. I&#8217;m 27 years old and I have been going with a guy who I met 17 months ago. The relationship was like a [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>788</slash:comments>
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		<title>Steps To Sanity And Happiness From A Client &#8211; You Can Do This No Matter What&#8217;s Going On</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/steps-to-sanity-and-happiness-from-a-client-you-can-do-this-no-matter-whats-going-on/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/steps-to-sanity-and-happiness-from-a-client-you-can-do-this-no-matter-whats-going-on/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 13:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[if he's depressed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what to do if he needs help]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Susan, who&#8217;s in that age-old dilemma of what to do with a man who&#8217;s going downhill emotionally and physically &#8211; and won&#8217;t do anything about it! We women are ALL so much smarter than men, so much more conscious, we can multi-task and solve problems with our boy energy in incredible [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>683</slash:comments>
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		<title>What Were You Thinking, Girl? How To Stop Self-Sabotage</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/what-were-you-thinking-girl-how-to-stop-self-sabotage-ali-binazir/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/what-were-you-thinking-girl-how-to-stop-self-sabotage-ali-binazir/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2012 14:16:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[choose man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[date men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dr. ali binazir]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[good guy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to date]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This is a guest post by Ali Binazir MD &#8211; of http://taoofdating.com/ and I asked him if I could reprint it&#8230;because I liked it. It&#8217;s especially for you if you&#8217;re in your twenties &#8211; and I think it&#8217;s illuminating for all of us about how we &#8220;go cold&#8221; on a good man because subconsciously, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Great Success Story! From Toxic To Terrific With A New Man</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/a-great-success-story-from-toxic-to-terrific-with-a-new-man/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/a-great-success-story-from-toxic-to-terrific-with-a-new-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 14:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[toxic relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=4282</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s one of the most spectacular success stories I&#8217;ve ever received, from Allison. I found her request for private coaching with me lost in my mailbox, months later. Here&#8217;s her original letter: &#8220;Rori, I recently purchased &#8220;The Modern Siren&#8221; and oh boy has it rocked my world. I need and want your help but at [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>920</slash:comments>
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		<title>Anxiety Is Often The Clue You Need That Something Good&#8217;s About To Happen</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/anxiety-is-often-the-clue-you-need-that-something-goods-about-to-happen/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/anxiety-is-often-the-clue-you-need-that-something-goods-about-to-happen/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 13:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[better relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[change relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional intimacy in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get intimate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s part of a conversation with a client I&#8217;ll call &#8220;Toni&#8221; &#8211; where she&#8217;s moving (at the speed of light, truly&#8230;) from overfunctioning, controlling, anger-filled and resentment-filled communication, fighting, arguments, blaming&#8230;everything going wrong &#8211; to ease, harmony, smiling, affection, love, laughing&#8230;everything going WELL! This letter is happening at the point where Toni&#8217;s making a real [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>673</slash:comments>
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		<title>When You Want To Explain &#8211; Teach Yourself To Keep Your Mouth Shut Instead</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/when-you-want-to-explain-teach-yourself-to-keep-your-mouth-shut-instead/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/when-you-want-to-explain-teach-yourself-to-keep-your-mouth-shut-instead/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 13:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[explain to a man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[he doesn't understand]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[help a man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[No one is worse than I at this. If there&#8217;s a misunderstanding, I want to help everyone understand. If something isn&#8217;t clear &#8211; I want to clear it up. If people look puzzled, I want to explain. If someone is explaining something to my man and he doesn&#8217;t understand &#8211; I want to explain it. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>797</slash:comments>
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		<title>Stop Figuring Out What&#8217;s Going On In His Head And Start Experiencing What&#8217;s In Front Of You</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/stop-figuring-out-whats-going-on-in-his-head-and-start-experiencing-whats-in-front-of-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/stop-figuring-out-whats-going-on-in-his-head-and-start-experiencing-whats-in-front-of-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 13:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[connect with a man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[friend zone]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Rori, You have this amazing ability to communicate in the way that really &#8220;gets through,&#8221; that connects. I was weeping twice during your teleseminar. While I recognize some of the small bits from the stuff I read or heard about in other conversations, it connects those parts&#38;pieces into a whole that feels stable enough to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>791</slash:comments>
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		<title>Asking For Help &#8211; Positive Or Negative?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/asking-for-help-positive-or-negative/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/asking-for-help-positive-or-negative/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 13:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=329</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As women &#8211; we can&#8217;t seem to say what we feel and what we mean without feeling like we have to backtrack the moment we make someone else unhappy. This is your &#8220;sorry.&#8221; Get rid of &#8220;sorry&#8221; and say &#8220;I feel bad.&#8221;  &#8220;I feel guilty.&#8221; This is the Words part of all this that makes [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>882</slash:comments>
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