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	<title>Have The Relationship You Want</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<title>How To Talk to A Man About YOUR Day</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/feminine-energy/how-to-talk-to-a-man-about-your-day/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/feminine-energy/how-to-talk-to-a-man-about-your-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 14:54:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to talk to a man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rlationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what to say to hm]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great question from Sandy about how to simply &#8220;share yourself&#8221; with a man in words: &#8220;Rori, one big question I have is, you said to speak to him in short sentences and when he is in front of me, just basically nod or say &#8220;ok, I understand&#8221; or &#8216;oh that&#8217;s interesting&#8217; etc and [...]<div class='yarpp-related-rss'>
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		<title>Living Together and Working Together &#8211; How To Make It Work</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/living-together-and-working-together-how-to-make-it-work/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 14:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great question about everyday life, losing the &#8220;juice&#8221; and bringing a man (and yourself!) back from the &#8220;brink&#8221; of losing interest. The Question: &#8220;Hi Rori, I live and work with my man, and I make boundaries about &#8216;work&#8217; and &#8216;personal&#8217; time. Lately he&#8217;s been getting resentful towards me because he is saying he&#8217;s [...]<div class='yarpp-related-rss'>
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		<title>A Man Is Never The Problem</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/a-man-is-never-the-problem/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/a-man-is-never-the-problem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 13:41:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[problem with men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[1. A Man Is Never &#8220;The Problem&#8221; We&#8217;re all on our paths, everything is unfolding &#8220;as it&#8217;s supposed to…&#8221; &#8211; and wherever a man is on his path is not the issue. At every moment, you have an opportunity to be open to what&#8217;s next for you. Every moment you get to make a new [...]<div class='yarpp-related-rss'>
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		<title>Sex For Sex&#8217;s Sake &#8211; Is That Okay With You?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-for-sexs-sake-is-that-okay-with-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/sex-for-sexs-sake-is-that-okay-with-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 22:40:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Sex & Sensuality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advice about sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cybersex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[if you just want sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex buddy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[when to have sex with him]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great letter about sex from Anna: &#8220;Dear Sirens (and Rori, of course) &#8211; reading this great post, I feel I finally need to ask for help! I’ve been thinking about this thing over and over in my mind, I’ve discussed and analyzed it with my friends again and again, but some experienced advice [...]<div class='yarpp-related-rss'>
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		<title>When To Call, Text Or Email Back &#8211; And When You&#8217;re Being &#8220;Cold&#8221; Instead Of &#8220;Warm&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/when-to-call-text-or-email-back-and-when-youre-being-cold-instead-of-warm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 14:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[choose good men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationshi advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great question from Ellen about &#8220;words&#8221;: Hi Rori I came up with a thought lately. It would be interesting to hear also your thoughts on the impact of friends and advice on relationships we get. How to handle other people&#8217;s opinions and advice. For example, I have been circular dating now and you [...]<div class='yarpp-related-rss'>
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		<title>How Circular Dating Works!</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/how-circular-dating-works/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 May 2013 14:27:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting hurt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

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		<title>Amp Up Your Sexy With Men (Avoid These 3 Missteps)</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/amp-up-your-sexy-with-men-avoid-these-3-missteps/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 14:14:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[be sexy for a man]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[danielle dowling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecure in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[live advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

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		<title>Get Your Man Back</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/commitment/get-your-man-back/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 08:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>
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		<title>The Answer And The Solution Is Always Inside YOU</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/the-answer-and-the-solution-is-always-inside-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2013 14:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
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		<title>Put Your Love Badge On!</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/put-your-love-badge-on/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 14:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[online dating]]></category>
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