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	<title>Have The Relationship You WANT</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
	<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 00:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>The Highway Of Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-highway-of-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-highway-of-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 00:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bummer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel loved]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get him to love me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[make love happen]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[psychic]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-growth]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spiritual]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spiritual growth]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, my - it&#8217;s all getting away from me. Holidays, and now I&#8217;m jamming to get ready for the filming of my newest program around Circular Dating - I still don&#8217;t have a title for the program - but it&#8217;s all around being a &#8220;Diva&#8221; and so I&#8217;m renaming Circular Dating (and expanding what it&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Having Sex WITHOUT Getting Hung Up On Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/having-sex-without-getting-hung-up-on-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/having-sex-without-getting-hung-up-on-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2008 22:41:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men and sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[regret sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[when do I have sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[when to have sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[when to have sex with him]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=272</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve ever felt &#8220;hung up&#8221; on any and every man you slept with - even though you KNEW he was a lost cause, even though you KNEW he wouldn&#8217;t call again, that he wasn&#8217;t marriage material, and that your heart would hurt very quickly - here&#8217;s some thoughts, jumped off of a comment by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If Low Self-Esteem Is Making You Chase Down A Man - Fix It Now</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-low-self-esteem-is-making-you-chase-down-a-man-fix-it-now/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-low-self-esteem-is-making-you-chase-down-a-man-fix-it-now/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2008 18:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad luck in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating rules]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[if he doesn't call]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex and dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sleeping with a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[The Rules]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what do I do to get him back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[when do I sleep with him]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
Sometimes, when I look back, I&#8217;m just amazed at how naive and &#8220;stupid&#8221; I was about men.  How I humiliated myself, chased after them, pined after them, and thought that was the way relationships went.
And so when I get a letter that makes my face red, and makes me want to stomp around, I know [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Truth Is Sexy</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/the-truth-is-sexy/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/the-truth-is-sexy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 20:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how do I talk to him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to talk to a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=172</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ If you&#8217;ve ever felt torn in two directions with a man, and you&#8217;re struggling with following your heart or your own Boundary &#8220;Rules&#8221; - here&#8217;s a letter from Hannah we can work with:
&#8220;Hi Rori,  I am reading the ebook and doing the writing exercises. I already feel better. I decided that clenching my [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holidays And Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/holidays-and-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/holidays-and-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2008 08:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Chanukkah]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Hanukah]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[hanukkah]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Kwanzaa]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love at the holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The Holidays are slipping away from me. I’m buzzing, speeding, moving faster than sound waves. Brain on overdrive, pedal to the metal. It’s Hanukkah. It’s Christmas. It’s Kwanzaa. It’s New Year’s. All at once.
I see my entire life in rewind. My whole life crammed into two weeks. I remember my childhood and the Hanukkah candles, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Move On From A Broken Engagement</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/how-to-move-on-from-a-broken-engagement/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/how-to-move-on-from-a-broken-engagement/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2008 05:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup &amp; Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be dumped]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dumped]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[end relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement over]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he broke up with me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he dumped me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[just broke up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sudden breakup]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=241</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a heartbreaking letter from Leslie, who&#8217;s suffering the surprise and sudden end of her 6 year relationship:
&#8220;Rori, I thought I was in a wonderful relationship with a man I have been with off and on for 6 years. He had given my an engagement ring and we planned to get married next June. We [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Look Confident Even When You&#8217;re Confused</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/look-confident-even-when-youre-confused/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/look-confident-even-when-youre-confused/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 23:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[become confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidenct]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to look confident]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ice princess]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[raise confidence]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=185</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Rachel, and It&#8217;s so universal, I&#8217;m going to write a lot about the issue of &#8220;Confidence.&#8221;:
&#8220;Rori, Here&#8217;s my situation, I have been single for about a year, and can&#8217;t figure out why.  I&#8217;m quite attractive and at times confident (if I&#8217;m not interested in a man), but as soon as a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Addicted To Men - Do This</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-youre-addicted-to-men-do-this/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/if-youre-addicted-to-men-do-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 21:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[4 man plan]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=197</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ Allana Pratt, the Sexy Mom Expert (and I know her and love her and she truly is&#8230;) wrote a comment about my Circular Dating as Healing post - you can read the whole comment here-&#62; and basically, she deals with her clients a bit differently than I do in this one way&#8230;
For the most [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Ignore Him Or Let Him In?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/should-you-ignore-him-or-let-him-in/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/should-you-ignore-him-or-let-him-in/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2008 02:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear of intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=183</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like a guy was hanging around you, but he just never asks for a regulation date?
And you don&#8217;t know how to behave?
Here&#8217;s a situation from Helene I think is pretty universal - especially if you live in a small town where everyone hangs out together and seems to know everyone else:
&#8220;Hi [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Porn And Your Relationship</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/porn-and-your-man/porn-and-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/porn-and-your-man/porn-and-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 19:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Porn And Your Man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[computer porn]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he looks at porn]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[porn]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[porn and men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[your m an and pornography]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=232</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - this is a tough, tough topic - and I asked Tinque to guest post about it - because she&#8217;s dealt with it in her own life, becoming an amazing woman, an absolute expert and a great coach. Her take is completely the opposite of everything you&#8217;ll hear out there, and I&#8217;ll be asking [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do With Your Rage - Bethany 6</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/what-to-do-with-your-rage/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/what-to-do-with-your-rage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 18:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communicate in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[conflict in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[I'm angry with him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=138</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Bethany&#8217;s now moved from anguish - to anguish and RAGE, and though she&#8217;s trying to cork the rage, it just squeaks out - see if this will help you:
&#8220;Hi,  Rori,  I saw Carl in the computer lab today and I felt angry.  He was with a student and the three of us [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When You&#8217;re In Anguish Over Him - Bethany 5</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/when-youre-in-anguish-over-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/uncategorized/when-youre-in-anguish-over-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 18:28:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[painful relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship pain]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=136</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Bethany is in the middle of a crisis.  The crisis began when she started dating Carl, and it goes on day after day, because, as much as she loves him, she feels awful with him, too:
&#8220;Dear Rori, I&#8217;m feeling jealous right now.  I got a text from Carl not understanding why this girl is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He Wants To Be Friends - Get Your Energy Out Of There</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/from-lovers-to-friends-and-back-again/if-he-wants-to-be-friends-get-your-energy-out-of-there/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/from-lovers-to-friends-and-back-again/if-he-wants-to-be-friends-get-your-energy-out-of-there/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 17:47:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[afraid of losing him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[end relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he wants to be friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[losing him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[saying goodbye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=265</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever pretended to the man who just turned you from a lover to a friend that you&#8217;re OKAY with that?
Here&#8217;s a comment from Mariah (here&#8217;s the whole comment-&#62;) - (I&#8217;m working with it here because I think it&#8217;s a universal situation that will help you, too):
&#8220;Rori, I wrote to you while back about [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Your Logo For Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/your-logo-for-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/your-logo-for-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 20:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel beautiful]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[goddess]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[goddess nature]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[higher self]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[inner beauty]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spiritual guidance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spiritual self]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wholeness]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=263</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great idea from Clara, and I&#8217;m turning it into a Tool:
&#8220;Dear Rori,
An Idea I had - it is a bit silly but who knows you might like it…
Why not make yourself a LOGO, or a Trade Mark Symbol in the Figure of a Siren or a Goddess or Mermaid ? And also a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Speed Dating Tips For Free Therapy</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/speed-dating-tips-for-free-therapy/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/speed-dating-tips-for-free-therapy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2008 19:45:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be yourself with a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[speed dating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a quick tip for a specific situation.  See if you can use this the next time you go to a party - perhaps your office Holiday party - or anywhere where there are men:
&#8220;Hey Rori, I&#8217;m going to a speed dating event tomorrow night - Any last minute tips????? I&#8217;m really nervous and almost [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To  Do If You Can&#8217;t Get Over Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-you-cant-get-over-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-you-cant-get-over-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 20:17:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[can't get over him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[end heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find new love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get over him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get over man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[let go of him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=261</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[What is it about getting over a man?  Letting go?  Leaving it be, even without &#8220;Closure&#8221;?
Here&#8217;s part of a comment from Clare - the whole comment is right here-&#62;:
&#8220;Rori, Is it possible to not be able to get over your first love? It has been 4 years and still I can’t get over the guy [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Really Claiming You For Ever After?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/claiming-you-forever/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/claiming-you-forever/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 09:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[forever after]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what do men like in women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what do men want]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=260</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So - what do you do when it seems he&#8217;s &#8220;claimed&#8221; you - and then he&#8217;s gone?
This is a jump-off from Jon&#8217;s comment/post (find it here) and a comment from Linda about what Jon said - and, to me, this is one of the most frustrating and common situations I hear about (and, yes, I&#8217;ve [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Truth From A Man</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-truth-from-a-man/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/the-truth-from-a-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 06:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men and relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what a man wants]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what men want]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what men want in women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=258</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So what does a MAN think about all these Tools, and everything we&#8217;re saying here?
Pretty much exactly what I say - and it sounds so clear (and pretty harsh, too) coming from a man - it sort of wipes all the cobwebs off the table, dissolves the confusions, the misconceptions.
The only thing is - understanding [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Gone From Friend To Lover And Now He&#8217;s Confused</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/from-lovers-to-friends-and-back-again/if-hes-gone-from-friend-to-lover/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/from-lovers-to-friends-and-back-again/if-hes-gone-from-friend-to-lover/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 05:13:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[From Lovers To Friends And Back Again]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affair]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friend tolover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[make him want me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what do men want]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=182</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a letter from Sheri - and as I read it I nearly jumped out of my chair in recognition of how I&#8217;ve done in my own life exactly what Sheri&#8217;s doing, and then started pounding the keyboard with frustration - for her, for me in the past, and for any of you who are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Celebrate Everything - Even HIM</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/celebrate-everything-even-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/marriage/celebrate-everything-even-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrate marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebration]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=218</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I really liked this article:
http://theoldoakswing.blogspot.com/2008/11/my-marriage-part-2-Celebrate.html - but it doesn&#8217;t exist anymore! I&#8217;ll try to get in touch with her and see if I can get it back&#8230;
Basically, the article is about Celebrating marriage, Celebrating life - Celebrating yourself, him, sharing time, thinking up ways to Celebrate everything.
Okay - the article clearly refers to a marriage [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Romance Yourself And Bring Him IN</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/romance-yourself-and-bring-him-in/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/romance-yourself-and-bring-him-in/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 19:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[create romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[declutter]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[home organizing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[make him romantic]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romantic gifts]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romantic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=245</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Romance is a skill and a talent - and it requires effort - so Romance is a &#8220;boy&#8221; thing.  That&#8217;s why it feels so awful to us when it&#8217;s not coming at us, and we&#8217;re left to try to think of how to do romance ourselves.
So - try this - write out and imagine what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Thank Yourself In Advance</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/thank-yourself-in-advance/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/thank-yourself-in-advance/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 19:25:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gratitude]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-erespect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spirituality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[thanksgiving]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=246</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
Happy Thanksgiving!
***If you get my free eLetters, you&#8217;ve already received this&#8230;and I&#8217;d like you to print it out from here (if you haven&#8217;t already) and put it up where you can see it and DO it, and make it one of your Thanksgiving presents for yourself&#8230;)
Ever wondered if things could really turn around &#8220;on-a-dime&#8221; for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Joy And Gratitude</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/joy-and-gratitude/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/joy-and-gratitude/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 00:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[gratidue]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[joy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[thanksgiving]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=243</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When my daughter was small, Thanksgiving at school was about the Native American experience, about the Pilgrims, and about all the conflicting stories of that time. With just a tiny bit of research, I&#8217;ve found Thanksgiving to be a very, very old tradition, a celebration of the Harvest, and much more applicable to what we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why A Man Does What He Does</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/why-a-man-does-what-he-does/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/why-a-man-does-what-he-does/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 17:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[long-distance relatoinship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[why did he leave]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=242</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is in answer to a comment by sifsgoldwig - (here&#8217;s the comment-&#62;) after a break up, and I thought my comment might help you, too:
I thank you, sifsgoldwig, for your heartfelt story and the great questions it brings up.  I can&#8217;t help you specifically to understand this situation - because spending ANY time, energy [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Art Of Attracting Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/art-of-attracting-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/art-of-attracting-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 00:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[art therapy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=238</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So - what possible link can there be between drawing and attracting men?
Lots of links, actually, and I&#8217;m working with them myself.  I&#8217;m taking an art class once a week - I&#8217;ve always loved drawing and painting - but never had any real &#8220;technique&#8221; so I&#8217;d get frustrated with what I was doing and then [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Going From Passionate To Friendly</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/if-hes-going-from-passionate-to-friendly/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/if-hes-going-from-passionate-to-friendly/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engaged]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friends to lovers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[friendship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[he wants to be friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lovers to friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=231</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Thank you for your brilliant comments and stories and testimonials, and I realize the only way I can answer you in a meaningful way is here in actual posts (please forgive me in advance for replying to some, and not all of your comments - it would be overwhelming for me to even try, so [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Believe You&#8217;re ENOUGH For Him</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/how-to-believe-youre-enough-for-him/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/how-to-believe-youre-enough-for-him/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 22:13:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Porn And Your Man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pornography and relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=233</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not pretty enough. I&#8217;m not sexy enough. I&#8217;m not smart enough. I&#8217;m not (fill in the blank) enough. I&#8217;m not enough. Sound familiar?
You may have read some of Tinque&#8217;s comments here, and some of her articles that I&#8217;ve posted.  Her real name is Dominique, and she&#8217;s a former client of mine who&#8217;s just leapt [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Managing The Ups And Downs Of Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/managing-the-ups-and-downs/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/managing-the-ups-and-downs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract my man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dreams come true]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[manifesting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[true love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=228</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Today&#8230;I just wanted to be MOTIVATIONAL!
There are going to be ups and downs, bouncing around, feelings going from good to bad to good again, and things will happen you don&#8217;t expect.
AND you will continually be moving forward ANYWAY!
This is the whole thing I want you to know, even if it feels weird - if you&#8217;re [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Holiday Man-Catching Secrets</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/holiday-man-catching-secrets/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/holiday-man-catching-secrets/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holiday blues]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love for holidays]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Keri Newell (you may have heard the interview she did with me in my Interview Series, and she&#8217;ll be appearing and doing live demonstrations on my new program about Circular Dating) is doing a one-time free teleclass tomorrow evening (Wednesday) at 5pm Pacific Time, 8pm Eastern (and wherever you may be in-between), called [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Say To Him When You&#8217;re Dating Other Men</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-to-say-to-him-when-youre-dating-other-men/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-to-say-to-him-when-youre-dating-other-men/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:03:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[first date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex on dates]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=180</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So - what do you say to him - especially if he says he &#8220;doesn&#8217;t want to date a woman who&#8217;s dating multiple men?&#8221;
Here&#8217;s a letter from Mary, who&#8217;s trying to get away from a &#8220;friends with benefits&#8221; situation:
&#8220;Rori, I have been reading your letters over the past few weeks and they have really helped [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Tool Of The Week - Paint Yourself In Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-tool-of-the-week-paint-yourself-in-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-tool-of-the-week-paint-yourself-in-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[advice for love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[devoted to me]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[devotion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man's devotion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship. love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sesaulity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=227</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So many of you have told me that this Tool - Paint Yourself - has created a breakthrough for you. And so I wanted to reprint it here in case you&#8217;re new to me and aren&#8217;t getting my eLetters yet (be sure to sign up to get them, they&#8217;re free, and once they&#8217;ve gone out [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Does Circular Dating Do For You?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-circular-dating-do-for-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-circular-dating-do-for-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 20:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date more than one man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating rotation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meet man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamorous]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=226</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a comment-question from TW, and to show you how fast and amazingly you can catch on to all this and change your life, see how brilliantly here Alias Girl, Daria and JP answered! (You can see all the comments here-&#62;)
The question - from TW: &#8220;What exactly is circular dating and what purpose does it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Turning Around Disappointment</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/turning-around-disappointment/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/turning-around-disappointment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[disappointment in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self blame]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spiritual growth]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=222</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Ever stood in your living room, in your kitchen, looked at your man, or your empty &#8220;dance card&#8221; of fun things you&#8217;d like to do and wish you&#8217;d done, felt the disappointment well up in you and the words come into your brain &#8220;How&#8217;d I get here?&#8221;
I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s one of us that hasn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/turning-around-disappointment/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>Why Is My Ex Showing Up Everywhere?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/why-is-my-ex-showing-up-everywhere/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/why-is-my-ex-showing-up-everywhere/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 21:05:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup &amp; Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break up with boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex-boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get away from boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[miss my ex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[old boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[painful breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[want ex back]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=221</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Andrea is suffering with the fact that her ex seems to be showing up everywhere in her life - just as she&#8217;s trying to make huge changes&#8230; (here&#8217;s the whole series of comments, back and forth, from Andrea and JP)-&#62;
&#8220;Rori, I feel like there is a force trying to connect us. For example, I am [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Let Me Know What You Need For My Next Program On Circular Dating</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/new-circular-dating-program/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/new-circular-dating-program/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2008 02:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[improve marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=217</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[My next program will be about Circular Dating - What it is, Why it works no matter what situation you&#8217;re in (even if you&#8217;re married, with some adjustments), and exactly How to do it in all kinds of situations.
Would you let me know what you&#8217;d like me cover?  I&#8217;m going to use many scenarios and [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/new-circular-dating-program/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>Embrace Your Change</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/embrace-your-change/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/embrace-your-change/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 20:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Barack]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Barack Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[election]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[elections]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[government]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Michelle Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Nov 4]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[patriotism]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=219</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yaaay!  The election&#8217;s over, and it feels like things are moving in an orderly, methodical, well-thought out and yet passionate way.
However you voted, I hope you will now gather the entire world together in your mind and heart as a peaceful world - accepting and loving all the pieces of it that are painful and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Chemistry - True Or False?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-chemistry/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-chemistry/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 02:06:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chemistry in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love chemistry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship chemistry]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=215</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I posted some of my thoughts about &#8220;Chemistry&#8221; in relationships at www.Alphawomen.com, and got a huge response.  Freda Mooncotch, the owner of Alphawomen, asked me this:
&#8220;Rori,  Do you think you can create chemistry between two  people who don&#8217;t have it?
I was watching Sex and the City where Carrie meets Aiden and although there  [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/relationship-chemistry/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>Sex And Obsession - Bethany Session 4</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-obsession/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-obsession/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 16:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mental health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[obsession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[personal growth]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=135</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sex is a delicate negotiation - even when you&#8217;re long married.
How to get it started, how to make sure it&#8217;s good, how to end it and move on to the next moment of being in a relationship.
Bethany is working her way through all that - getting to orgasm in an organic, easy, fulfilling and self-responsible [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-obsession/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>Are You Punishing Yourself Because You Want To Punish HIM?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/are-you-punishing-yourself/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/communication/are-you-punishing-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 03:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad husband]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional vilence]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve marriage problems]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=212</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Reshi asked a great question - after doing some amazing work to get to the bottom of her feelings - the feelings and thoughts she found there were frightening (to read Reshi&#8217;s entire comment, go here-&#62;)
Here&#8217;s a bit of her comment:
&#8220;So I did a little Riff on that and came out with about the scariest [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Forget The 4 Man Dating Plan - Try The 10 Man Dating Plan</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/10-man-dating-plan/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/10-man-dating-plan/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 00:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[4 man plan]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating rotation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=198</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
Every time I sit to write about Circular Dating, I feel as if it&#8217;s so obvious.  So natural, so logical.  Exactly the way we women should always be thinking in terms of men, and dating&#8230;and then I look at my emails and the comments to this blog, and all the articles I read out there [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Vote Today For Yourself</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/vote-today/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/vote-today/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 12:17:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Biden]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[election]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[McCain]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Palin]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vice-president]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[vote]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[votes]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[voting]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=209</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Be in your Masculine Energy today - to get yourself to the polls to vote, and to make sure you have a book with you, your journal and a pen, so you can be a girl and have something fun to do while you&#8217;re waiting in line!
Sink into your Rori Raye work - feel what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Recover Your Joy</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/recover-your-joy/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/recover-your-joy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 02:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Heal Your Heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addiction to man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[broken heart]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[married man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[obsession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=203</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
I got a comment from Clara a few days ago, and I wanted to do more for her -  Clara is seriously obsessed and addicted to a man who is no good for her, who&#8217;s been in and out of her life for years and years, and even though she&#8217;s only 42 and married, she [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Make Him Propose At Last</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-make-him-propose-at-last/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-make-him-propose-at-last/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 23:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[be more attractive]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage proposal]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[proposal]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[propose]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[red dress]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wedding]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=201</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I found this while surfing around, it&#8217;s by Pamela Tames, at www.SeasonedSex.com, and I thought it was great - she titled it &#8220;How To Make Him Propose. At Last&#8221;:
&#8220;You’re a woman. You’ve probably read, what, 8,702 relationship books about how to make men crazy with lust and glue them to you until death do you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Hanging On Only Because Of Your Kids?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/relationship-hanging-on-only-because-of-your-kids/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/relationship-hanging-on-only-because-of-your-kids/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[hanging on to marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[kids in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mariage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[motherhhod]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[saving marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stop divorce]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
Here&#8217;s a letter from Lena, who&#8217;s struggling with confusion and feeling trapped:
&#8220;Rori, I feel my relationship is hanging on only because of my kids. My partner says he loves me but His actions aren&#8217;t showing that. To get to the point I am extremely insecure - I compare myself to every woman we see/come into [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sex, Feeling And Attraction - What To Say - Bethany #3</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-feeling-what-to-say/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/sex-and-feeling-what-to-say/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 21:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[doormat]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional boundaries]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[goddess]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=134</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the next step in Bethany&#8217;s work - completely overhauling and reversing her opinion of herself, taking herself out of &#8220;doormat&#8221; mode and putting herself into &#8220;goddess&#8221; mode, having Boundaries and yet being soft, open, warm and inviting, advocating for herself and her ENTIRE life - not just the part of it she shares with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Dating And Flirting - Even If You&#8217;re IN A Relationship - Help You Stop Hurting</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dating-stops-relationship-hurt/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/dating-stops-relationship-hurt/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 21:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addicted to him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addiction to love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[addiction to man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[co-dependency]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[codependency]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[codependent]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cure love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addict]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man addiction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=199</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Allana Pratt, the Sexy Mom Expert (and I know her and love her and she truly is a wonderful coach&#8230;) wrote a comment about my Circular Dating as Healing post - you can read her whole comment here-&#62;
Allana asked me a question - basically about the concept of taking a &#8220;break&#8221; from dating to heal&#8230;
For [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should You Have Sex?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/should-you-have-sex/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/should-you-have-sex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 20:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamorous]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[polyamory]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex and dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sleep with him]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=196</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
This is a jump off from Ashley&#8217;s comment - here-&#62; about how to date and handle sex and being a &#8216;Girlfriend.&#8221;
Ashley, here&#8217;s my take - when you&#8217;re young - say not yet within three to five years of wanting to have a child - though you really don&#8217;t want to fall into the &#8220;Girlfriend&#8221; trap [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Great Speed Dating Tips</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/great-speed-dating-tips/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/great-speed-dating-tips/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to find men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to meet men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[speed dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[where to date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[where to meet  men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=194</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Every once in awhile I find an article or a post out there that I KNOW will be really helpful to you - and here&#8217;s one, from &#8220;AdviceMaven&#8221; at http://luvem-leavem.blogspot.com/.  It&#8217;s about &#8220;New Trends in Speed Dating,&#8221; - the tips here are wonderful all by themselves, and I&#8217;m going to add a way to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dating Heals Your Heartache</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dating-heals-your-heartache/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/dating-heals-your-heartache/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 04:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Circular Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[date men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man magnet]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapist]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=192</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m writing this as a &#8220;jump-off&#8221; from a letter I received from &#8220;Jeanne.&#8221; I don&#8217;t want to print the letter itself, because I&#8217;m going to say something unfavorable about the therapist in the letter - so, here goes:
In the letter, &#8220;Jeanne&#8221; has a horrible-feeling pattern of getting involved with men who are Toxic, who are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He Calls But Bethany Finds Her Anger - Post 2</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/he-calls-but-bethany-finds-her-anger-post-2/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/he-calls-but-bethany-finds-her-anger-post-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry at man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[angry woman]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=133</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the next letter from Bethany - You can see how she&#8217;s working the Tools, feeling so much more, expressing herself in Feeling Messages, doing the Tools from the Power &#38; Self-Esteem category on this blog and getting much better results with her men:
&#8220;Rori,
 
Okay, well, I&#8217;m going away with him for the weekend!  I felt [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New Tool To Attract Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/new-tool-to-attract-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/new-tool-to-attract-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 03:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attention]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract your man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing music]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lover]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[music for love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[music heals]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[receive love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wonderful lover]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=189</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This Tool is from Reshi&#8217;s comment - here&#8217;s what she wrote:
&#8220;This is completely random and off-topic but I just made up a Tool today that might help some women. I don&#8217;t know about most people, but I believe that the music you listen to has a huge subconscious effect on your emotional and mental programming. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Negotiate Being A &#8220;Girlfriend&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-negotiate-being-a-girlfriend/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-negotiate-being-a-girlfriend/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 02:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[engagement ring]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive with man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[promise ring]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=188</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s my answer for Baby Blue Eyes - First - the question:
&#8220;Hi Rori, I have a question for you about the ‘Girlfriend Trap.’ I love the concept, but if a man officially asks a lady to be his ‘girlfriend,’ how does one decline - without putting him ‘off’?&#8221;
And here&#8217;s my answer:
Blue Eyes - If he [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Pregnant And In Love - But He&#8217;s Not Sure Anymore</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/if-youre-pregnant-and-in-love-but-hes-not-sure-anymore/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/if-youre-pregnant-and-in-love-but-hes-not-sure-anymore/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 18:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Difficult Situations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[abortion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[forced marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[late child]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marry him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pregnancy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pregnant]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[single mother]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[single motherhood]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[unwanted pregnancy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=179</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a problem from Emma I&#8217;d like to put out for your wonderful comments.  I&#8217;ll let Emma speak for herself:
&#8220;Dear Rori, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months, but we really get on well. A few weeks ago, he asked me to marry him. That weekend, we had sex without protection, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He’s Still Around In My Dreams - Teaching Me About Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/he%e2%80%99s-still-around-in-my-dreams-teaching-me-about-love/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/he%e2%80%99s-still-around-in-my-dreams-teaching-me-about-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 04:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[don't give up on love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man of dreams]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[perfect man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[younger man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=178</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is a personal story about a man who didn&#8217;t &#8220;work out&#8221; but who still shows up from time to time in my dreams&#8230;.
I was 12 years older than him, but we didn&#8217;t know it. It was a long time ago, and I&#8217;ll always think I almost married him - white picket fence and all.
I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Support For You If You Have Health Issues</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/physical-health-and-chronic-illness/support-for-you-if-you-have-health-issues/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/physical-health-and-chronic-illness/support-for-you-if-you-have-health-issues/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 21:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Physical Health &amp; Chronic Illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breast cancer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breat cancer survivor]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cancer survival]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chronic fatigue]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chronic illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[epstein-barr]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[epstein-barr syndrome]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fatigue]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel good]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get healthy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get well]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health issues]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lose weight]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[nutrition]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[recover from illness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[recovery]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wellness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[womens health]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=184</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So many of the women I talk with are dealing with serious health issues like chronic illness, chronic fatigue, cancer, heart problems - so many other physical issues that take up all your time and energy, and make everything else in life so much more challenging.
I just read a comment here from Caroline, and wanted her, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Glide Through Scary Dating</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/how-to-glide-through-scary-dating/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/how-to-glide-through-scary-dating/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2008 21:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[childhood abusee]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating after abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to turn him down]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=177</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This post is in answer to Alias Girl - who&#8217;s working with Circular Dating and how to deal with men she doesn&#8217;t like, who offend her, who only want sex, or who are boring to her and who she no longer wants to date.  You can see the back and forth comments here-&#62;
This is going [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Turn Yourself On All Day Long</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/turn-yourself-on-all-day-long/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/turn-yourself-on-all-day-long/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 20:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[female orgasm]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masturbate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masturbation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[orgasm]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-pleasure]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex-less marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=173</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Sex and sexuality and sensuality - all together - is such a powerful topic, and we hardly ever discuss it. It&#8217;s SO easy to get comfortable in the &#8220;companionship&#8221; part of any relationship (not only in a marriage), and just let the &#8220;juice&#8221; fade out.
And &#8220;scheduled&#8221; sex feels like such a chore&#8230;we&#8217;re all overworked and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Madonna&#8217;s Divorce And Your Love Life</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/madonnas-divorce-and-your-love-life/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/madonnas-divorce-and-your-love-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 17:44:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[affair]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrity divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[celebrity marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating spouse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Guy Richie]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Madonna]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Madonna divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rescue marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=168</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Although no one can even pretend to know what exactly happened between Madonna and Guy Richie after all these years of being together in a rare, successful marriage - my own best guess would be that Madonna is not a woman willing to &#8220;work&#8221; on a relationship that doesn&#8217;t feel good to her.
Perhaps this is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Revive Sex In Your Relationship</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/revive-sex-in-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/sex-sensuality/revive-sex-in-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 21:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Sex &amp; Sensuality]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[better sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bring love back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bring sex back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get sex back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[juice in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[low libido]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[low testosterone]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[save marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sexuality in marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=159</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - we&#8217;re going to start talking about sex, and how to bring it back in a relationship or marriage that&#8217;s been going without.
I&#8217;m jumping off a comment by Reshi - who&#8217;s been in a nearly sexless marriage for a long time.  She says &#8220;&#8230;He sleeps in the guest room, won&#8217;t have sex with me, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Channel Your Feminine Power Into The Next Step</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/channel-your-feminine-power-into-the-next-step/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/channel-your-feminine-power-into-the-next-step/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 19:17:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[action list]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[channel energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[channel feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Feminine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feminine power]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[femininity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fun relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[have fun]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[having fun]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Masculine Energy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[power]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship turnaround]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-regard]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-respect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[to-do-list]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=153</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m jumping off into some next steps after your wonderful Riffing and turning things around.
I totally don&#8217;t want to move too fast here. You have to really get into the steps we&#8217;ve done - they have to become automatic in order for you to take this next step - so make sure you can riff [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do When You Feel Rejected</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/what-to-do-when-you-feel-rejected/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/breakup-divorce/what-to-do-when-you-feel-rejected/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 18:50:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Breakup &amp; Divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[call him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[call man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cold man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[have love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal from heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rejection]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[why isnt he calling]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[withdrawing man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=160</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m going to tackle &#8220;Rejection&#8221; here.
So many of us have stayed a long time in a relationship where we&#8217;ve been rowing the boat, carrying the water, doing EVERYTHING imaginable to keep the boat AFLOAT and it&#8217;s just falling apart.  He&#8217;s just so careless about us we don&#8217;t know what to do next. (Yes, I know, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When Your Boyfriend Wants Space - Focus on YOU</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 18:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[long-term relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[space in relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=151</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is from Maria&#8217;s comment:
&#8220;My boyfriend and I for almost 2 years now are often more off than on. (On and Off) Of course I’ve done all the things should not do. However he told me he needed some space away from me. Has stopped calling me. I know we love each other, but how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Manage The Men Who Show Up</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-manage-the-men-who-show-up/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-manage-the-men-who-show-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad date]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[low quality men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mr right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=158</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
There were so many brilliant comments and questions to my post on what to do if you&#8217;re Attracting Low Quality Men&#8230;so check out the comments, and I&#8217;ll answer them here&#8230;
First - Daria...about going to see this man.  A platonic male friend is one thing (When I&#8217;ve had those in my life - it was clear [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If You&#8217;re Attracting Low-Quality Men - Try This</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/if-youre-attracting-low-quality-men-try-this/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/if-youre-attracting-low-quality-men-try-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 17:18:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[find man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[good men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mr right]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mr. wrong]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[right man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=147</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is fantastic! I&#8217;m truly starting to get a fuller idea of who you are and what your situation is - and yet I&#8217;m going to answer just off of each comment, as if I don&#8217;t know you, to give a better answer&#8230;
FIRST - it&#8217;s important that you know we are all DIFFERENT. Our personalities [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Deal With A Depressed Man</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-deal-with-a-depressed-man/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/how-to-deal-with-a-depressed-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 12:46:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract depressed man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bottled feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depressed man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depressed men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[my man is depressed]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=149</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re talking about attracting and then rejecting &#8220;low-quality&#8221; men - or just men YOU don&#8217;t feel are good quality. And we&#8217;re talking about what to do with those men for PRACTICE (and perhaps even TRANSFORMING them) instead of passing on them and shutting them out the moment their bad qualities show up.
This answer is for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ask Your Questions Here - And I&#8217;ll Answer In New Posts</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/ask-your-questions-here-and-ill-answer-in-new-posts/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/ask-your-questions-here-and-ill-answer-in-new-posts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 00:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[YOUR Story &amp; Questions For Rori]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[rori raye]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=145</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I so want to answer every single question I get from you, so want to hear every single step you take and every story you so graciously write me about -
I thought it might make it easier and faster for me to give you the most help I can by simply working my answers to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He&#8217;ll Feel Safe To Open Up With You When YOU Feel Safe With You</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/hell-feel-safe-to-open-up-with-you-when-you-feel-safe-with-you/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/hell-feel-safe-to-open-up-with-you-when-you-feel-safe-with-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract a man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attract men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional safety]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep your man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=144</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A man CANNOT feel SAFE with us until we feel SAFE with OURSELVES.
In order for him to entrust you with his full self (and almost all men think they&#8217;re horrible somewhere deep inside, with horrible impulses and terrible guilt, and all the same bad training we women have endured our whole lives) - he has [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If He&#8217;s Keeping You Off Balance, Do This</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-hes-keeping-you-off-balance-do-this/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/if-hes-keeping-you-off-balance-do-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[afraid of commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment-phobe]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[man who's a player]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[men's fear of commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esttem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-punishment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[toxic relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=142</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;ve been putting up with confusing behavior from a man, and it doesn&#8217;t feel good, I know how you feel.
You know many of my most embarrassing, humiliating stories, and how I stopped allowing that kind of &#8220;man who feels good but makes me feel bad&#8221; into my life - and I want to help [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love The Sensations In Your Body</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/love-the-sensations-in-your-body/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/love-the-sensations-in-your-body/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 21:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[body image]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feel good]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[healing emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lvoe your body]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pleasure]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[power in relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-talk]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sensation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[woman's body]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[woman's issues]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women's issues]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=131</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a Tweak for the last step we did in this series, about going into the SENSATIONS in your body that come up as you&#8217;re RIFFING through these Tools.
In step one, you listed your &#8220;problems.&#8221; then we Flipped them into WANTS, then we went into how wanting something feels, then to how HAVING what you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is Fear About The Economy Affecting Your Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/is-fear-about-the-economy-affecting-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/in-the-newscelebrities/is-fear-about-the-economy-affecting-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 17:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[In The News/Celebrities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breadwinner]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[economic depression]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[economic recession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[economy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[financial security]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[masculine man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[recession]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women making money]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=126</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Fear is the enemy of love. No doubt about it.
Our fear of losing ourselves, and his fear of losing himself. Our fear of being hurt, and his fear of being hurt. Our fear of being disrespected, his fear of being disrespected. Our fear of being alone, his fear of being committed forever and trapped.
And money [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Imagine HAVING What You Want</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/imagine-having-what-you-want/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/imagine-having-what-you-want/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 21:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get his love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get more love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep him]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[keep man]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[positive thinking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[want love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[wanting love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=123</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay - I want a NEW list, now - (This is getting more and more fun&#8230;)
Now that you have your list of &#8220;problems&#8221; and you&#8217;ve Flipped them to WANTS, and you&#8217;ve loved and adored and accepted those wants and worries and fears - I want you to -
Imagine what it would FEEL like to HAVE [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting More Love By Giving Up Control - Session 1</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/getting-more-love-by-giving-up-control-session-1/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/bethanys-story/getting-more-love-by-giving-up-control-session-1/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 18:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Bethany's Story]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[control in relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=122</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt like you were stuck in a hole with your relationship, and that everything you do, say and think is digging you in deeper and making you feel more scared, upset, angry and miserable?
Not only have I felt like that, so many of my clients start out like that. In my newsletters, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>He&#8217;s Staying Over At His Ex-Girlfriend&#8217;s House - What To Do&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/other-women-in-his-life/hes-staying-over-at-his-ex-girlfriends-house-what-to-do/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/other-women-in-his-life/hes-staying-over-at-his-ex-girlfriends-house-what-to-do/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 20:32:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Other Women In His Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[commitment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex-girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[ex-wife]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[exclusive relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[live-in boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship communication]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=121</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a piece of a comment from Roxanne  (you can read her whole comment here: )
&#8220;Rori, I have been in a relationship for over 2 yrs now. He loves me, treats me like a queen. Made commitments to me but continues to sleep over at his x girlfriends saying she is just a x and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Coaching Yourself To Power And Self-Esteem</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/coaching-yourself-to-power-and-self-esteem/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/coaching-yourself-to-power-and-self-esteem/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2008 00:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communicate with men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pwer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[realtionship communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-growth]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-talk]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=120</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is blowing me away. What you&#8217;re doing here is taking the Tools in this blog, and then Coaching YOURSELF! And then, by sharing everything you feel and everything that&#8217;s happening, so many of us can learn so much.
And then I reply and Tweak - and you can see, just by looking at the dialogues [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Manifesting Your Desires Without Trying</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/manifesting-your-desires-without-trying/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/manifesting-your-desires-without-trying/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:14:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get romance]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[law of attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[manifesting desires]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[manifesting success]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=119</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This is some gorgeous stuff here - following your feelings and your thoughts around your body - and loving and accepting every single one of them&#8230;
Stacy made another wonderful comment, and I&#8217;d like to jump off from it:
I&#8217;m going to &#8220;Tweak&#8221; this - so I&#8217;ll let you know what I mean by &#8220;Tweak.&#8221; The way [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Solving Problems - Love Your Fear, Rage, And Desire</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-love-your-fear-rage-and-desire/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-love-your-fear-rage-and-desire/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:31:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotinal healing]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotions]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[enlightenment]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fear]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[health]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[selfesteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=118</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I was going to move on after the Themes and the Problem Lists and the Flip - but I wanted to go deeper into Themes - and wanted to jump off of a comment from Stacy - where she wrote out these &#8220;Themes&#8221;:
&#8220;i feel selfish for wanting to be happy.
i feel undeserving and selfish to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Away From Spousal Abuse</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/emotional-and-physical-abuse/getting-away-from-spousal-abuse/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/emotional-and-physical-abuse/getting-away-from-spousal-abuse/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:35:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional &amp; Physical Abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emotional neglect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[husband abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage neglect]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship help]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[spousal abuse]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[verbal abuse]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=117</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever let your self-esteem get so low that you tolerate bad treatment from a man?
For me - it was words.  It was clever jabs, humorous remarks - all funny (other people laughed, so I did, too) words.  But those words were about my weight, my double chin, my this, my that - they [...]]]></description>
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		<title>From Problem Solving To More Love - Step 3</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/from-problem-solving-to-more-love-step-3/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/from-problem-solving-to-more-love-step-3/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 21:34:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fix relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heal heartache]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve relationship problems]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=116</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If problem-solving is stressing you out - if it&#8217;s making you feel angry and triggering your need to control everything (we all have this going on&#8230;) then here&#8217;s the next step to helping yourself. 
You&#8217;re going to KEEP A LOG.
Often, in the flurry of the energy we spend trying to solve a problem so it&#8217;ll turn [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You In An Imaginary Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-in-an-imaginary-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/love-life/are-you-in-an-imaginary-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 06:27:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Love Life]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirt]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[imaginary relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lonely]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=109</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever focused all your attention on one man, and still felt completely unsure about where things stand?
Even after a year or two?
Where you just don&#8217;t feel like he&#8217;s committed to you, or that you have a future together, but you talk yourself OUT of that feeling and just keep going on hope?
I used [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get The Love You Want Instead Of Solving Problems - The FLIP</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/get-what-you-want-instead-of-solving-problems-the-flip/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/get-what-you-want-instead-of-solving-problems-the-flip/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:41:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[lose weight]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[marriage problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[prayer]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[problem solving]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[serenity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solving problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[worries]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=100</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If your mind, your heart, and your energy are filled to the brim with &#8220;problems&#8221; to solve, you are so not alone&#8230;
&#8230;not only am I working with my own instincts around problem-solving, I&#8217;ve received beautiful lists of &#8220;problems from lovely women like you (please send more - this is not only incredibly helpful for us [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Stop Solving Problems And Get More Love</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-and-get-love-instead/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/power-self-esteem/stop-solving-problems-and-get-love-instead/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 20:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Power &amp; Self-Esteem]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[more love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[solve problems]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=96</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[
It&#8217;s so easy to feel angry and push a man away.
Whenever my husband forgets to do something, or isn&#8217;t there when I need him or just WANT him, or one of us gets sick and so we go too long without sex, it&#8217;s so easy for me to go through my old patterns of feelings [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Use Dating To Find Out Who He Is And What He&#8217;s Really Made Of&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-use-dating-to-find-out-who-he-is-and-what-hes-really-made-of/</link>
		<comments>http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/attraction/how-to-use-dating-to-find-out-who-he-is-and-what-hes-really-made-of/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rori Raye</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Attraction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[authentic communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[love advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[where to go on a date]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=95</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Dating is your ultimate opportunity to learn how to be soft, open, warm and truthful on the outside, and strong, fully Boundaried and secure on the inside.
Here&#8217;s a great question from &#8220;J&#8221; about how to do this - I love this question because If we can tweak the way J is going about talking to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What To Do If He&#8217;s Stationed Overseas in the Armed Forces - And He Isn&#8217;t Interested In Your Life At Home&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://blog.havetherelationshipy