Comments on: He’s Just Not That Into You – The Drew Barrymore Character

By: Simonn

Simonn — Sun, 22 Mar 2009 01:35:27 +0000

Thanks for posting these useful information. Keep them coming

By: Linmayu

Linmayu — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 04:32:32 +0000

It’s funny, I didn’t even think about the fact that Drew dated someone who seriously dated and slept with her friend. It felt like a perfect pairing to me–and yes, I feel that way because at no point did Scarlett actually show *feelings* for that man. To me it seemed like she had him because she could, and it was easy for her to wrap him around her finger, but she didn’t really feel passionate about him. That’s the kind of guy I’d happily pass along to a friend…

By: ann

ann — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:30:38 +0000

cookie the answer is the same as for men. focus on you first what makes you happy.

By: Daria

Daria — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 05:03:19 +0000

BTW I am surprised that no one thought that Drew Barrymore was WRONG for dating a man that used to seriously date and slept with her friend???

I felt triggered by that, but brushed it off as “I guess it’s ok since Scarlett didn’t like him anyways?”

I would not necessarily feel it is so ok in my life.

By: Daria

Daria — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 05:01:11 +0000

I feel annoyed about it and I feel like I’d probably be expected to “kick her ass” if it turns out to be true, although right now I don’t feel that much rage. In fact I feel glad that if she was messing around with him she stopped being my friend, although I feel sad losing her as a friend.

I feel ashamed saying that I’d be expected to kick her ass. I feel afraid of Rori and other Goddesses I consider softer.

By: Daria

Daria — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 04:54:40 +0000

Btw we still have not spoken and it’s been 2 years.

By: Daria

Daria — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 04:54:09 +0000

Hi Cookie… I don’t have any advice except to say that yes, I have been through something like this. A friend I considered close did this to me (not wanting to be my friend anymore). She told me it was because she doesn’t respect me any more because I am not taking my life in a positive direction.

I think it’s because of a man I used to date pursuing her and perhaps she wanted to get more involved with him than she felt comfortable with being my friend. not sure about that but that is my pretty educated guess.

By: cookie

cookie — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 22:26:10 +0000

Sorry I meant to write she stopped speaking to another friend of ours, not you.

By: cookie

cookie — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 22:08:51 +0000

hello ladies, I’m wondering how do we deal with relationships with females. I believe a friend of mine, or at least i thought we were friends, for the past 12 plus years, just decluttered me. She stopped speaking to me and attributes her distance to her reevaluating who her genuine friends were and weren’t. She blames me for some comments I’ve made when we were teenagers in college and has been holding them against me unknowingly to me. Despite the fact that she hasn’t responded to me or spoken to me in months, I emailed her a couple of weeks ago to congratulate her on her relationship that I noticed on facebook. She has always had issues with commitment so I thought it was great to see her happy to be in a relationship that she was proudly claiming. She responded the other day in a way that really offended me. I know that I was young and didn’t always make the best choices but I have always acted with love in my heart for my friends. I don’t want a friend that judges my life’s journey but I can’t help but feel hurt with how easily it was for her to just drop me like I was trash and reduce our whole relationship to a few moments that happened a long time ago. What does this say about me and the types of people I choose? How do I respond? I feel inclined to say something back, but what would it matter. I’m really tired of people walking away from me. You stopped speaking to another friend of ours and she seems really unaffected. Why does it bother me so? Why do I get so deep into relationships with people that don’t feel mutual? Have any of you ladies been through this?

By: Daria

Daria — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 21:33:20 +0000

I can totally feel lonely around other people, for example around my parents or people I don’t know that well.

Mostly only around people from a particular group of friends do I feel connected and it feels so good…

I want that Feeling all the time!!!