I was going through some old papers I’d saved with notes, and found these two lovely pieces..
This one’s a quote from Sandra Beswick, who you may know as one of the great figure skating choreographers, talking about “going for the gold” at major competitions like National, World and Olympic figure skating championships:
“At this point it has nothing to do with technique. It has everything to do with harnessing desire.” …Sandra Beswick
**I don’t know who wrote this next piece, so I can’t even credit it…but I thought it was VERY helpful. (I edited it a bit so it was clearer and step-by-step, but otherwise I consider it a “guest post”):
Beckoning Your Perfect Mate
In order to attract your life partner, you must hold a firm conviction that he exists. As easy as it sounds, most people are not completely convincedthere’s a perfect mate for them.
The mass consciousness covertly feeds this lack of optimism by convincing single women over 40 they are statistically more likely to be struck by lightening or mugged then received a marriage proposal.
Personally we may feel we need to be “perfect” to attract someone.
The thing is: In order to attract your life partner, you must wholeheartedly believe it IS possible!
No matter what you say, all what you think you think, your subconscious can be completely working against you.
You may strongly desire a man (in studies using the art and science of kinesiology, where they do “muscle testing” to find out what’s really going on under our consciousness, results showed less than 60% are sure their mate even exists, and many are only about 25% sure) – and yet, your subconscious may be rejecting the whole idea.
How can you beckon your partner if you only partially believe in him?
It’s important to resonate 100% with the belief your man exists.
To shift your subconscious belief system to complete alignment with your desires and wishes tried these:
(From Rori – I couldn’t find an exact definition of “vital force” – so make it up any way you like!):
1. Get the attention of your subconscious by interfering with one of the automatic body functions it manages — your breath.
2. Slow your breathing by taking 60 inhales and exhales.
2. Hold your hands in front of you, palms facing.
3. Instruct your subconscious to collect and retain vital force between your palms.
4. Create vital force by taking six breaths, inhaling to the count of 10, holding for the count of 10, and reading out to the count of 10.
5. Feel the vital force build between your palms.
6. Instruct your subconscious to release a charge of vital force to your superconscious…
***(From Rori: here’s the wikipedia definition of superconscious:
Higher consciousness, also called Super consciousness (Yoga), objective consciousness (Gurdjieff), Buddhic consciousness (Theosophy), Cosmic consciousness, God-consciousness (Sufism and Hinduism),Christ consciousness (New Thought) and are expressions used in various spiritual traditions to denote the consciousness of a human being who has reached a higher level of evolutionary development and who has come to know reality as it is (Sanskrit: Yatha bhuta).
Here’s the link:
…6. Instruct your subconscious to release a charge of vital force to your superconscious… telling your superconscious to use the energy to complete the following request:
>> Say 10 times with conviction: “I align 100% with the idea that my perfect man, my perfect life mate exists.”
7. After you have stated this 10 times, close your eyes and envision the outline of an indistinguishable male figure surrounded in green light.
>>Imagine he’s coming toward you.
>>As he approaches, extend your hand and visualize the hand of your mate extend to you as well.
>>Place your other hand on your heart.
>>Touch fingers as you connect energetically.
>> Imagine the coursing of energy through your hands and into your heart.
>>Maintain energetic contact for at least one minute.
>> Release contact with your mate.
8. Say: “Although I am releasing your hand in my visualization, I maintain blended with you energetically. I hold that connection in my heart until we physically meet.”
Your energy field now resonates with 100% conviction that there is a perfectly for you support your new vibration and unfettered desire to find your mate.
Let me know if this helps get your whole self on board for love…