I’ve played second-fiddle to a man’s “ex” and I’ve been the “ex” that a man never gave another thought to, and I’ve been the woman who erased all thoughts of an ex from a man’s mind and heart.
There’s always an ex of some kind. It’s when there’s still an emotional “pull” there for a man that we have to pay attention and take good care of ourselves.
Here’s a letter from Karol, who’s in the middle of the dreaded “ex” situation. If what Karol’s going through sounds familiar to you, try these Tools:
What do I do if my current boyfriend of 10 months says he loves me and is happy with me, but broke up with me Friday because he still has feelings for his ex (on-again-off-again), and needs to get closure or figure it out? They haven’t been together for 3 years, she keeps calling him and they dated on and off for 7 years prior. Help! Karol”
Karol’s awful situation is what my Commitment Blueprint program is all about, and my new Modern Siren program, too.
To start – Karol – you must DATE other men. NOW, instantly. You must get out there and take care of yourself. I call this Tool Circular Dating – and it works.
At the same time, when he calls (and he will) you must be open, warm, sweet, authentic and magnetic so he’ll feel safe to come to you. Use all my Tools to keep from being defensive and angry – and to express your anger and disappointment when you do feel it in a way he can hear, instead of attacking him or trying to make him behave differently.
Use all your dates with other men to build your self-esteem and practice my Tools – especially Feeling Messages. Just keeping Leaning Back. Actually moving away from him. That means pretty much forgetting about him when he isn’t right in front of you.
Here’s the link to my catalog page – Click Here and try out Commitment Blueprint or The Modern Siren, see how these Tools help, and let me know. Love, Rori