Comments on: Relationship Stress Hurts More Than Your Heart

By: Rori Raye

Rori Raye — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:32:48 +0000

AT, Welcome, and I am so sorry you are feeling so low.

I know you can help yourself. Being aware of what’s going on is the first step – and you’re dong this. Not beating yourself up is the next step, and then building your self-esteem through Circular Dating and learning to fall into your feelings and then express them.

This will build a sense of fearlessness in you – you’ll just automatically start feeling better. I look forrward to helping you here…Love, Rori

By: AT

AT — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 02:20:51 +0000

Thank you Rori. I did get out recently from a one year relationship to where there were so many red flags that I had ignored them and tolerated them to where I had not in the past. The result, I believed every word that he said even that he was sorry. I accepted more from this man that no even my exhusband would have done to me. I dealt with verbal abuse from him to where it belittled me but that he would say that I would never leave him and vise versa and we were made for each other. He decided to apply for a transfer and where did that leave me….right here and the day he left he cut the communication and 6 weeks later he still plays with my mind from a distance even though he has moved in with another female (immediately) stating that there is nothing going on (….how typical) and that my thoughts are pathetic and that is why we are where we are today with no relationship.

Thank you for the blog Rori….I mean that from my heart for so many reason.

Ana

By: alias girl

alias girl — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 21:31:59 +0000

guess who’s Targeting Mr. Right arrived today?

ARGH.

i feel triggered. hehe. but i am committed to doing this even though i feel Resistance.

I will DO This. I WILL COMMIT to doing this. I am committed.

And guess what, things will change and i will get what i want.

baby-step by baby-step.

ARGH!

By: Daria

Daria — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 10:07:10 +0000

I am feeling very upset that I incurred bank fees that are going to eat my earnings for these two weeks. I keep wanting to beat myself about it and my body tenses up differnt places, right shoulder, left buttcheek lol… I love my tension… I am afraid to tell my parents although it seems I need to borrow money. I wanted to start paying my onw bills again this month and instead I have to ask for more… I feel weird and liften out my body… I love this feeling and that feels like still being somewhere kinda hovering halff off the chair… I feel weird and that feels like tingles traveling down my bakc and I love my tingles and that feels like tightening in my sinuses, in my tummy, and I love the tightening in my sinuses and tummy and that feels like shoulder tightness and I love my right shoulder tightness and that feels like left shoulder tightness and I love my left shoulder tightness and that feels like yawning and I love my yawn and that feels like left shoulder tightening and I love my left shoulder tightening and that feels like itchiness on my nose and I love the itchiness on my nose and that feels like pressure in my chest and above my hips and I love my chest and top of hips…

Feel sleepy now… sleeping would feel good… especially with not brushing my teeth… for some reason… because it feels cold to brush my teeth… I feel weird… I love myself… I love myself… I want to be able to not brush my teeth and I want my cookies if they’re still around right now…

By: Tracy

Tracy — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 08:44:58 +0000

i totaly agree with this post….
i havent forgiven myself for so many things i’ve done…it feels cormfortable to just lay back and say its okay…everything is going to be okay….i forgive me…
it feels relieving…
I feel i should plunge back to circular dating…listening at level 2…i have been back tracking on that lately…being a goddess and receiving all the love from the universe…feels refreshing just imagining that…

Hugs,

Triza

By: Linmayu

Linmayu — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 06:24:57 +0000

Oh, yay Jat and yay Daria! And Searchingwithin, thank you for your comment. It got me thinking about forgiving MYSELF for all the bad I’ve been through in life. Forgiving others is pretty much second nature to me; I’ve never really had any choice but to do so for most of my life. But forgiving myself…that’s something I’ve never really bothered to do, nor thought that I even could, or should, or was worthy or whatever.

Come to think of it, I haven’t so much been *forgiving* others, as believing that I had to condone, allow and absolve anything and everything that anyone decided to do to me–and beat myself up forever for anything I ever did that hurt anyone else, even if I didn’t mean to. Forgiving feels much better. It feels like having strong, clear boundaries.

By: alias girl

alias girl — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 04:13:12 +0000

oohhoooohhhhooooohhh flowers!!!! yae daria! i love.

By: jat

jat — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 04:02:59 +0000

oooo flowers, I bet they smell wonderful!

By: Daria

Daria — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:33:14 +0000

Yay JAt!! Awesome… that’s what usually happens to me too when I can be honest… the guy totally understands…
yay

I got flowers on a first date today!!! yipeee!!!!

By: jat

jat — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:25:06 +0000

… and thanks to you too alias girl!