Comments on: After 17 Years – He’s Left, He’s Fooling Around, and He’s Put YOU on Trial

By: Bliss

Bliss — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 05:05:30 +0000

thats ok,
I have no idea what to do ?

By: dorothea

dorothea — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 03:03:22 +0000

thanks for updating us bliss. i feel unsure what to say…

By: Bliss

Bliss — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 02:18:30 +0000

D day ( decision day has come and gone)

I feel the ball is in my court now

make it or break it.

he won’t decide anything, he doesn’t care what happens, together or not. shame crap just another day.

so if i want to change it all i have to make all the decisions.

life is full of too many challenges for anyone to be happy he says

By: Rori Raye

Rori Raye — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 16:21:20 +0000

Terri – BRAVA!!! You finally discovered that you’re a fabulous woman who doesn’t need to ‘struggle” against something like this…you have the power to walk away, and so now you have the power to work through your own triggering and discover what you really want and if he can give it to you without your begging – or having to do ANYTHING. You don’t have to “make do” with ANYTHING…Love, Rori

By: Terri

Terri — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 14:59:42 +0000

I can totally see where Bliss is coming from. I have been married for 28 years and my husband started seeing another younger woman. Same thing, if I complained, I was the bad guy, pushing him away. I put up with this for 15 months. Begging, pleading, negotiating, all of it. Yesterday, I told him I was leaving him. Suddenly he has decided he loves me and doesn’t want this other woman. Unfortunately, the pain and anguish has been so total and for so long I am not sure I want him anymore. He feels that because my vibe has definitely changed. We will see. I want counseling, I deserve better and I told him that.

By: sia

sia — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 12:39:26 +0000

hi ingrid,

i did not notice it before in your posts, you wrote about the word bitch in pink chalk.. Wow so extreme! I really don’t know what to say. I have not been married.. That lands the same with me as a slap in the face. Did your counsellor address this?????

There are many women who stay in physically abusive relationships long time..Was there any other emotional abuse?

I know of a person who had personality change due to illness. Is your husband healthy?

I hope you can find some work which would make you happy, i wish it so much for you…

By: Bliss

Bliss — Sat, 10 Apr 2010 12:01:34 +0000

Hi Ingrid,

Wow, you found my old post.. I changed my name to Bliss, everyone thoguht it was a better name.

I am doing better, things are still everywhere,
but i am feeling more, and venting and letting happening.

thank you for your kind words., it is very hard to go thru what we have or are going thru, and its so nice to have people understand. i found this site was my saviour, and beautiful ladies like you.

How are you doing….

By: Ingrid

Ingrid — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 15:27:27 +0000

Hello “No Bliss”:

I just was browsing on the marriage place and found your thread.

I was wondering how you are doing today if you’re still here? Are you???? I’d love to hear from you if you are……..

At the time you posted I was separated from my hubby of 20 years ((again)) 4th time in 2 years. So often now I cannot even remember the months we were together and the months we were separated, but I remember last summer, we were separated for 6 or 7 months, (of hell). I wish I was here for you then, as I was going through the same as you then.

I also have been married for over 20 years and have teenaged kids. I feel there is much more to consider here than maybe some single gals, as we have kids and a family that we’ve made a life with, and established a “family unit” with. Our scenarios may be somewhat different, but then the same as what we, women, face.

God Bless U

By: Sylver

Sylver — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 01:38:44 +0000

Thank you.

By: Rori Raye

Rori Raye — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 08:05:58 +0000

Sylver – Welcome, and Thank you for your story – we’ll help you with Circular Dating, and I look forward to hearing more from you. Love, Rori