Comments on: Is DeAnna Too Masculine On The Bachelorette? http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/masculine-energy/deanna-bachelorette/ Marriage & Relationship Advice From Rori Raye Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:25:06 +0000 hourly 1 By: Trisha http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/masculine-energy/deanna-bachelorette/comment-page-1/#comment-20169 Trisha Sun, 08 Nov 2009 04:23:00 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=5#comment-20169 Dear Rori, i've been using your tools for almost 2 years. What do you do when you start use your feeling messages, soften up and then he uses it all, in a sense, "against" you? What i mean is...he now knows how you "feel" because you've opened up and told him, for example, how you've been feeling jealous, or scared or unhappy and how it makes you feel uncomfortable and feel insecure and angry ( this is why you were closing up and going into "masculine" energy in the first place) You say it calmly without attack or drama just like you suggest. Then...he USES this information to then manipulate the relationship so he can be the one in control!! Which causes you more reasons to want to hold back and cover up what you're really feeling! ~thanks ~ Dear Rori,

i’ve been using your tools for almost 2 years.

What do you do when you start use your feeling messages, soften up and then he uses it all, in a sense, “against” you?

What i mean is…he now knows how you “feel” because you’ve opened up and told him, for example, how you’ve been feeling jealous, or scared or unhappy and how it makes you feel uncomfortable and feel insecure and angry ( this is why you were closing up and going into “masculine” energy in the first place)

You say it calmly without attack or drama just like you suggest.

Then…he USES this information to then manipulate the relationship so he can be the one in control!! Which causes you more reasons to want to hold back and cover up what you’re really feeling! ~thanks ~

]]> By: Rori Raye http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/masculine-energy/deanna-bachelorette/comment-page-1/#comment-14268 Rori Raye Thu, 13 Aug 2009 17:37:30 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=5#comment-14268 Thank you Heidi - Happy Massage! Love, Rori Thank you Heidi – Happy Massage! Love, Rori

]]> By: Heidi - Kirsten Beach http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/masculine-energy/deanna-bachelorette/comment-page-1/#comment-14232 Heidi - Kirsten Beach Wed, 12 Aug 2009 14:00:10 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=5#comment-14232 Hello Rory, I sometimes recognise myself as DeAnna...somehow I am attracted to men who need me, but its time to stop some of that. On Saturday I am ordering a massage from a male masseur, then I DO NOT have to be De Anna, or talk or do anything just receive and FEEL good. Thank you for a great site and heartwarming newsletters. Much love Heidi, Norway Hello Rory, I sometimes recognise myself as DeAnna…somehow I am attracted to men who need me, but its time to stop some of that. On Saturday I am ordering a massage from a male masseur, then I DO NOT have to be De Anna, or talk or do anything just receive and FEEL good. Thank you for a great site and heartwarming newsletters. Much love Heidi, Norway

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