So Much Stuff On My Facebook Page

I’m generally not muchfb quote about Facebook (and hardly ever refer anyone there)…

…and, yet, I see that in this new world, getting “FB likes” and “shares” equals “getting heard…”

Messages come from everywhere…

Here are some beautiful photos to go with beautiful and helpful love, self-esteem, peace-inspiring quotes (mine and others)…Hope you like them, feel moved by them, and want to “like” and share them…:

This FB pix/quote from me above is so true – we overfunction, we “try hard,” we “work” at relationships because we’ve been trained, our whole lives, to believe that our “worth” depends upon what we “DO.”

And it’s not true.

We have worth just because we have worth. Because we are….Because we are women…

We are worthy.

We don’t have to push, don’t have to try, don’t have to think five steps ahead of what’s happening right now.

Love, Rori


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What Part Of “Housework” Is “Feminine”?

The Gatekeeper croppedHere’s a great letter from Sara about what constitutes “femininity” – is it in the “eye of the beholder…”?:

The Question:

“Hi Rori and everyone, I would love to hear from you Rori on this, I have got all your programs and think you are great.

I am in a relationship with a man, and have been for 4 years. We moved in 6 months ago. We spent a lot of time getting to know each other before moving in. My intention is not to get married, but to have a long term happy relationship if I can.

I have been previously divorced. My questions is around this:

Both my ex-husband and my current partner say that I don’t have feminine qualities, such as constantly cleaning up, and taking care of the kitchen, etc. I have grown up the exact same way that I am living
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Free Coaching With My New Rori Raye Coach Trainees!

celebrateHere’re the new RRRCT 2014 Coach Trainees – and you can get coached for free by any or all of them!

Check out their websites (all very new…), see who you’d like to try out – and contact them directly.

Some have scheduling software already, some don’t…and they are ALL excellent!

Feel free to try out ALL of them (that’s almost 20 hours of free coaching!) – and yet, my guess is that you’ll quickly get such great help and results from the first few ones you try – you’ll stick with them for very inexpensive coaching packages.

Here they are:


There are six more wonderful coach Trainees whose websites aren’t up yet – I’ll add them to this list as soon as they are!

Note: If you’d like to write me personally with feedback on any of my Trainees – or what you think of their websites as far as they’ve gotten – please email my assistant – and she’ll forward your feedback to me!

AND – Only some of their newsletters are working (sites are under construction) – most “subscriber boxes” are up as “tests” and aren’t really connected yet – so just email them to set up your free session….and if they have their free reports ready, they’ll email them to you!

*Also – I’ll be starting Rori Raye Coach Training for 2015 on January 19th – so if you’d like to talk about becoming a coach, the way these fabulous women have – let me know! The page with info is at:


Love, Rori

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Sexual Meditation Helps Everything

naked-torsoHere is what I see: As long as we are feeling separate from ourselves and others – no amount of talking about “opening up” will help.

We have to do the Tools…

Here’s how to use the Sensual Meditation from the Have The Relationship You Want ebook, NOW, to help everything inside and around you:

Schedule this at least twice a week – an hour with yourself when you’re alone. You’ll be working with yourself in a tender, physical, gentle, sensual and sexual way. Then, if you like, WRITE about your experience in a journal!

When you become comfortable, pliable, sensually open for extended periods of time, noticing what’s going on in your body, head and feelings, “in tune with yourself” – and start to feel more connected to yourself — that’s when it transfers to the outside world and
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An Interview With Rori

modern sirenRori, what is it you do as a relationship coach?

I teach women (and men) — whether they’re in a relationship now or want to be in a relationship — how to transform their love lives practically overnight by learning to communicate in completely new ways.

This is about making changes on our side of the relationship only – this means changing the words we use, our body language, the choices we make, how we use and express our feelings, our energies –
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Love Forever Live Today at 11am PDT!

rori lace1In just a few hours – get your personal questions answered by me, live, in the newest Love Forever teleseminar!

***If you have a personal relationship question or situation you’d like me to address, just sign up for “Love Forever” anytime before the class TODAY, Wednesday, August 20th, 11am PDT/2pm EST/7pm Europe - and you’ll get instant access to the Love Forever program (over 25 hours of recorded classes), and you can write to me today during the class from the Love Forever Teleclass webpage. I’ll answer you right then and there!

(Love Forever is an advanced program, where I work with you on deeper levels of using the Tools you may already have from my programs, and give you completely NEW ones.)

In addition to answering your personal questions, I’ll be talking about how to TALK to a man, and how to UNWIND any patterns that have developed between you and a man you’re with (or seem to always come up with men you date) – so the class is called: “Get Unwound!”

Love, Rori

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Circular Dating When Your Man’s Got Job Problems

targetingThe Question:

Have dated Brian for 14 months. He lost his job due to a take over (not his fault all upper management lost their jobs) and was unemployed for 5 months which caused havoc with his finances as he pays hefty child support. We survived this period and I did not lend him money, but helped him extensively (probably too much) to get another high paying job.

Unfortunately due to his type of position and high income needed the best job is in another state. We have continued long distance, speak several times a day and he either flies me to him or comes here
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Why Circular Dating Is Not A Risk

locketOkay – I’ve heard this SO many times: He does “all that” – the integrating of his life with yours, calling you his girlfriend, giving you a good amount of time and energy, the calling…and then at 8 to 10 months – or a year and 1/2 – he fades.

You discover he’s discovered he’s now not sure, his job has changed (or he’s lost it) – he wants to travel, the ex girlfriend or ex wife has re-contacted him.

This seems to be a pattern with some of us women – we miss the red flags.

We peg this as “our” insecurity. We feel like “we’re the problem.

The last thing we think is that: “Something’s wrong.”

I’ve heard of men fading out even after a woman’s pregnant or had a baby…
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Gluten,Thyroid And Energy – My Story

tiltheadFor me – after dealing holistically – impressively and mostly successfully with a painful auto-immune disease called Interstitial Cystitis and then GERD – I simply could not overcome my energy drain.

I’d considered it my “normal” for so many years, blamed Hashimotos and Adrenal Exhaustion, my age…and then, finally, took the Cyrex Array 4 – Gluten cross-reaction test.

There, I discovered my sensitivities to potato and corn. I had been eating potato instead of grains – so, I stopped potato – and felt only mildly better.

I eat NO corn, so couldn’t figure out why it was so high on the test results.

Then I realized – the Chinese herbals I’d been taking for years in my IC treatment with a Chinese
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Does Plenty Of Fish Work For Anyone? Or Is It All “Booty Calls”?

carvingHere’s a letter about – a dating site (free – and known often as POF) that some women I’ve spoken with have great personal stories around, and others see this way:

“Dear Rori,

I feel that I so so need to correct you on this Plenty Of Fish website, You are very seriously jeopardizing your Reputation on referring this website!!!!!

I have been on this website 2 separate times, I gave it enough time to literally hang itself….

I shall explain it to you briefly. I am a good and true Christian LADY, even with what my profile says, I still got men that only wanted a booty call.

Everyone knows this except for you.

I Love your emails you send me, and they are right on when it comes to meeting a GOOD and true
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