New Years 2014 – Love Is All There Is

rori with seals nycThis is my traditional New Year’s post – and I’d love to create something new with your help….Do you have any traditions for the New Year that feel great for you?

I’d LOVE to put together a post, or a report that has New Years rituals and traditions – goddess ones, shaman ones – things that YOU do that make you feel good! You can put them as comments here, and I’ll copy them off and put them together into a piece! I’ll use the names you use here if that’s okay….

I have a New Year’s Resolution for us all this year – and that resolution is: NO MORE NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS!

It just feels all wrong to me.

A “Resolution” seems like something I’d write down for myself to do – or TELL myself to do – that I just DON’T WANT to do.

Like never eating chocolate. Or walking a certain distance or exercising a certain way every day.

The moment my brain hears that “have to” attached to the “resolution” I can FEEL it grating in my mind.
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Maintaining Relationships With Two Men And Keeping Them Secret From Each Other: Is It Even Possible?

navigating loveThough Irina has asked me to “not judge her” – why would any of us judge something we all feel sometimes?

We all find ourselves caught between “wants.”

Caught between what’s “right” (or what we think is right…) and what we desire.

Caught between what people tell us we should want, and what we feel, deep inside ourselves, compelled to want.

Caught between what we think we want – and what we really want – and often unable to tell the difference, because these different wants all come from inside US!

What Irina is talking about here is a fantasy dream situation a great many of us have: A loyal, wonderful, loving man steady by our side – AND a wild, sexy, heart-quivering man for the romantic stuff.

Who doesn’t want that?

(Yeah – we want that all in one man – and yet, is that possible?)

The Question:

“Dear Rori,

I’ve been reading your advice, and have already got 2 of your e-books that has helped me a lot! Thank you very much for these fantastic insights into such a complex field which is the realm of love relationships!

I am writing you because I need some feedback about a (sort of) love story that has gone wrong all of a sudden and I feel the loss and would like to do something to rescue it.

The whole situation is:
– I have a stable relationship for 10 years that makes me very happy, however in the begin of the year I met
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For Your Holiday Season 2014

treeheartHere’s my favorite Holiday post….and happy everything to you…

Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Winter Solstice, many more traditions both religious and secular – all together, all at once the mere thought of it fills me with feelings of dread.

Is it because I remember that winter in New York and how depressed that year was? Is it because there’s so much family at the holidays – and I feel not only obligated and exhausted, but adolescent again around so much of my history?

My family history is wonderful. I’m one of the very lucky ones. A not so dysfunctional home – perhaps not passion, but at least humor, affection and lots of support and attention for my brother and me.

Perhaps it just feels as if all the pain of the world comes into relief around the ever present pictures of joy at this time of year. I know it’s not about me at all.

It’s not personal. Do we all just notice, suddenly, all at the same time, that we’re all in this together? We go to church, go to synagogue, light candles, wrap
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Be A Rori Raye Coach – Free Teleclasses Monday, December 15th

rori glastonbury torAsk Me How RRRCT Can Help You Be A Professional, Successful Rori Raye Trained Relationship Coach…

If you’re considering enrolling in RRRCT – the Fundamentals for 2015, learning how to help women in their love lives exactly the way I do and get personally mentored by me as a professional coach – you likely have lots of questions about how it works.

And not just how RRRCT works – but how it will work for YOU!

And so I’ll do a Q & A teleclass on Monday, December 15th, TWICE! – at 11am and 5:30 PST – to answer your questions -

1. To listen in by phone or Skype:

Phone Number to Dial: (425) 440-5100
Backup Number: (323) 476-3997
Conf ID: 269386#

You can also try these Local & International Numbers:
http://instantteleseminar.com/local/

2. Or go to this webpage to listen and write questions to me in real time:

http://www.coachrori.com/welcome-to-the-rrrct-free-teleclass/

If you’re not sure if you’re interested in being a professional coach, but would like to learn (or just listen in on) how RRRCT coach training and business mentoring work, I’d be happy to have you on the call.

If you’d like to just read about how RRRCT works, what it (and my teaching and mentoring) will do for you, and learn how you can be a practicing Rori Raye Relationship Coach – go here–>>

http://www.coachrori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/

Love, Rori

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When Are You Actually “Ready” To Meet Mr. Right? Now!

2014-10-15 08.35.16The Question:

“Rori, If a woman doesn’t completely love herself, care for herself, feel happy in herself and secure in herself first, then won’t she keep attracting men who mirror that.

If we do the inner work first, then wouldn’t we attract a more emotionally loving man?

I guess my question is, can I still be doing the inner work and attract the perfect man who loves me, will commit and care for me despite my vulnerability and lack of perfection?

Thanks Rori. I’m a big fan of your work (especially love when you interview people and record their wisdom) and have been studying the tools for some years now.

Love, Taria

My Answer:

Taria – I think your question is awesome and covers SO much!

This is what I see: We are all a work in progress.

It’s not about meeting a man who is “fully finished” when we are “fully finished” – it’s about meeting a “Life
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Free RRRCT Teleclass On December 15th – Be a Rori Raye Trained Coach

tiltheadAsk Me How RRRCT Can Help You Be A Professional, Successful Rori Raye Trained Relationship Coach…

If you’re considering enrolling in RRRCT – the Fundamentals for 2015, learning how to help women in their love lives exactly the way I do and get personally mentored by me as a professional coach – you likely have lots of questions about how it works.

And not just how RRRCT works – but how it will work for YOU!

And so I’ll do a Q & A teleclass on Monday, December 15th, TWICE! – at 11am and 5:30 PST – to answer your questions -

1. To listen in by phone or Skype:

Phone Number to Dial: (425) 440-5100
Backup Number: (323) 476-3997
Conf ID: 269386#

You can also try these Local & International Numbers:
http://instantteleseminar.com/local/

2. Or go to this webpage to listen and write questions to me in real time:

http://www.coachrori.com/welcome-to-the-rrrct-free-teleclass/

If you’re not sure if you’re interested in being a professional coach, but would like to learn (or just listen in on) how RRRCT coach training and business mentoring work, I’d be happy to have you on the call.

If you’d like to just read about how RRRCT works, what it (and my teaching and mentoring) will do for you, and learn how you can be a practicing Rori Raye Relationship Coach – go here–>>

http://www.coachrori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/

Love, Rori

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Luvskool For Newlyweds In Los Angeles With Greta Hassel

greta hasselI love Greta. She’s a brilliant/genius therapist/coach – and together with her new husband, Dennis Cohen, they’re an amazing team. They’ll be doing a workshop in Los Angeles on November 22nd.

I know we’re not much about “Newlywed” here – and just in case you’re in a relationship, in Los Angeles, and want some hands-on help where you don’t have to DO anything! –  Here’s the info:

Luvskool for Newlyweds:  A Day of Play, A Night of Love, A Lifetime of Bliss!

Saturday, November 22, 2014  9:30 am – 10:00 p.m. 

Remember your Honeymoon Glow?

Would you like to maintain, strengthen, or even revitalize it!  YOU CAN, with this fun, experiential
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When Asking Questions Is Actually “Prompting” – And Won’t Go Well With Him….

030-220Some men  (actually, MANY men… often MOST men… and now I’m beginning to believe ALL men…) dread the feeling of “questions” coming at them

It feels like an interview.

Often, like an interrogation.

Often, like an interrogation from their mother.

He says: “I’m off work tomorrow…”

You say: “Oh, are you going bike riding?”

And he freezes. Per usual. No answer. No intake of breath. Just….falling off the earth…
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Be A Rori Raye Relationship Coach – Enrollment Open!

Hi, This is Rori….and you can begin actually coaching clients and building your professional coaching practice – as a Rori Raye Coach-In-Training – starting January 19th, 2015 – just two months away!

Enrollment is now OPEN for RRRCT - Rori Raye Relationship Coach Training – beginning January 19th, 2015 – AND: The earlier you enroll – the more of my personal time you’ll get, and the quicker you can begin working with the materials before class starts!

Starting January 19th, there will be only a small, select group of women studying personally with me in RRRCT – Rori Raye Fundamentals, and getting personally mentored by me to be a successful coach.

If the idea of becoming a professional relationship coach triggers ideas and dreams inside you – let me know! Perhaps RRRCT can create the career change you’ve been imagining about but couldn’t quite put your finger on.

If you’ve been waiting for this opportunity, and would to talk with Melanie, the RRRCT administrator - or me!- write to Melanie@CoachRori.com or just use this form:

* Email
First Name

This way, I can personally know all about your gifts and dreams so I can mentor you quickly and help you hit the ground running as a professional coach.

For more about how Rori Raye Relationship Coach Training (RRRCT) works: logistics, costs and details on how the three “Modules” of the Training will work for YOU, go here:

http://www.coachrori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/

Being a coach is the hottest profession there is right now – and being in RRRCT guarantees you my personal time and attention (live by teleseminar!), plus hours of videos, audios and written RRRCT Manual included – AND you’ll get the Rori Raye brand name totally behind you business-wise.

It’s my job at RRRCT to mentor you to carry on my work – personally helping women all over the world – as I turn my potential future coaching clients over to you so I can focus on RRRCT and writing – and to help you have great fun, fulfillment, and financial security while you’re doing it.

http://www.coachrori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/

Love, Rori

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What Voices Are You Listening To?

zeke1Our brains, our thoughts, our heads – are a constant swirl of voices, of thoughts, of words, of patterns, of old cycles, of buttons being pushed and reacted to – it’s a never-ending cacophony of voices.

The only question is: What voices are you going to listen to? Which voices are you going to entertain? Which voices are you going to feed?

Because it’s never going to stop.

The voices just go and go and come and come – it’s a pattern – like we’re a computer run wild. Running wild through our memories, through all the thoughts we’ve ever had, the experiences we’ve ever had – just like a computer, picking up data and
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