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	<title>Comments on: How To Get a Picture of You &#8211; or Whatever You Like &#8211; on Your Comments</title>
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	<description>Marriage &#38; Relationship Advice From Rori Raye</description>
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		<dc:creator>Whey Protein side Effects</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 08:52:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very  extraordinary site.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very  extraordinary site.<br />
The info here is genuinely valuable.</p>
<p>I will share it with my friends.</p>
<p>Cheers</p>
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		<title>By: forex_strategy</title>
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		<dc:creator>forex_strategy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like this website really much.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like this website really much.</p>
<p>This is really a great website.</p>
<p>This is not like other money directed place, the info here is really useful.</p>
<p>I am definitely bookmarking it as well as sharin it with my friends.</p>
<p> <img src='http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 19:21:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, It will give me something to figure out :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, It will give me something to figure out <img src='http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: DocK</title>
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		<dc:creator>DocK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 15:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi - I think it (picture) doesn&#039;t show up here because our email doesn&#039;t actually show up here either - it&#039;s hidden - Rori sees it but not us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi &#8211; I think it (picture) doesn&#8217;t show up here because our email doesn&#8217;t actually show up here either &#8211; it&#8217;s hidden &#8211; Rori sees it but not us.</p>
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		<title>By: Daria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lol!  Angeline I said almost this exact same thing yesterday!

 “I feel guilty because you seem more into me than I am into you, but I still like hanging around with you.” 

See the end of the last post comments...


remember, men are masculine and we have to take the feminine JOB of focusing on our own feelings, and not the masculine job of being mindful of their feelings...

its almost a respect thing the way i imagine it... that is if im trying to not &quot;hurt&quot; him... im actually not respecting him as a man!  im assumming hes a woman!

so that&#039;s helped me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lol!  Angeline I said almost this exact same thing yesterday!</p>
<p> “I feel guilty because you seem more into me than I am into you, but I still like hanging around with you.” </p>
<p>See the end of the last post comments&#8230;</p>
<p>remember, men are masculine and we have to take the feminine JOB of focusing on our own feelings, and not the masculine job of being mindful of their feelings&#8230;</p>
<p>its almost a respect thing the way i imagine it&#8230; that is if im trying to not &#8220;hurt&#8221; him&#8230; im actually not respecting him as a man!  im assumming hes a woman!</p>
<p>so that&#8217;s helped me</p>
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		<title>By: Daria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Mercedes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Mercedes!</p>
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		<title>By: Mercedes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mercedes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tina:  I&#039;m not sure.  I have a blog and my pic shows up on blogger...but not here.  I didn&#039;t have the gravatar one, so thought that might be what I needed here...don&#039;t know though since it didn&#039;t work.  lol

Not sure about pasting the link...I don&#039;t want to do that because I love my blog and I want that to be what people see when they want to know more about me.  Oh well...maybe Rori can explain more about what we need to do from here.  I thought it would ask which sites we want to link to or something...when that didn&#039;t happen, I thought maybe it links back to my email so it would work with anything I use that email address on...when that didn&#039;t work, I ran out of ideas... :-)

Much Love,
Mercedes</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tina:  I&#8217;m not sure.  I have a blog and my pic shows up on blogger&#8230;but not here.  I didn&#8217;t have the gravatar one, so thought that might be what I needed here&#8230;don&#8217;t know though since it didn&#8217;t work.  lol</p>
<p>Not sure about pasting the link&#8230;I don&#8217;t want to do that because I love my blog and I want that to be what people see when they want to know more about me.  Oh well&#8230;maybe Rori can explain more about what we need to do from here.  I thought it would ask which sites we want to link to or something&#8230;when that didn&#8217;t happen, I thought maybe it links back to my email so it would work with anything I use that email address on&#8230;when that didn&#8217;t work, I ran out of ideas&#8230; <img src='http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Much Love,<br />
Mercedes</p>
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		<title>By: Tina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angeline, my feeling is that it should be effortless to circular date, also my feelings of guilt would show up because I am being &quot;nice&quot; and concerned mostly about his &quot;feelings&quot; when I need to be with mine. The more comfortable I start to feel about circular dating the more effortless it will be, baby steps 

I have so much to learn still, why would I feel guilty? why should I? 

Mercedes, I&#039;ve been messing around with the buttons lol I still cant get it to show up here. Do I need to have a blog? I dont want to blog, I am feeling sure that I didnt need one, I just need it to show up here. I&#039;m wondering if I need to paste in in that box up there ^ website box under my email address on this site?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angeline, my feeling is that it should be effortless to circular date, also my feelings of guilt would show up because I am being &#8220;nice&#8221; and concerned mostly about his &#8220;feelings&#8221; when I need to be with mine. The more comfortable I start to feel about circular dating the more effortless it will be, baby steps </p>
<p>I have so much to learn still, why would I feel guilty? why should I? </p>
<p>Mercedes, I&#8217;ve been messing around with the buttons lol I still cant get it to show up here. Do I need to have a blog? I dont want to blog, I am feeling sure that I didnt need one, I just need it to show up here. I&#8217;m wondering if I need to paste in in that box up there ^ website box under my email address on this site?</p>
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		<title>By: Angeline</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angeline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is this an OK place to put a question?

Arrghhh, Sirens, I feel so weird and *guilty*.  Men seem so lost and lonely to me.  They need us so badly.  I know I&#039;m worthy, and it&#039;s right for me to be searching for the right one, but I can&#039;t help but feel a little bad for them when they show me their hearts and here I am circular dating.

I guess I need to work on a feeling message along the lines of &quot;I feel scared and pressured.  I don&#039;t want things to be too serious too fast.&quot;  But that&#039;s not really honest.  How can I say something like, &quot;I feel guilty because you seem more into me than I am into you, but I still like hanging around with you.&quot; in a nice way?  And I hate lying.  What do you do when a guy is really pressuring you to know where you&#039;re going to be?  Do you say, &#039;I&#039;m going to be on a date with someone else?&#039;  What if he hasn&#039;t brought up exclusivity yet?  I mean, I&#039;d like to wait until the last possible moment to have that talk, and telling him I&#039;m on a date with someone else is probably going to trigger that conversation way too early.

Am I doing this wrong?  Sometimes it&#039;s hard for me to tell if I feel guilty because I&#039;ve done something wrong, or because I&#039;m expanding and I&#039;m not quite comfortable with the new way of being yet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is this an OK place to put a question?</p>
<p>Arrghhh, Sirens, I feel so weird and *guilty*.  Men seem so lost and lonely to me.  They need us so badly.  I know I&#8217;m worthy, and it&#8217;s right for me to be searching for the right one, but I can&#8217;t help but feel a little bad for them when they show me their hearts and here I am circular dating.</p>
<p>I guess I need to work on a feeling message along the lines of &#8220;I feel scared and pressured.  I don&#8217;t want things to be too serious too fast.&#8221;  But that&#8217;s not really honest.  How can I say something like, &#8220;I feel guilty because you seem more into me than I am into you, but I still like hanging around with you.&#8221; in a nice way?  And I hate lying.  What do you do when a guy is really pressuring you to know where you&#8217;re going to be?  Do you say, &#8216;I&#8217;m going to be on a date with someone else?&#8217;  What if he hasn&#8217;t brought up exclusivity yet?  I mean, I&#8217;d like to wait until the last possible moment to have that talk, and telling him I&#8217;m on a date with someone else is probably going to trigger that conversation way too early.</p>
<p>Am I doing this wrong?  Sometimes it&#8217;s hard for me to tell if I feel guilty because I&#8217;ve done something wrong, or because I&#8217;m expanding and I&#8217;m not quite comfortable with the new way of being yet.</p>
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		<title>By: Mercedes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mercedes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with ya Tina...got mine set up but don&#039;t know what to do next...

Much Love,
Mercedes</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with ya Tina&#8230;got mine set up but don&#8217;t know what to do next&#8230;</p>
<p>Much Love,<br />
Mercedes</p>
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