Comments on: Turn What Makes You Cry Into What Makes Him Love You http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/cry-and-make-him-love-you/ Marriage & Relationship Advice From Rori Raye Thu, 11 Mar 2010 07:58:34 +0000 hourly 1 By: Uschi http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/cry-and-make-him-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-15462 Uschi Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:31:22 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=7#comment-15462 Cassandra, I think mine would walk away if I was that emotional but I did see him almost cry once in a movie that had to do with war but he walked away and didn't show his emotions Cassandra,
I think mine would walk away if I was that emotional but I did see him almost cry once in a movie that had to do with war but he walked away and didn’t show his emotions

]]> By: Rori Raye http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/cry-and-make-him-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-57 Rori Raye Thu, 18 Sep 2008 20:18:42 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=7#comment-57 Wow, Thank You so much for this, Cassandra. Hearing your story is so helpful - it makes it so much easier for all of us to actually get how this works. It makes us feel braver to try it...Love, Rori Wow, Thank You so much for this, Cassandra. Hearing your story is so helpful – it makes it so much easier for all of us to actually get how this works. It makes us feel braver to try it…Love, Rori

]]> By: Cassandra http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/vulnerability/cry-and-make-him-love-you/comment-page-1/#comment-56 Cassandra Thu, 18 Sep 2008 20:00:56 +0000 http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/?p=7#comment-56 Hi Rori, I must admit that I actually experienced this very thing just last night. My man and I were watching that TV show "Bones". We were all snuggled up together watching the show and it was an episode where a german shephard was ordered by his master to attack a man but the dog ended up killing him. In the end of the show the german shephard ended up dying. I am an animal LOVER so of course when the dog died, I had tears running down my face. I happen to be laying in a position where my man could not see my face but he noticed that I was wiping a tear from my cheek. As soon as he saw that, he took my face in his hands and lifted my chin up so that I had to look at him and he then LOVINGLY asked me if I was crying and why. I simply told him that I felt sad because the dog died and he only did what he was ordered to do, that it was not even his fault but his master was at fault. MY MAN, my usually distant, seemingly unfeeling and somewhat emotionally cold man.....then LOVINGLY wiped the tears from my eyes, rubbed his hand across my face and kissed my forehead. I was shocked. I didn't even do any of this on purpose - I was simply watching a silly TV show that brought up some emotions in me that made me cry. I guess the fact that I felt sad because of the dog dying and showed that without hiding it touched his heart and moved him to "take care of me" so to speak in the way that he did. All I can say is that it was wonderful and I felt so loved. I have really been trying to use your Feeling Messages lately and I have indeed noticed a big difference. The experience that I mentioned above was most definitely 'by accident' but I will always remember it as a HUGE learning tool for me!! Thank you for all you do!! Love, Cassandra Hi Rori,
I must admit that I actually experienced this very thing just last night. My man and I were watching that TV show “Bones”. We were all snuggled up together watching the show and it was an episode where a german shephard was ordered by his master to attack a man but the dog ended up killing him. In the end of the show the german shephard ended up dying. I am an animal LOVER so of course when the dog died, I had tears running down my face. I happen to be laying in a position where my man could not see my face but he noticed that I was wiping a tear from my cheek. As soon as he saw that, he took my face in his hands and lifted my chin up so that I had to look at him and he then LOVINGLY asked me if I was crying and why. I simply told him that I felt sad because the dog died and he only did what he was ordered to do, that it was not even his fault but his master was at fault. MY MAN, my usually distant, seemingly unfeeling and somewhat emotionally cold man…..then LOVINGLY wiped the tears from my eyes, rubbed his hand across my face and kissed my forehead. I was shocked. I didn’t even do any of this on purpose – I was simply watching a silly TV show that brought up some emotions in me that made me cry. I guess the fact that I felt sad because of the dog dying and showed that without hiding it touched his heart and moved him to “take care of me” so to speak in the way that he did. All I can say is that it was wonderful and I felt so loved.

I have really been trying to use your Feeling Messages lately and I have indeed noticed a big difference. The experience that I mentioned above was most definitely ‘by accident’ but I will always remember it as a HUGE learning tool for me!! Thank you for all you do!!

Love,
Cassandra

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