Having Sex WITHOUT Getting Hung Up On Him

If you’ve ever felt “hung up” on any and every man you slept with – even though you KNEW he was a lost cause, even though you KNEW he wouldn’t call again, that he wasn’t marriage material, and that your heart would hurt very quickly – here’s some thoughts, jumped off of a comment by…

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The Truth Is Sexy

If you’ve ever felt torn in two directions with a man, and you’re struggling with following your heart or your own Boundary “Rules” – here’s a letter from Hannah we can work with: “Hi Rori, I am reading the ebook and doing the writing exercises. I already feel better. I decided that clenching my fists…

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Holidays And Love

The Holidays are slipping away from me. I’m buzzing, speeding, moving faster than sound waves. Brain on overdrive, pedal to the metal. It’s Hanukkah. It’s Christmas. It’s Kwanzaa. It’s New Year’s. All at once. I see my entire life in rewind. My whole life crammed into two weeks. I remember my childhood and the Hanukkah…

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How To Move On From A Broken Engagement

Here’s a heartbreaking letter from Leslie, who’s suffering the surprise and sudden end of her 6 year relationship: “Rori, I thought I was in a wonderful relationship with a man I have been with off and on for 6 years. He had given my an engagement ring and we planned to get married next June.…

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Look Confident Even When You’re Confused

Here’s a letter from Rachel, and It’s so universal, I’m going to write a lot about the issue of “Confidence.”: “Rori, Here’s my situation, I have been single for about a year, and can’t figure out why.  I’m quite attractive and at times confident (if I’m not interested in a man), but as soon as…

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If You’re Addicted To Men – Do This

Allana Pratt, the Sexy Mom Expert (and I know her and love her and she truly is…) wrote a comment about my Circular Dating as Healing post – you can read the whole comment here-> and basically, she deals with her clients a bit differently than I do in this one way… For the most…

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Should You Ignore Him Or Let Him In?

Have you ever felt like a guy was hanging around you, but he just never asks for a regulation date? And you don’t know how to behave? Here’s a situation from Helene I think is pretty universal – especially if you live in a small town where everyone hangs out together and seems to know…

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Porn And Your Relationship

Okay – this is a tough, tough topic – and I asked Tinque to guest post about it – because she’s dealt with it in her own life, becoming an amazing woman, an absolute expert and a great coach. Her take is completely the opposite of everything you’ll hear out there, and I’ll be asking…

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What To Do With Your Rage – Bethany 6

Bethany’s now moved from anguish – to anguish and RAGE, and though she’s trying to cork the rage, it just squeaks out – see if this will help you: “Hi, Rori, I saw Carl in the computer lab today and I felt angry. He was with a student and the three of us ended up…

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