How To Negotiate Being A “Girlfriend”

Here’s my answer for Baby Blue Eyes – First – the question: “Hi Rori, I have a question for you about the ‘Girlfriend Trap.’ I love the concept, but if a man officially asks a lady to be his ‘girlfriend,’ how does one decline – without putting him ‘off’?” And here’s my answer: Blue Eyes…

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Support For You If You Have Health Issues

So many of the women I talk with are dealing with serious health issues like chronic illness, chronic fatigue, cancer, heart problems – so many other physical issues that take up all your time and energy, and make everything else in life so much more challenging. I just read a comment here from Caroline, and wanted her,…

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How To Glide Through Scary Dating

This post is in answer to Alias Girl – who’s working with Circular Dating and how to deal with men she doesn’t like, who offend her, who only want sex, or who are boring to her and who she no longer wants to date.  You can see the back and forth comments here-> This is…

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Turn Yourself On All Day Long

Sex and sexuality and sensuality – all together – is such a powerful topic, and we hardly ever discuss it. It’s SO easy to get comfortable in the “companionship” part of any relationship (not only in a marriage), and just let the “juice” fade out. And “scheduled” sex feels like such a chore…we’re all overworked…

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Madonna’s Divorce And Your Love Life

Although no one can even pretend to know what exactly happened between Madonna and Guy Richie after all these years of being together in a rare, successful marriage – my own best guess would be that Madonna is not a woman willing to “work” on a relationship that doesn’t feel good to her. Perhaps this…

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Revive Sex In Your Relationship

Okay – we’re going to start talking about sex, and how to bring it back in a relationship or marriage that’s been going without. I’m jumping off a comment by Reshi – who’s been in a nearly sexless marriage for a long time.  She says “…He sleeps in the guest room, won’t have sex with…

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Channel Your Feminine Power Into The Next Step

I’m jumping off into some next steps after your wonderful Riffing and turning things around. I totally don’t want to move too fast here. You have to really get into the steps we’ve done – they have to become automatic in order for you to take this next step – so make sure you can…

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What To Do When You Feel Rejected

I’m going to tackle “Rejection” here. So many of us have stayed a long time in a relationship where we’ve been rowing the boat, carrying the water, doing EVERYTHING imaginable to keep the boat AFLOAT and it’s just falling apart.  He’s just so careless about us we don’t know what to do next. (Yes, I…

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