When Your Boyfriend Wants Space – Focus on YOU

This is from Maria’s comment: “My boyfriend and I for almost 2 years now are often more off than on. (On and Off) Of course I’ve done all the things should not do. However he told me he needed some space away from me. Has stopped calling me. I know we love each other, but…

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How To Manage The Men Who Show Up

There were so many brilliant comments and questions to my post on what to do if you’re Attracting Low Quality Men…so check out the comments, and I’ll answer them here… First – Daria…about going to see this man.  A platonic male friend is one thing (When I’ve had those in my life – it was…

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If You’re Attracting Low-Quality Men – Try This

This is fantastic! I’m truly starting to get a fuller idea of who you are and what your situation is – and yet I’m going to answer just off of each comment, as if I don’t know you, to give a better answer… FIRST – it’s important that you know we are all DIFFERENT. Our…

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How To Deal With A Depressed Man

We’re talking about attracting and then rejecting “low-quality” men – or just men YOU don’t feel are good quality. And we’re talking about what to do with those men for PRACTICE (and perhaps even TRANSFORMING them) instead of passing on them and shutting them out the moment their bad qualities show up. This answer is…

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If He’s Keeping You Off Balance, Do This

If you’ve been putting up with confusing behavior from a man, and it doesn’t feel good, I know how you feel. You know many of my most embarrassing, humiliating stories, and how I stopped allowing that kind of “man who feels good but makes me feel bad” into my life – and I want to…

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Love The Sensations In Your Body

Here’s a Tweak for the last step we did in this series, about going into the SENSATIONS in your body that come up as you’re RIFFING through these Tools. In step one, you listed your “problems.” then we Flipped them into WANTS, then we went into how wanting something feels, then to how HAVING what…

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Is Fear About The Economy Affecting Your Relationship?

Fear is the enemy of love. No doubt about it. Our fear of losing ourselves, and his fear of losing himself. Our fear of being hurt, and his fear of being hurt. Our fear of being disrespected, his fear of being disrespected. Our fear of being alone, his fear of being committed forever and trapped.…

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Imagine HAVING What You Want

Okay – I want a NEW list, now – (This is getting more and more fun…) Now that you have your list of “problems” and you’ve Flipped them to WANTS, and you’ve loved and adored and accepted those wants and worries and fears – I want you to – Imagine what it would FEEL like…

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