Do You Have To Use The “Feel” Word?

I’ve been asked wonderful questions by women in my teleclass support group this session –   here’s one  I wanted to answer: “Rori, Can’t you make feeling statements without saying “I feel…”?  I feel like saying it so much is redundant and awkward.  Aren’t there other ways to make feelings statements without using those words?”…

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Thank You So Much!

Thank you so much for nominating our community here for “Best Dating Blog” at About.com! I just discovered we’d made the “Top 5” – http://dating.about.com/b/2011/02/11/readers-choice-2011-finalists-for-best-dating-blog.htm I don’t know exactly what we get if we come out on top – I think mostly “bragging rights” which can be pretty “girl” if it’s about appreciating ourselves (I…

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Don’t Get Caught in the “Lie” of Love

Here’s a great guest post from my friends and amazing relationship coaches Orna and Matthew Walters At some point every single one of us has been caught in the “LIE” of LOVE. The lie of love that says we will never feel “this way” with anyone else. The lie of love that fears we can…

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What To Do With An Imaginary Relationship

The question was from Annie. Totally classic question about dealing with what Annie herself calls an Imaginary Relationship with a guy who’s her business partner. He’s dragging his feet about commitment. He wants to be “friends with benefits.” He says go with the flow and all the buzz words guys use. The big thing that…

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Valentine’s Day Means Love Yourself

Here’s my favorite Valentine’s Day post, and let’s do it together – I’ll love me and you love you, and we’ll not have expectations or ideas about the MEANING of this “occasion.”  No man enters into this.  It’s just between me and me and you and you, and let’s see how that works! Okay –…

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Trying Out Being A Boy

Here’s a reverse! I don’t want to confuse you – but sometimes – if you’ve been the “boy” in a relationship so long, it’s hard to switch to “girl.” Or you just don’t want to. Or you don’t think it’ll work. Or you’re just subconsciously resisting so hard you feel paralyzed. When that happens with…

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A Man Who Just “Has” To Cheat

Betrayal. Cheating. Porn. Friendfinder. Emailing other women. Chatting With Other Women. And yet… He loves you… How does THAT work? Here’s where you might be going with this – you hate him. And why do you hate him? Because we’re human. We hate a man who dies before we want him to. We’re infuriated at…

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