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The Challenge:

Dear  Rori,

Love is not guaranteed no matter what you do or say ! It can’t be decided on by another person . It’s either mutual or it’s not.
Why change yourself to suit someone else !! It always best to understand why it’s not mutual and then find someone hopefully it is mutual with. !!
For all the men I loved I lost and lost everything with it so I’m penniless jobless and determined as mad. Now break that curse and I’m free to find love…Sharon

My Answer:

Sharon – none of the Modern Siren system is about “love” as conventionally thought of.

A “mutually felt” love can still go really sour if people are talking to each other in harsh words. 

Just because love is there doesn’t mean the skills TO love are.

That’s what we’re teaching in Siren School Live, and coaching on Siren Island.

We ALL unconsciously PUSH love AWAY, because intimacy is terrifying.

We also choose men who can’t love us because intimacy is terrifying (I mean emotional intimacy – physical is easy).

You’re not changing yourself to suit someone else.
You’re changing perspectives and perceptions and behaviors that are NOT “YOU” – but just “learned” from childhood on.
The thing here is to find out who YOU truly are and then attract a man who can SEE you for who you are.
This way, love is “real” – not based on chemistry, but with chemistry developed through the skills to let love grow.
Taking care of yourself, financially and in every other way is a powerful thing.
Love, Rori

 

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  1.  #1Femininewoman on July 16, 2018 at 1:43 pm

    “The thing here is to find out who YOU truly are and then attract a man who can SEE you for who you are.”

    Conscious loving and living.