Here’s an extraordinary letter from  Jane. Near the end, you’ll see it turns into a powerful  poem… The Question: “hi everyone I have finished a 5 year relationship…we broke up now and I recently found out my ex has a brain tumor behind his eye and is having serious health problems…. I feel very bad…

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The Question: “Rori, I don’t feel ready to be in a new relationship with anyone because of my feelings for and long-time commitment to a man I’m now separated from (hopefully temporarily) – and still want to Circular Date and online date as you teach. I’ve signed up for Chemistry.com and eHarmony, saying that I’m…

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Desperation is a smell. It’s a vibe you can’t hide. It infuses your body, your glands, your eyes, your hair – when we are filled with urgency, when we are tense and desperate and “needy” – there is no disguise big enough or thick enough to keep everyone around you from feeling it. AND –…

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Here’s a great situation and question to work with from “Crippled By Hurt”: The Question: “I too found the love of my life and ruined it. He moved in too fast, right out of another relationship. He was going to find an apartment but everything went so well. I was so happy. Then we started…

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Here’s a question  from Sandi: ” Rori, Hello, I had a quick question, I had a amazing relationship that started off with everything I have ever wanted ..as my feelings grew stronger and turned into a deep love I started to let my nasty voice win ..rule my insecurities about how he really felt about…

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The problem with couple’s therapy is the same as with any therapy or coaching – it’s “practitioner dependent.” In other words – the way it all feels and works is dependent on the skills of the therapist or coach. And much of the time – the therapist/coach is out of his/her depth dealing with two…

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Here’s a great story (and I consider it a success story…) from Lindsay–>> Dear Rori, I have been reading your articles for probably a year and as I read each one it seems like you are speaking directly to me and my life. With your help and the help of other advice I pulled myself…

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