A recent post was about “dealbreakers” in a relationship…About “partnership” – and the quality requirements a man has to have in order to be a good partner for you. One of the topics that came up was “smoking weed.” You can read my original post here-> And this is a brilliant reply to my post…

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I want to make sure you’re getting the most out of your experience in the community by getting your own needs for safety and expression met (rather than simply being helpful to others in the community). I actually have a set of guidelines (over in the sidebar) that officially BANS ALL advice giving (except for…

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Rori, what is it you do as a relationship coach? I teach women (and men) — whether they’re in a relationship now or want to be in a relationship — how to transform their love lives practically overnight by learning to communicate in completely new ways. This is about making changes on our side of…

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Okay – I’ve heard this SO many times: He does “all that” – the integrating of his life with yours, calling you his girlfriend, giving you a good amount of time and energy, the calling…and then at 8 to 10 months – or a year and 1/2 – he fades. You discover he’s discovered he’s…

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Here’s a great question from “Sunshine” about sharing some deep feelings of hurt: The Question: “Hello everyone, I am new to this blog and I hope not to be intrusive. I just have a question… must a man know you have cried for him if you’re trying to be sincere and open up to him?…

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Jumping off a comment from “Z”: The Question: “Rori, So I love this. M and I have been seeing each other 4 months now. Before him, I’ve never trusted a man to have his space, his alone time, his time away. In the past, it would trigger my insecurities and I’d lean forward to try…

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Because my husband, Jeffrey Levine, is a “Non-Violent communication” specialist, I get all kinds of great tips, Tools and interactions from and with him. The other night – I could FEEL myself wanting to object to what he was saying, wanting it MY way, not “getting” his point of view, feeling “unheard” – all of…

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Here’s a great question about everyday life, losing the “juice” and bringing a man (and yourself!) back from the “brink” of losing interest. The Question: “Hi Rori, I live and work with my man, and I make boundaries about ‘work’ and ‘personal’ time. Lately he’s been getting resentful towards me because he is saying he’s…

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