Don’t Walk On Eggshells

Here’s a situation close to my heart that I haven’t really talked about much before…this letter states the problem exactly, and I’d love to get a dialogue going around it… “Hi Rori, I am 27 years old, I been with my high school sweetheart for almost ten years. We have been engaged for about ten…

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Circular Dating After 2 1/2 Years

Here’s a letter from Laura, who’s got a horrible and lovely problem, all at the same time: “Dear Rori – I have the ebook, Reconnect, and am listening to Modern Siren now. I have learned so much from you. “Here is my situation – I have a wonderful boyfriend, we’ve been together 2-1/2 years. He…

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How Expectations Can Change The Outcome

I made online friends with this incredible man, Corey Allan.  He has a terrific blog – SimpleMarriage.net, and I asked if he would write something special for us – here it is: When you get right down to it, you hear what you expect to hear, you see what you expect to see. Expectations change…

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What To Do With Your Anger – A Man’s Point Of View

Here’s a comment made by Matt in response to a series of comments started off by “Heartbeat” about how to handle your emotions – especially anger: “I’m no advice columnist, but my first inclination is to tell you that a man needs to be able to receive your honest words, he needs to be able…

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How To Undo What’s Already Been Done

Mims made a comment, and I wanted to print her question and jump off of it: “Hi Rori, First I want to thank you for helping us women learn how to be successful in our relationships. Well Rori, I recently started dating this guy who is 6 years younger than I (he’s 24 and I’m…

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The Ultimate Feeling Message Date

I just received this letter from Averie, and it’s such a testimonial to Circular Dating, and gives you so much HOPE – let it help you keep the wonderful, amazing things you’re doing: “Hi Rori, Since our last contact, I’ve made some amazing discoveries about myself and dating. I can’t wait to share with you…

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Listening At Level 3

Okay – here’s how this goes. Listening at Level 1 is – it’s all about me. Listening at Level 2 is – it’s all about you. Listening at Level 3 is – it’s all about everything. This is what I was taught at Coaches Training Institute, where I learned to be a Life Coach.  And…

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Anger Makes MORE Love When You Do It This Way

We are ALL “gurus.” We are all always in process of either understanding ourselves and knowing ourselves MORE – or working hard to AVOID understanding and knowing ourselves.  The more we avoid, the more we reduce our ability to feel, experience, and get close to a man. Anger is much easier for a man.  It’s…

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How Feeling Messages Work

Do you ever feel tempted beyond endurance to tell a man how you feel?  Even when he’s not there, or he’s not interested, or he doesn’t care, or he hasn’t called you in weeks, or you’ve been broken up? And then when you do it – you call, or email, or write, or met with…

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Healing Rage

Thank you all, so much for your comments, and I noticed a theme here. About RAGE. Here’s how I want you to frame this Rage thing in your mind: I don’t want you going back in your life, re-imagining, trying to connect your Rage up with some event or events. That’s the way some therapy…

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