A recent post was about “dealbreakers” in a relationship…About “partnership” – and the quality requirements a man has to have in order to be a good partner for you. One of the topics that came up was “smoking weed.” You can read my original post here-> And this is a brilliant reply to my post…

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It’s possible that most of us have never known true intimacy from the moment we came into the world. We’ve been labelled, taught, cajoled and prodded, been threatened by all forms of authority, told what’s true and what isn’t, and disrespected for everything from our feelings to our thoughts. Our relationships have been more about…

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The Question: “…How do I Circular Date without actually going on dates? Answer From Siren Island Coach Debra Darlen: …Oh and this is ‘easy’ for me…cause I do it all the time!! CDING has several..’flavors’ to it….in a sense… One flavor..for me… is..simply ….being consciously aware….of….your surroundings…like engaging ‘all five senses’….each one of them..consciously…every time…

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BIG concepts, rather than moment-by-moment solutions (which I know is a frustrating way to go when you want to SOLVE something, or GET something – for me, too!) – are the “other side” of “tiny baby-steps.” In order to continually feel motivated to take those baby steps, and get results every time we do to…

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The Question: “Rori, I’ve gone through so many men and relationships, and nothing seems to work. It just hurts…’Blue’“ My Answer: Dear Blue, I so remember feeling like this…and what, to me, is happening here is that you’re slowly going through men, and separating the “wheat from the chaff.”   The more you practice being…

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I was just written a lovely note about “Get Him Back” – with a question: “Isn’t ‘getting’ a man back a masculine thing?” In other words, does it seem like a violation of the feminine energy we are all about here at Siren School to “get” anything? And I thought about it quite a bit,…

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This is a great article by Natalina Love, who’s coaching Siren island this week – don’t miss her! Her definition of “dating” is awesome (I put it in red) – I’m going to use it often… By Natalina Love Have you ever felt confused about how long to wait for a man to commit? Have…

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From Helena Hart: Here’s an inspiring success story from an amazing woman who met the man of her dreams while she was in a seemingly hopeless place (and actually pregnant with another man’s child!). Here’s what she has to say… “My story starts two years ago where I was just doing what every normal women…

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Your vibe shifts with practice.  Practice is the key here, and then finding a way to lift your spirits and motivation so that you feel curious about what and who is “next” rather than dread-filled.   I know from all my clients (and now my coaches’ clients!) experiences that the man for them, the lifelong…

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