The Question: What do you think causes us to lose our connection with a man? My Answer: There are two sides to this. One is what if we never had a connection with him? Do we say we lost it? The other is we had it, what happened? It’s gone. I’m going to say something…

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Here’s How “Work” Works For Me: I get up in the morning. I quickly get out the door (eat something – I keep experimenting with that – drink water, bundle up) and go out walking with my dog Zeke. We come back. I feed him, I feed myself. (I use all that time to practice…

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Here’s a great question from Sandy about how to simply “share yourself” with a man in words: “Rori, one big question I have is, you said to speak to him in short sentences and when he is in front of me, just basically nod or say “ok, I understand” or ‘oh that’s interesting’ etc and…

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There is simply no way to live a full, magnificent life without getting your inner “Boy” out there in a huge way. You WANT to encourage your Boy energy to to do the tech, logistical, organizational things that need doing to get yourself where you want to be, making the contribution to this world you…

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I’ve been asked wonderful questions by women in my teleclass support group this session –   here’s one  I wanted to answer: “Rori, Can’t you make feeling statements without saying “I feel…”?  I feel like saying it so much is redundant and awkward.  Aren’t there other ways to make feelings statements without using those words?”…

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Here’s a great piece from Ann O’Brien, and so I wanted to let you know about her upcoming classes, too…I love Ann, so check out her website and get to know her and her work… Are you pulling your hair out wishing your man would come forward and initiate more… whether you’re wanting a date,…

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I’m laying in bed with a cold/flu for company. My husband is out of town, my mother is doing without me today, my card and gift sit on my dining room table, my daughter will see me later with food rescue, and I wonder how I can Circular Date from here! It brings back memories…

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I got this letter from Allana Pratt yesterday and loved it so much, I wanted you to see it. OK. I’m dating this new man. I was feeling very crunchy, pissed off by his lack of being impeccably present, grounded or thinking positively. Grrrrr…. I was going through my normal reasoning of why this one…

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I wanted to write this as sort of a companion piece to my “Love and Memory” post – it’s a small exercise to use along with other of my Tools that work differently – so if it seems contradictory to other Tools, it’s not….it’s just a different angle.  I’m all about seeing what works for…

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