Soft Feelings

Hi – just a very quick post to thank you all – to say how absolutely lovely the energy is on here. Can you feel it? Everything’s soft and deep – and it’s so relaxing to read through the comments – it’s like every comment of yours is a gem – so helpful – peaceful,…

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Be Your Heart And Get HIS Heart

This fabulous letter is from Pamela Tames, who has a great site http://SeasonedSex.com – and to me – it just speaks so powerfully about how we all go to our “Default” position when we don’t feel comfortable – and how getting aware of what that is for each of us, and using my Tools to…

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Get Your Man to Come To YOU…

Leaning Forward and Leaning Back are Tools that help you “get” – in your BODY – what the “energy flow” between you and a man feels like. And most of us are ALWAYS Leaning Forward.  Because Leaning Forward is the same as “giving, serving, offering, doing…” all the Masculine Energy things we’re taught to do…

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Do WORDS Make You a “Bitch?”

We’re talking about how “bitchy” is just being a girl with the wrong words. How “Bitch” is much closer to Feminine energy than stuffing down feelings and “never letting him see you at your worst.” Yep – he’s rather see your “weakness” break through Authentically than tolerate your “bitchiness” – but he’s also rather have…

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What Exactly IS a “Bitch?” – Part 2

In trying to define what a “bitch” is – taking into account what OTHER people (men especially) think about that word, we get into the idea of Masculine and Feminine Energy, which is at the core of my methods. Even though much of the world has changed, and women are getting ever-more successful everywhere, we…

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What Exactly IS a “Bitch?” – Part 1

I was always taught that “bitch” was about the worst thing a woman could be. It meant mean, nasty, aggressive, thoughtless, self-involved. But MORE than that, it meant “uppity” – sort of like as a “woman” you weren’t supposed to do and be certain things. I grew up as Feminism was beginning and blooming, and…

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