When you feel yourself putting yourself down, questioning if there’s something “wrong” with you (perhaps you’re feeling extra “needy,” have extra expectations of a man that throw you off balance…) – can you isolate that voice that’s loudly screaming at you that you did something “wrong” (or that there’s something

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Hi, This is Rori, Have you ever been in pain over a relationship, and a friend comes along and tells you to “relax” – and that just sounds to you like “suck it up” – or some other dismissive, easy thing for them to say? I’ve always felt even worse when someone says something like…

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I just happened on this…an ultimate athlete and ultimate “girl.” Listen to how everything she says is about “How it feels….” !!    

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One of my totally talented RRRCT coaches, Katy Sykes, saw an entire article centered on Circular Dating posted on a website – with no mention of Rori Raye – and asked if it came from an RRRCT coach. No. It’s someone else – several other “experts,” taking the phrase “Circular Dating” – which is totally…

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I just got this letter from Lynda Malerstein, a great hypnotherapist in Los Angeles, who’s helping me prepare for my hip surgery and all the emotional responses triggered by it. Although the story Lynda tells is specific – think of this letter in terms of Love: of dating, of having an important conversation with anyone,…

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Here’s my favorite Holiday post….and happy everything to you… Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Winter Solstice, many more traditions both religious and secular – all together, all at once the mere thought of it fills me with feelings of dread. Is it because I remember that winter in New York and how depressed that year was? Is…

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A note about stuckness: Do you feel like you’re stuck on one ride in your Theme Park? Playing one role in your art work? Stuck with one media, one trick, one way, one man, one anything? Do you feel like you always go to the same PLACE in you? the same part of your Theme…

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Ever get this inner rage feeling where you want to spew all over everyone? I’m feeling that right this minute, and so this blog post is right from now, me talking into my phone on a dog walk. And now, as I speak – it’s faded. In the past. My husband triggered me, I felt…

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From Elizabeth Gilbert, author of “Eat, Pray, Love,” “Committed,” “The Signature Of All Things,”  “Big Magic” and so many other articles, stories and books: “Generally speaking I feel like I want to encourage people to have the most expanded version of their life they can possibly have in every way — spiritually, creatively and geographically.…

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