Here’s a letter from a great client who’s long-distance boyfriend put her at emotional arms-length because – he said – he didn’t like all the anger and fighting between them. So – she’s quite brilliantly working on many Tools and things she can shift. In this letter, she talks about : ***Dropping the Ball (she’s…

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Long distance is too hard. I don’t wish that for any of you.  If you’ve married a career armed forces man – you will always be far away from him at one time or another.  If you’ve married a pilot, you will miss him much of the time. If you’ve made the decision to marry…

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Have you ever stayed hooked on a man, afraid to do anything that would rock the boat, even though the relationship is totally stuck? We all have.  And I don’t want you to do that anymore. Here’s a letter from Jeanette to start the conversation: “Dear Rori, I am in a long distance relationship and…

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A bunch of comments here centered around what to do in this situation: A man cancels on you. Could be: He hasn’t called even though he said he would or you hoped he would, or he makes a date and then doesn’t call to confirm or show up, or he cancels a Saturday night date,…

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Sometimes the hardest thing about long-distance relationships is when the long-distance part is over. Here’s a letter from Sarah, who’s struggling with just that: “Dear Rori, I am Sarah. I have this wonderful guy, we are engaged, almost getting married but things went wrong and now I don’t even know the status of my relationship. Like…

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When all you have is the phone, email and texts to keep in touch with the man you love, because you live in different cities or even different countries, you have to know how to use what you’ve got. (In my Heart Connection Toolkit CD set, I teach you the Goodnight Talk, and walk you through…

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A Long-Distance Relationship feels difficult if you and your man can really DO a real, in-person relationship. And Long-Distance feels wonderful (in an underground, subconscious way) if you and your man have fear of intimacy and long-standing patterns of pushing love away. In other words, some long-distance couples are happiest when apart, and fall to pieces when they actually…

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Here’s a question – from “Alice” – to start this discussion: “Dear Rori, Please tell me if your principles for successful relationships apply to long distance relationships. Thanks, Alice” Okay – this is a big one. How do you have a “relationship” with a man you only see every-once-in-awhile? How can you stay bonded to…

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